Cree Summer don't want a Coli breh

[Wiseborn]

I attribute it to the pendulum swing phenomenon. There's very little a woman can do that a man can't now, and there's relatively no backlash or questions relative to it. They're in the military, they're CEOs, they're fighting in UFC, they're smashing nikkas like they're nikkas.

And in all honesty, I'm all for it. But my thing is, is that really what you want? For 90% of women, I'm going to be careful how I say this... I think they want the ability to do it, I don't think they really want to do it. And if it is... why are you complaining about traditional gender roles and openly opining that you want traditionality.

As I said, I'll get with a chick that makes twice as much as me, but I'm still going to move like a masculine dude (I know some think that ain't possible). I know for me, getting with the right woman is going to take me to another level anyway, that's why I really do seek to be in a meaningful relationship.

I'll be gentlemenly all day within what I determine is reasonable, but I think too many people are wired in the old way of thinking. So I'll continue to climb the corporate ladder get my titles and paper up, but I'm not rolling out a red carpet for a woman until she's actually my woman. If that's a problem as I suspect it has been in some of my interactions, I'll just continue to spin plates until I crap out.

Yes it’s essentially FOMO they want to try all the things then switch it up at the end the problem is most women don’t understand tradeoff’s and compromises.

Look at Helle Berry she’s rich and she’s washed she learned after David Justice that noone with options was standing for her bullshyt so she started buying dikk. even the white dikk she brought wasn’t putting up with certain bullshyt so they demanded marriage and alimony on the back end.


Now she’s with Van Hunt who’s always been a Private citizen paying all the bills and homie plays his position

That’s the thing Cree Lisa Jasmine and Tracee is washed and rich but they haven’t come to terms with wanting a complaint cuck to trick on.

 

[Wiseborn]

The problem with these 50 + year old actresses is they’re still using the nostalgia card of them being apart of our childhood/first crush/black culture so they deserve a top 1% man financially who is higher up on the social status ladder than them and he better be a god fearing faithful man who isn’t misogynistic but can stop a burglar late at night downstairs in the house

Yes they want a nikka to write checks without the ability to check them.

Again these chicks ain’t hideous but they’re washed meaning they’re old and this is the age when women understand Why did they get Married?

Look at Prime Jason’s Lyric Jada and old hardfaced Jada now. Again not bad looking and actually great looking for a woman of her age but but Will when he was fat is avoiding way flyer girls than her.

Women get married so when they get old they have a good spades partner.

 

[Vandelay]

You’re correct but you actually ruin women’s marriage prospects by elevating them.

Again I’ll bet Cree doesn’t understand why she doesn’t get acting jobs either.

Yeah, I heard this stat. The more educated a woman is, the narrower her marriage prospects get.

Women aren't gonna wanna hear this... that's self-imposed.

 

[Pegasus Jackson]

Not sure who more fukking insufferable. Black Israelites screaming on the street corner with a megaphone, or pseudo intellectual, sage burning ass Bohemian noni juice drinking bytches with tapestries above their beds pontificating in circles for hours.

 

[JustRegularBlack]

I mean, it was essentially that. My statement wasn't coming from a place of agreement, rather understanding. She verbally acknowledged a dude that can't be a provider can't get in her panties. But I think by acknowledging the dynamic exists we hopefully can get closer to a solution. Women only had the agency they've had for what, 60 years? It’s been 60,000 of the previous gender dynamics. We're not getting over that overnight.

I think women need to acknowledge as they get closer to parity with dudes, you can't always date up. And for those that do, and I did hear her say this... it don't get her panties wet when she is in her masculine outside of the bedroom. I'm not gonna get into no "natural order of things" bullshyt, but there are consequences with changing gender dynamics.

I'm a progressive dude and have no problem dating a chick that makes more than me and I'm in the upper echelons salary wise, but anytime a woman has thought or actually did make more than me, they get weird lol... it NEVER fails.

If societally people want to acknowledge toxic masculinity, we need to acknowledge that this amongst several other attributes is toxic femininity.

I didn't listen to the whole thing, but yeah she probably smashing YN's until she's completely washed, which that's her prerogative. But that's never a fulfilling situation for most, and I can tell from her response it's not fulfilling her. And yeah, she wasted her prime years being on some bullshyt, but hopefully there's lessons to be learned for others. We all have a clock.

