Damn this is fukked up, Only the Mom and big Cousin showed up to her 24th birthday celebration

Commish

Superstar
Supporter
Joined
Dec 2, 2015
Messages
7,606
Reputation
2,808
Daps
25,173
He was a friend of a bunch of my friends so we really only knew of each other at a surface level. I'm admittedly socially awkward so hate getting in one on one convos with people I don't know all that well.

Funny thing is the next year he did a birthday dinner. About 8 people showed up. After the dinner he wanted to keep the night going and everybody else said they were heading home. I was meeting some friends out to go bar hopping and invited him along. He hit it off with one of my friends and ended up marrying her. I personally felt bad for introducing them cause she did dude dirty.

A week or two after that initial meeting they had their first date. Later that night she participated in a mini orgy where she hooked up with two women and two dudes. Later cheated on him and they got divorced.
Dang!!

Well, salute to you for even trying to be sociable with him. Is he socially awkward as well? Is he an obnoxious person?

Seems like he don't have any real homies. His ex wife is a cold piece of work! Smh

Lemme share this with you...

I don't invite ppl over or stage parties because of a deep rooted fear of ppl now showing up.

But, I have have family functions doe family members and my house was packed for those functions.

Fast fwd..


Last year, for my born day, I was trying to have my Mom and my lady's parents meet & greet at a Mexican restaurant.

That day, my Mom told me that she was sick and wasn't able to come. Cool. So, I thought that me, my lady and possibly her folks would show up. Turned out, my lad had her folks, some of her siblings and a niece show up. I was pleasantly shocked! So, we all had a pleasant time eating. They came with šŸŽ and born day šŸŽ‚.

This Super bowl, my lady wanted me to host a small function. I invited Mom, but didn't invite anyone else. My lady invited her ppls and her folks asked me if it was cool of her folks friends could come.

My lady was there, her parents, her parent's friends and my Mom came. Our parents met. My lady's siblings couldn't come. But, my Mom wanted some of our relatives to come over.

I said that they aren't gonna show up, but if she wanna invite them, then cool. They didn't show up. No harm no foul..

The function went on and it was nice.

Moral of the story..

Iish happens. Not all of us are social šŸ¦‹ s..

Just one reason why I don't wanna go to functions. Prefer to be with ppl who wanna be around me. Otherwise, rather do my own thing OE hang out with the lady, her grown kids, Moms or whoever wanna function..
 

Big Boss

Veteran
Joined
Sep 26, 2012
Messages
188,161
Reputation
15,060
Daps
368,997
Reppin
NULL
He was a friend of a bunch of my friends so we really only knew of each other at a surface level. I'm admittedly socially awkward so hate getting in one on one convos with people I don't know all that well.

Funny thing is the next year he did a birthday dinner. About 8 people showed up. After the dinner he wanted to keep the night going and everybody else said they were heading home. I was meeting some friends out to go bar hopping and invited him along. He hit it off with one of my friends and ended up marrying her. I personally felt bad for introducing them cause she did dude dirty.

A week or two after that initial meeting they had their first date. Later that night she participated in a mini orgy where she hooked up with two women and two dudes. Later cheated on him and they got divorced.


well damn
 

threattonature

Veteran
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
25,600
Reputation
4,317
Daps
83,032
Dang!!

Well, salute to you for even trying to be sociable with him. Is he socially awkward as well? Is he an obnoxious person?

Seems like he don't have any real homies. His ex wife is a cold piece of work! Smh

Lemme share this with you...

I don't invite ppl over or stage parties because of a deep rooted fear of ppl now showing up.

But, I have have family functions doe family members and my house was packed for those functions.

Fast fwd..


Last year, for my born day, I was trying to have my Mom and my lady's parents meet & greet at a Mexican restaurant.

That day, my Mom told me that she was sick and wasn't able to come. Cool. So, I thought that me, my lady and possibly her folks would show up. Turned out, my lad had her folks, some of her siblings and a niece show up. I was pleasantly shocked! So, we all had a pleasant time eating. They came with šŸŽ and born day šŸŽ‚.

This Super bowl, my lady wanted me to host a small function. I invited Mom, but didn't invite anyone else. My lady invited her ppls and her folks asked me if it was cool of her folks friends could come.

My lady was there, her parents, her parent's friends and my Mom came. Our parents met. My lady's siblings couldn't come. But, my Mom wanted some of our relatives to come over.

I said that they aren't gonna show up, but if she wanna invite them, then cool. They didn't show up. No harm no foul..

The function went on and it was nice.

Moral of the story..

Iish happens. Not all of us are social šŸ¦‹ s..

Just one reason why I don't wanna go to functions. Prefer to be with ppl who wanna be around me. Otherwise, rather do my own thing OE hang out with the lady, her grown kids, Moms or whoever wanna function..
I'm the same way about not wanting to host events because I know too many flaky people. My fam is actually good about showing up but they live all across the country. As I've gotten older learn to appreciate the people that will actually show up.
 

IIVI

Superstar
Joined
Mar 11, 2022
Messages
15,681
Reputation
4,096
Daps
57,253
Reppin
Los Angeles
People at the event commented that they seemed like nice people.

There isn’t enough info to make a judgement on who’s really in the wrong.

There are some wonderful people out there who don’t get any support from ā€œfriendsā€ so I don’t want to act like it’s a her problem.
 
Last edited:

Savvir

Veteran
Joined
Oct 8, 2014
Messages
22,263
Reputation
3,921
Daps
114,902
Her birthday is on 3/23, a Sunday. People got work in the morning, not trying to hit the club all night on sunday
Should've had a birthday brunch instead
nah, she just dont have any real friends...

says a lot about her to be honest...

