Dapping up a nikka you dont like

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lol no i will def leave a mofo hanging. i'm not a beefing type person, for you to get to that level with me than you gotta do some dark shyt.
 

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They'll get a head nod from me cuz straight up refusing to acknowledge someone, at least in public seems petty and childish, and very passive aggressive IMO, but they def don't get daps. If I don't care for someone, I will outright let them know that it'd be best for them to stay under my radar if they don't want drama to pop off:manny:

Then again, I find myself being around way less ppl who fukk with ppl I clearly do not fukk with:mjpls: Might wanna reevaluate your circle breh cuz that's wild sus.
 

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If I don't care for you, I don't pretend to.
Not going to actively look to start any conflict with you but I'm also not smiling in your face.
I'm not going to be around someone that has issue with me & vice versa. Period.
Unless you're a coworker, there's no reason I have to acknowledge your existence.
 

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nah fukk dapping up a nikka i dont fukk with,

imma keep it moving & ignore that fukk nikka. :ufdup:
 

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I will say this though.
Dap/Pound and handshakes are two different things to me.
If I dont like somebody, I dont want to shake their hand. If they dont like me, I dont want to shake their hand but I'll give them a closed fist pound instead.
The worst nikkas get headnods.
 
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I'm in a similar situation like this with a co worker, but I never dap him up because he tried to snitch on me and it backfired but even before that I never dapped him up.
 

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They'll get a head nod from me cuz straight up refusing to acknowledge someone, at least in public seems petty and childish, and very passive aggressive IMO, but they def don't get daps. If I don't care for someone, I will outright let them know that it'd be best for them to stay under my radar if they don't want drama to pop off:manny:

Then again, I find myself being around way less ppl who fukk with ppl I clearly do not fukk with:mjpls: Might wanna reevaluate your circle breh cuz that's wild sus.
Not passive aggressive.

Just trying to be polite. if i don't like you i'm not gonna front like we're cool. Since i have nothing nice to say, i won't say anything at all.
 

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Not passive aggressive.

Just trying to be polite. if i don't like you i'm not gonna front like we're cool. Since i have nothing nice to say, i won't say anything at all.
Pull him to the side then, really by now y'all should have already established there's beef, rather than diss him in the open but then act like you're trying to avoid drama. Ignoring people happens to be one of the biggest signs of passive aggressive disrespect around and everyone recognizes it. You might as well go ahead and prepare to run the fade if dude isn't bytch cuz he's definitely gonna feel he has to do something in front of everyone yahmean. Its not about faking the funk its using tact in a social setting. Now if you dap someone you don't fukk with, yeah that's some fraud shyt but a simple nod won't hurt. ...and this is only if he addresses or greets you, other than that yeah, don't even bother acknowledging dude.
 

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I'm not that petty. I'll shoot u a dap if u kind enough to extend your hand to me. Ehh you're a cornball but here's a dap. If it's a dude that I don't like, he knows I don't like him and he won't attempt to dap me. In the rare event that he does I'll straight stop, stare him in his eyes and say "dont give me that shyt cuz :birdman:" and I expect to fight after that.
 

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True...What if he walks up to you and tries to dap you up? Would you leave the nikka hanging?

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What's the point of holding grudges bruh? You can be civil and cordial with people without fukking with em like that.

It was just a dap, the nikka didn't ask to borrow money, kick It or some shyt
 

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True...What if he walks up to you and tries to dap you up? Would you leave the nikka hanging?
Damn, tough situation:wow:
Leave him hanging and you blatantly disrespecting him, but you dap him and you gon compromise yourself. I usually just hit em with the dap, but then i give my homies a greater level of dap (usually the dap/hug combo) to differentiate.
 
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