It's pretty easy for a fairly intelligent woman to point out the patriarchy based issues they face. However it takes emotional maturity and accountability for them to understand the way they've possibly contributed and continue to contribute to the system.

Most people aren't fighting for equality. They're fighting for the advantage.

 

[Vandelay]

It's pretty easy for a fairly intelligent woman to point out the patriarchy based issues they face. However it takes emotional maturity and accountability for them to understand the way they've possibly contributed and continue to contribute to the system.

Most people aren't fighting for equality. They're fighting for the advantage.

Day + rep + quote

This is exactly what is. It's not woman exclusive. It's people in general. They want the power. Women see they have an opportunity to do the same. But absolute power in a relationship ISN'T a relationship. It's coercion, it's manipulation, it's a bunch of different things that don't equate to a sustainable situation. People in a relationship need to be uniquely who they are, but compromise has to come into play too. I see it in so many different facets, people want to have the upper hand.

How I navigate this is, I'm gonna be uniquely me, but I will compromise on some things, but you're not going to change who I am, and I'm definitely not going to compromise if I don't see you responding in kind. I deal with a lot of professional women and this is one thing I notice amongst a lot of them, they think compromise is belittling who they are. If you're not mature enough to understand that there's a difference, I can't be with you.

 

[Wiseborn]

Yeah, I heard this stat. The more educated a woman is, the narrower her marriage prospects get.

Women aren't gonna wanna hear this... that's self-imposed.

It’s been proven in study after study that what drives the birth rate down is female education.

And the reason it drives birth rates down is because the more access to people and resources a woman has the least likely she is to settle down and I guess women who look in the mirror 86 times a day can’t see their own fall offs.

A woman can correctly identify #uglygang but somehow Jada Pinkett can’t see that somehow she looks older than her ex heroin addicted mother.

Literally she just lost too much weight in the face and just like grey hair or baldness in Men he signals that the woman is elderly.

 

[Amo Husserl]

These are A1 posts:

I mean, it was essentially that. My statement wasn't coming from a place of agreement, rather understanding. She verbally acknowledged a dude that can't be a provider can't get in her panties. But I think by acknowledging the dynamic exists we hopefully can get closer to a solution. Women only had the agency they've had for what, 60 years? It’s been 60,000 of the previous gender dynamics. We're not getting over that overnight.

I think women need to acknowledge as they get closer to parity with dudes, you can't always date up. And for those that do, and I did hear her say this... it don't get her panties wet when she is in her masculine outside of the bedroom. I'm not gonna get into no "natural order of things" bullshyt, but there are consequences with changing gender dynamics.

I'm a progressive dude and have no problem dating a chick that makes more than me and I'm in the upper echelons salary wise, but anytime a woman has thought or actually did make more than me, they get weird lol... it NEVER fails.

If societally people want to acknowledge toxic masculinity, we need to acknowledge that this amongst several other attributes is toxic femininity.

I didn't listen to the whole thing, but yeah she probably smashing YN's until she's completely washed, which that's her prerogative. But that's never a fulfilling situation for most, and I can tell from her response it's not fulfilling her. And yeah, she wasted her prime years being on some bullshyt, but hopefully there's lessons to be learned for others. We all have a clock.

I attribute it to the pendulum swing phenomenon. There's very little a woman can do that a man can't now, and there's relatively no backlash or questions relative to it. They're in the military, they're CEOs, they're fighting in UFC, they're smashing nikkas like they're nikkas.

And in all honesty, I'm all for it. But my thing is, is that really what you want? For 90% of women, I'm going to be careful how I say this... I think they want the ability to do it, I don't think they really want to do it. And if it is... why are you complaining about traditional gender roles and openly opining that you want traditionality.

As I said, I'll get with a chick that makes twice as much as me, but I'm still going to move like a masculine dude (I know some think that ain't possible). I know for me, getting with the right woman is going to take me to another level anyway, that's why I really do seek to be in a meaningful relationship.

I'll be gentlemenly all day within what I determine is reasonable, but I think too many people are wired in the old way of thinking. So I'll continue to climb the corporate ladder get my titles and paper up, but I'm not rolling out a red carpet for a woman until she's actually my woman. If that's a problem as I suspect it has been in some of my interactions, I'll just continue to spin plates until I crap out.