:francis:
 

AceAge

Pro
Joined
Nov 8, 2017
Messages
431
Reputation
105
Daps
1,541
He was a friend of a bunch of my friends so we really only knew of each other at a surface level. I'm admittedly socially awkward so hate getting in one on one convos with people I don't know all that well.

Funny thing is the next year he did a birthday dinner. About 8 people showed up. After the dinner he wanted to keep the night going and everybody else said they were heading home. I was meeting some friends out to go bar hopping and invited him along. He hit it off with one of my friends and ended up marrying her. I personally felt bad for introducing them cause she did dude dirty.

A week or two after that initial meeting they had their first date. Later that night she participated in a mini orgy where she hooked up with two women and two dudes. Later cheated on him and they got divorced.
wth man, how did you even find that out, about the first night they went on a date? :dwillhuh: cause that means it had to be brought up after some years because they dated long enough to get married. how you even find out she was cheating on him? and what made y’all friends initially anyway? was you going to the adult functions with her? That’s some gmb stuff right there. I bet everybody still cool with her on her side though and she still chugging along like nothing happened. Poor dude :smh:
 

AceAge

Pro
Joined
Nov 8, 2017
Messages
431
Reputation
105
Daps
1,541
nah, she just dont have any real friends...

says a lot about her to be honest...

:francis:
I went out with a woman like this, she had like 1,500 Facebook friends and all these D9 sorority and fraternity associates and in some professional associations, but on her birthday no one got her any gifts and no one visited to her house or took her anywhere for lunch dinner or drinks. It showed me a lot of this stuff is smoke and mirrors out here but she was also an awful person, to your point. I just and said I was working late every time she wanted to go out to talk about getting serious, I would just go to the gym or somewhere else.
 

skyrunner1

Superstar
Joined
Mar 11, 2022
Messages
8,280
Reputation
1,914
Daps
27,623
At this point, why go all out for a bday age of 24 :why: ?

Not 21, 18, or 50 but 24?!?

Also when a few folks come to your party, 9 times out of 10 you are human repellent. Heads got a lot of shyt to deal with, but being a wallflower to some jawn to be saditty and diva'd up.

Man we in a recession.
Kobe year! Yolo.. Who knows how many days we up!
 

Roid Jones

HVM Advocate
Supporter
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
60,401
Reputation
8,798
Daps
181,105
Maybe she's the type to say Attack of the Clones is the best Star Wars film
 

threattonature

Veteran
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
25,600
Reputation
4,317
Daps
83,032
wth man, how did you even find that out, about the first night they went on a date? :dwillhuh: cause that means it had to be brought up after some years because they dated long enough to get married. how you even find out she was cheating on him? and what made y’all friends initially anyway? was you going to the adult functions with her? That’s some gmb stuff right there. I bet everybody still cool with her on her side though and she still chugging along like nothing happened. Poor dude :smh:
I don't think the husband ever found out. I found out cause I was there. Me and her both ended up at a mutual friend's birthday party and had planned to go hang out at another friend K's spot later. Apparently dude's house is knows as the freak off spot cause multiple people at the birthday party made the comment to me to "enjoy the orgy" when they found out where I was going after.

So we end up at K's. We get to having drinks and the three girls there were comparing asses. I talk them into comparing breasts at which point the shirts came off. Then shyt actually quieted down a bit. Out of nowhere hear moaning in the living room. I go in there and my ride has got one of the girls on the couch buck naked fingering her and eating the p*ssy. That turns into one of the girls joining in and they all end up back in the bedroom. One girl was laid out with one girl going down on her and the other sucking her titties. Then K jumps behind the girl going down and starts fukking and my ride gets behind the other one. It just lead to sex in multiple rooms for like the next hour. Two of the women were begging me to fukk but I had a girl and was being faithful.

The next week I was at another friend's birthday party and was telling them what popped off the week before without mentioning names. So they started making orgy jokes. Then I find out dude from the original story was bringing my friend to the party so I had to out her and tell everybody to cut the orgy jokes because she was in the center of it. I was closer to her than him so I didn't want to blow up her spot to him.
 

The Guru

Superstar
Supporter
Joined
May 2, 2012
Messages
9,988
Reputation
2,880
Daps
35,314
Reppin
NULL
Damn..
Even I could get more people than that to show up and i'm a fukking a$$hole.:sad:
 

AceAge

Pro
Joined
Nov 8, 2017
Messages
431
Reputation
105
Daps
1,541
I don't think the husband ever found out. I found out cause I was there. Me and her both ended up at a mutual friend's birthday party and had planned to go hang out at another friend K's spot later. Apparently dude's house is knows as the freak off spot cause multiple people at the birthday party made the comment to me to "enjoy the orgy" when they found out where I was going after.

So we end up at K's. We get to having drinks and the three girls there were comparing asses. I talk them into comparing breasts at which point the shirts came off. Then shyt actually quieted down a bit. Out of nowhere hear moaning in the living room. I go in there and my ride has got one of the girls on the couch buck naked fingering her and eating the p*ssy. That turns into one of the girls joining in and they all end up back in the bedroom. One girl was laid out with one girl going down on her and the other sucking her titties. Then K jumps behind the girl going down and starts fukking and my ride gets behind the other one. It just lead to sex in multiple rooms for like the next hour. Two of the women were begging me to fukk but I had a girl and was being faithful.

The next week I was at another friend's birthday party and was telling them what popped off the week before without mentioning names. So they started making orgy jokes. Then I find out dude from the original story was bringing my friend to the party so I had to out her and tell everybody to cut the orgy jokes because she was in the center of it. I was closer to her than him so I didn't want to blow up her spot to him.
:smh:
 
Top