That's the exact situation...I'm going over my boy's house later...This dude that I dont like is gonna probably be there....I know he is gonna try to dap me up. I'm definitely gonna curve that nikka.Depends. If it's just me and him, nawl...if we're in a group I'd probably do it to not ruin anybody else's good time.
To dap or not to dapThat's the exact situation...I'm going over my boy's house later...This dude that I dont like is gonna probably be there....I know he is gonna try to dap me up. I'm definitely gonna curve that nikka.

In this case I usually just head nod everyone instead of daps. This kind of thread came up a lot in high school. These days I see nikkaz blatantly skip over people on the dap and nobody really trips. Usually the guy just gives him a look that says "fukk you too then, but I respect it"Depends. If it's just me and him, nawl...if we're in a group I'd probably do it to not ruin anybody else's good time. Nah, fukk that...he might just get a head nod or something.
Take online forums too seriously brehs
I don't think he means that dap breh
To dap or not to dap
On one hand, it's only proper to let a nikka you don't fukk with know you don't fukk with him, but it just gets awkward if you in the same circle together. I just generally throw them the pound or a head nod, to make it clear. I don't fukk with you, but ima tolerate you for the homies sake