Spoiler: And there is something implied between the lines of what you are saying that I do not think a lot of men are seeing in the dating scene lately:

women want femininity and masculinity, they want fluid gender qualities short of fluid gender identity. This could be the parity you mean. Women wanting to be socially equal to men has likely caused women to have fluid gender qualities to achieve an assumed parity with men and if that is true then men have a reason to be apprehensive about women who outwardly exhibit strong fluid gender qualities because men are expected to exhibit masculinity.

Men are socially held to standards of masculinity, not masculinity and femininity. Women have allowance to be socially fluid by exhibiting fluid gender qualities that men do not. This is not parity. To have true parity both men and women would have to exhibit fluid gender qualities and these would have to be socially accepted without question. I think some branches of feminism have misled women into a false sense of empowerment by seeking assumed parity instead of true parity.

One of the problems associated with assumed parity is the lack of long-term meaningful pairing between women and men. I think this is a problem of feminism, that is has imported internalized misogyny from men due to the historical practice of western gender dynamics that subordinates women to men, this is white European tradition. As the western world developed and assimilated people not native to white European traditions, femininity in general becomes something women have to protect because they are degraded for it and when they celebrate femininity and try to develop their femininity independent of white European masculine quality standards they are put down for it.

Because women could not freely develop femininity without subordinating it to masculinity, women have assimilated qualities of masculinity into their gender identity and because of this they are no longer feminine in the traditional sense according to white European standards. This is a composite form of gender expression that is seeing pushback because it is not what is assumed to be feminine. I would argue that men do not know what true femininity is and after practicing a composite gender expression for so long women lose an innate understanding of what femininity is and how it is practiced so they say they channel masculine qualities instead of refining their feminine qualities.

I do not think this is a problem with capitalism, but capitalism and white European gender dynamics as a result of colonialism that have misled women by enforcing for them a false dilemma rooted in internalized misogyny that has led them to accept assumed parity, a composite gender expression made up of feminine and masculine qualities. Part of this practice of assumed parity is financial because having material wealth, and a well-paying job and being well-educated is traditionally accepted as a masculine trait in the white European tradition.

Only recently have women begun to deal with this, and there will be some problems for both women and men to work out before a complementary state, not a state of parity, is reached between them.

 

[King Poetic]

Dudes really have to sit down and think

Cree summer, lisa raye, vivica fox, claudia jordan, tracee ellis ross, etc etc and all of these single old birds 30 years ago was passing that p*ssy around from Bobby Brown, 50 cent, Suge, Puffy, and other high level dudes and none of those nikkas took them off the market

So u think at 50,55,60 years old that you are in high demand

Of course young nikkas are going to fukk, because you are just a name they can add to HEY YA’LL I KNOCKED DOWN THAT OLD bytch TRACEE OR LISA RAYE

Nobody taking these old Hollywood broads serious

bytches got ran through for years and still think someone is going to purchase that 95 maxima

 

[Wiseborn]

Not sure who more fukking insufferable. Black Israelites screaming on the street corner with a megaphone, or pseudo intellectual, sage burning ass Bohemian noni juice drinking bytches with tapestries above their beds pontificating in circles for hours.

I agree with you but I’m attracted to Black Bohemian chicks and and they’re attracted to me.

I plan on growing the majority of my food soon so I low key need a Plant based mama in my life.

A bytch eating pig is a no no to me.

 

[Vandelay]

Dudes really have to sit down and think

Cree summer, lisa raye, vivica fox, claudia jordan, tracee ellis ross, etc etc and all of these single old birds 30 years ago was passing that p*ssy around from Bobby Brown, 50 cent, Suge, Puffy, and other high level dudes and none of those nikkas took them off the market

So u think at 50,55,60 years old that you are in high demand

Of course young nikkas are going to fukk, because you are just a name they can add to HEY YA’LL I KNOCKED DOWN THAT OLD bytch TRACEE OR LISA RAYE

Nobody taking these old Hollywood broads serious

bytches got ran through for years and still think someone is going to purchase that 95 maxima

Salli Richardson learned the lesson that these others didn't.