Dated a single mother once, I asked her "if she didnt have kids would she still date me"

[International Playa]

She told me we would be good friends

2/3 months later I bounced & never looked back. It hurts to say she saw me as "Mr Nice guy" she would date after she been ran through

Needless to say I had her doing some freaky ish from the pornos

 

[Critical Distance]

She told me we would be good friends

 

[1 other person]

Damn. Straight to your face with no fukks given.

 

[audemarzz]

This is lowkey one of my fears I'll be involved with someone who felt they settled and are so selfish that they would rope me along break my heart now not later, with time wounds can heal but if you let me get old you've stolen my time and broke my heart.

 

[Quiet Magician]

Did you at least hit?

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

 

[IdealMan]

... Don't believe the hype, you're never going to be someone's FIRST choice. People in relationships usually have settled and the ones that didn't, die lonely.

 

[International Playa]

Did you at least hit?

I hit for 2 years, she tried to force me to marry her but nahhhh, had to bounce when she ethered me with that line

 

[At30wecashout]

Always said, if you get a sense that her old boyfriends look like the entire Cobra from GI Joe

And you out here looking like Winston Zeddemore

Toss that fish back in the sea. She better make it work with the guys she used to go for. She had her chance. Shoulda been Bustin' ghosts but she chose to bust it open

 

[el_oh_el]

Dont ask no bytch a question you might not like the answer to...
You made the correct decision tho...she basically said you aint really good enough for her

 

[International Playa]

Always said, if you get a sense that her old boyfriends look like the entire Cobra from GI Joe

And you out here looking like Winston Zeddemore

Toss that fish back in the sea. She better make it work with the guys she used to go for. She had her chance. Shoulda been Bustin' ghosts but she chose to bust it open

How do I shake off the "nice guy" tag breh. I wanna be "that nikka" they quick to spread their ass cheeks for.

 

[newworldafro]

Always said, if you get a sense that her old boyfriends look like the entire Cobra from GI Joe

And you out here looking like Winston Zeddemore

Toss that fish back in the sea. She better make it work with the guys she used to go for. She had her chance. Shoulda been Bustin' ghosts but she chose to bust it open

Had the Cobra squad looking like a Diplomats video......

 

[Mordith]

Incongruent user name to post content......

 

[At30wecashout]

How do I shake off the "nice guy" tag breh. I wanna be "that nikka" they quick to spread their ass cheeks for.

Only thing I learned, stop being so invested. Girls are like busses, and your boss doesn't mind how late you are. Grand gestures, persistence...bush all that
bullshyt. Say whats on your mind and don't give a fukk. If there are certain things lacking in your interactions, cut the cord. You don't have to be a scumbag, and you don't
have to radically change. Just do whatever it takes so you don't care that damn much. The less you care, the more you can get things done without letting feelings
cloud your judgment. Ladies are gonna say "Thats awful. Brothas ain't shyt." Then you realize, so many of them respond to that shyt, it is their fault

You don't shame the Wolf for eating when you were letting him starve as a pup. He learned by example. Have fun, do you, and don't invest in shyt but yourself. Eventually
a chick will come along that makes you want to change your ways up, but the fact is, most won't, so you win more by being whimsical than you do being all in they shyt.

 

[XII]

Why would you even float that out there

That's free ego boost nobody's passing that up