Women and men are both shallow yeah.. however..
You can always find tons of men who like smaller t*ts + fat ass, or big t*ts + bony ass, or skinny girls with neither, or thick girls with both, or pretty much anywhere in between. We just seem to almost universally agree to not liking obese to the point of gross-looking girls. Height seems like one of those almost universally agreed upon things among women though. Short dudes only solution is find a shorter woman and hope her only requirement is "taller than me"