Mordith
H.E.N.R.Y.
No man is having the best sex of his life with you ma'am..... 
Cree Summer don't want a Coli breh
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Because those Men have to be available for the reach back when they need those old nikkas
Field Marshall Bradley
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Middle aged women with high libidos is due to psychological factors mostly…. less due to biology or hormones… Either way, they still out here p*ssy popping, but trying to compete with younger chicks which is a battle they are not going to win
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Vandelay
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Still listening, didn't expect to. It's actually extremely insightful, especially in regards to gender dynamics and why so many relationships feel lopsided. What I really find interesting is even women that we perceive to be feminists still want to be feminine.
what did she say exactly?
I get the whole I’mma Boss bytch but I still expect the nikka to pay for everything.
Maybe she cleaned it up properly but I’m kinda not in the mood to hear a Blame Jermaine fest.
bourgeoisie tall freak
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Vandelay
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I mean, it was essentially that. My statement wasn't coming from a place of agreement, rather understanding. She verbally acknowledged a dude that can't be a provider can't get in her panties. But I think by acknowledging the dynamic exists we hopefully can get closer to a solution. Women only had the agency they've had for what, 60 years? It’s been 60,000 of the previous gender dynamics. We're not getting over that overnight.
I think women need to acknowledge as they get closer to parity with dudes, you can't always date up. And for those that do, and I did hear her say this... it don't get her panties wet when she is in her masculine outside of the bedroom. I'm not gonna get into no "natural order of things" bullshyt, but there are consequences with changing gender dynamics.
I'm a progressive dude and have no problem dating a chick that makes more than me and I'm in the upper echelons salary wise, but anytime a woman has thought or actually did make more than me, they get weird lol... it NEVER fails.
If societally people want to acknowledge toxic masculinity, we need to acknowledge that this amongst several other attributes is toxic femininity.
I didn't listen to the whole thing, but yeah she probably smashing YN's until she's completely washed, which that's her prerogative. But that's never a fulfilling situation for most, and I can tell from her response it's not fulfilling her. And yeah, she wasted her prime years being on some bullshyt, but hopefully there's lessons to be learned for others. We all have a clock.
Vandelay
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I agree. I fully believe women deserve the same rights as dudes, and in 99% of things they are just as capable as a man. Thoughts on my other post above?equal rights should have no gender
Thanks for the rundown. I listen to a fair amount of hoe babble. I kinda liked Cree when I thought she was this weird boho chick.
I kinda don’t want to ruin the image and we just heard Tracee say the same thing but if you brought up Kevin’s predictions they’d claim to not understand
Also Biracials Her Lisa and Jasmine Guy had super falloffs with Lisa’s being the worse since she was the most conventionally attractive. That’s double the KS predictions because they were the to use the shea butta phrase The preference but fell super hard and they can’t understand it.
They probably don’t know how old they look compared to Fully Black women and they wonder why old ass Sheryl Lee Ralph is Married and they are not.
You’re correct but you actually ruin women’s marriage prospects by elevating them.
Again I’ll bet Cree doesn’t understand why she doesn’t get acting jobs either.
bourgeoisie tall freak
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i didn't watch the video so i am assuming this is a "provider" conversation? i think it's a human nature thing, i am pretty sure if everyone if given a choice between 2 options they are going to pick the option that comes with free ish if everything else is equal. it's just easy to be nicer when you are getting something for free. i think that goes for any gender lol
No it doesn’t. Kadeem Hardison would be way more Ok with being a Provider than Cree Summer is.
If it were a situation where Men and women wanted the same things then people would play their positions easier.
A Man would rather work hard and get the women that he wants wheras a woman ain’t really trying to anything to secure a Man unless he’s a provider.
Vandelay
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I attribute it to the pendulum swing phenomenon. There's very little a woman can do that a man can't now, and there's relatively no backlash or questions relative to it. They're in the military, they're CEOs, they're fighting in UFC, they're smashing nikkas like they're nikkas.
And in all honesty, I'm all for it. But my thing is, is that really what you want? For 90% of women, I'm going to be careful how I say this... I think they want the ability to do it, I don't think they really want to do it. And if it is... why are you complaining about traditional gender roles and openly opining that you want traditionality.
As I said, I'll get with a chick that makes twice as much as me, but I'm still going to move like a masculine dude (I know some think that ain't possible). I know for me, getting with the right woman is going to take me to another level anyway, that's why I really do seek to be in a meaningful relationship.
I'll be gentlemenly all day within what I determine is reasonable, but I think too many people are wired in the old way of thinking. So I'll continue to climb the corporate ladder get my titles and paper up, but I'm not rolling out a red carpet for a woman until she's actually my woman. If that's a problem as I suspect it has been in some of my interactions, I'll just continue to spin plates until I crap out.
Vandelay
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There were several facets to the convo. I didn't listen to the whole thing. Provider and being able to express her sexuality were 2 of them. I think the lessons she's understanding now in her 50s are many years too late. Sounds like she understands what it takes to get what she wants, but she is stuck in her ways.
You can have everything, you just can't have it all at the same time. Society and the media has lied to us; women and men. Meaningful relationships take compromise, and so many of us think we're above that compromise; money, career and fame doesn't change that. Water is still gonna seek it's level. Not saying change who you are just to be in a relationship, but generally by a certain age, WE ALL understand the baseline of what it takes to get in a relatively stable relationship with a man or a woman. Too many of us are just on some bullshyt. Cree too.
Cool Dr. Money
I’m Lil Jimmy but my boys call me J-Murder!
The problem with these 50 + year old actresses is they’re still using the nostalgia card of them being apart of our childhood/first crush/black culture so they deserve a top 1% man financially who is higher up on the social status ladder than them and he better be a god fearing faithful man who isn’t misogynistic but can stop a burglar late at night downstairs in the house
