Cutting people off is SO nice! Y'all should try it some time.

[BK The Great]

Yea i've done that before and got the last laugh and let them know they got me fukked up

 

[King Poetic]

As you get older a whole of people will get cut of

I understand folks have families and other priorities but just a call phone or text from a homie would ne cool.. but i realized people end up with new friends or coworkers but still , a simple whats up homie would do

I only have 2 homies now and family is a whole another thing i wont even discuss

 

[diggy]

I’ve always thought people who basked in “cutting people off” as the weird and problematic one. If you have to cut people off that often, there’s probably something wrong with you

Yeah, it's called getting taken of advantage. I give people my time and energy, many don't respect that and take it for granted. I have a story I can share within the last few weeks.

 

[Tair]

Wife asks why you are home late, and she needs help with the newborn? Cut!



Thank you, OP, for helping me realign my life towards positivity and less stress.

 

[Bondye Vodou]

Lol at having to explain to grown ass mofos what they did wrong. I cut fxckas off with the quickness. Been doing it since my late teens.

 

[Dont@Me]

I used to do this but it’s immature. Let people know how they messed up before you do. You make the world better place like that …

I'm talking about people who you've let several times know how you feel about how they're already treating you

 

[Heafcliffe]

The sheer number of headaches I've relieved myself of by doing so.

 

[⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐]

OP is non confrontational so rather then communicate that somethings wrong they just leave on some passive aggressive shyt

That's called dismissive avoidance

You can go into a rundown and speel but by the time you finish the explanation and respond to their excuses and defenses now you'd practically be in a whole different argument

You had to cut them off because they were stubborn, indignant ... Unwilling to adhere or atone

When you cut them off you've already concluded that words were of no use

 

[Belize King]

Cheat code and makes life so much easier. I’m not explaining to no adult why their behavior is out of pocket. If they are really clueless they are too stupid to associate with anyways. Most people are leeches one way or another.

My Wife has to explain to her mother her behaviors while in our home. She does it as best as she can. I’ve only had one conversation with my MiL to try to soften the tone and get her side.

After a while it falls on deaf ears and it’s up to you to adjust. Boundary was set and mother in law didn’t like the fact that my Wife shorten her trips and stopped having conversations with her. You have to lessen your exposure to “abuse”. Can’t do the shyt the same every time and expect different results.

MiL got the message and they are finally are good space.

MiL let’s some spicy shyt off every so often but my Wife explains why she receives it as spicy and moves on.

MiL is always, “I’m just saying. You’re too sensitive.”

 

[Belize King]

I apply this to coworkers because idgaf about them but friends and family we have to at least have a discussion. If a discussion or two doesn’t resolve the issue then I’m cutting off a friend. Never family though. We just won’t talk as often but I could never cut off a family member.

That’s a real perspective.

 

[King Poetic]

The sheer number of headaches I've relieved myself of by doing so.

And the asking of “ hey u got 5 dollars, next week its 10, following week its 500 dollars “

You also avoid hearing people issues or problems

I be sitting around listening to my mom tell me about 10 other people issues they got going on and i be like ma u need to stop hearing these people out, thats a strain on you

 

[threattonature]

Cutting people off is necessary as hell at times. I had a good friend who I kept around because she was there for me during some really tough times. Watching her move and how foul she would do others and always make excuses for her fukked up shyt let me know she would eventually do it to me. Then she was cheating on her husband, he found out and wanted a divorce. She mentioned trying to go after him for his house and how he's so broke he wouldn't be able to afford a lawyer. I told her that it's fukked up that she was already cheating on him and how that will fukk his head up for years but to also go after his house (a house she had not spent a dime of money on towards the bills) was extra foul of her. She tried to guilt trip me and acting like I was taking his side when I told her I don't give a fukk about him it's just morally fukked up. She was also a habitual liar who loved stirring up drama. On top of that I had listened to her drama about her marriage for hours on end. I was dealing with some real shyt as I had my kid's godmother and their mother but close to death from breast cancer and she just cuts me off saying "I don't really need to hear about what you're going through".

And lastly we were on a trip and what I thought was Covid was hitting me hard. First she bytched because I wanted to wear a mask and she protested because she was worried that other people would see me wearing a mask and know I was sick and not want to talk to her. She bytched because I wanted to go get tested and she was worried we'd get quarantined. Meanwhile I wheezing and struggling to breathe. I'm a loyal MF and usually will never turn my back on anybody who has been there for me but eventually came to my senses and completely cut her out of my life.

 

[Dont@Me]

Y

Yea i've done that before and got the last laugh and let them know they got me fukked up

Yup. I got certain family members now sending me pics of the "good times" after they done fukked up, yet somehow still haven't apologized

 

[DaddyFresh]

My Wife has to explain to her mother her behaviors while in our home. She does it as best as she can. I’ve only had one conversation with my MiL to try to soften the tone and get her side.

After a while it falls on deaf ears and it’s up to you to adjust. Boundary was set and mother in law didn’t like the fact that my Wife shorten her trips and stopped having conversations with her. You have to lessen your exposure to “abuse”. Can’t do the shyt the same every time and expect different results.

MiL got the message and they are finally are good space.

MiL let’s some spicy shyt off every so often but my Wife explains why she receives it as spicy and moves on.

MiL is always, “I’m just saying. You’re too sensitive.”

Exactly. You will be at so much more peace. You can’t change people. I’m not talking about cutting people off for trivial stuff. But if an adult does something out of pocket and you don’t correct them they will do it again and again and not even bother to hide it. So you have to give them enough rope to hang themselves because most of the time calling them out just makes them get slicker about their malicious actions.

 

[Shadow]

Everybody can't go.