Damn brehs, dating apps are humbling me since I moved back to the south.

[BobbyWojak]

Seattle, Portland, Vancouver. Spent time up there when I was in the Navy. You'll see the most dusty breh you've ever seen walking hand in hand with a pawg up there. shyts kinda trash if you exclusively date black chick

I can vouch for Vancouver and Portland, overall I hate the PNW but I'd be lying if I said that easy women wasn't a silver lining. Some beautiful landscapes, but there's nothing to do and not enough Black women out there.

 

[97Pac]

Nah I eat good down south. Atlanta, B’ham, I get alot of matches

Breh you can land in Atlanta and have 20 matches by the time you get to baggage.

 

[-DMP-]

Breh you can land in Atlanta and have 20 matches by the time you get to baggage.

Lol. Yea atl one of the few times I’ve gotten overwhelmed with matches. Women be on it down there.

 

[OnlyOneBoss]

I wasn't implying that. I was just saying the eating is good up their for everybody.

Oh i gotchu breh My b


But yeah it is really mad easy for a breh out there. Lowkey hard to gain sexual discipline if you don’t already have it out there I don’t think I’m ever gonna be getting that much play ever again fr

 

[10bandz]

yall need to go to the mall and holla at some bytches

 

[BigBlackSea]

It’s easy as duck in LA just admit you’re ugly gang

Who says I ain't getting play?

I'm just stating that the pool is larger out here for competition comlared to even am Atlanta or Houston, so you gotta get your weight up.

 

[Kenny West]

Edit nvm no more free game

 

[Commish]

These cats sound down bad and still don’t want to workout

@AJD tell ‘em what your experience is like.

I don’t even use dating apps because I get overwhelmed by all the choices and matches.

OP is just sharing his frustration. Like him, the women on those apps have opportunities as well, so they gonna do what they gotta do to maximize their opportunities....

Like it or not, people use them shyts. Not everyone is willing to go out for whatever reason.

But, in OP's case, his location may have a lot to do with his situation. But, I say that he use dating apps as a supplemental means of meeting women. If he doesn't and solely rely on those apps to meet women, then he gonna continue to be frustrated.

If push comes to shove, he may need to move again, but move to a larger metropolitan area.

 

[Commish]

This. Hit up Meetup and Eventbrite for events. Utilize Tinder/Bumble/Hinge/BLK.

Check out your social circle as well. Maybe even do some campaigning in the streets daygame-style.

We know women ain't about to put themselves out there like that, and we as men certainly don't clairvoyance and telepathy to know who's choosing, so you gotta hit up everyone. Closed mouth don't get fed.

Pretty much! It's easy to get comfortable and exclusively rely on dating apps. But, with that comes consequences...

Hope OP keep that in mind??

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

Seattle, Portland, Vancouver. Spent time up there when I was in the Navy. You'll see the most dusty breh you've ever seen walking hand in hand with a pawg up there. shyts kinda trash if you exclusively date black chick

Always thought PNW was rough for dating....but maybe that's just white dudes talking shyt. Didn't realize brehs was up there.

 

[Tr0yTV]

I tried premium Match and Premium Hinge. Hinge was different on premium but quantity does not equal quality on Hinge.. I would never spend money on match again.

At that point. I would invest more in the quality of pics and wardrobe. After I did that. I got more matches than I could keep up with. Ex. Travel photos, professional photographer. Etc

 

[Doobie Doo]

At that point. I would invest more in the quality of pics and wardrobe. After I did that. I got more matches than I could keep up with. Ex. Travel photos, professional photographer. Etc

Trust me, its the same exact bytches you see for free its just you see them faster

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

Gotta expand your operations and start using FB, LinkedIn and other sites.

The way I see it, every site is a dating site.

My man's said "expand your operations" like this is a episode of The Ozarks

He's right though

 

[hatealot]

I was on tinder in South Carolina, and the women on there were

They prob all had wood paneling on their walls too

 

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