Dated a single mother once, I asked her "if she didnt have kids would she still date me"

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If all her ex boyfriends look like this

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But you look like this

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Bruh, if her ex dudes look like Putty snatching gym bags

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While you out here like Ron Stoppable

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:ufdup:"She not like that anymore"

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:francis:Only thing I learned, stop being so invested. Girls are like busses, and your boss doesn't mind how late you are. Grand gestures, persistence...bush all that
bullshyt. Say whats on your mind and don't give a fukk. If there are certain things lacking in your interactions, cut the cord. You don't have to be a scumbag, and you don't
have to radically change. Just do whatever it takes so you don't care that damn much. The less you care, the more you can get things done without letting feelings
cloud your judgment. Ladies are gonna say ":picard:Thats awful. Brothas ain't shyt." Then you realize, so many of them respond to that shyt, it is their fault:yeshrug:

You don't shame the Wolf for eating when you were letting him starve as a pup. He learned by example. Have fun, do you, and don't invest in shyt but yourself. Eventually
a chick will come along that makes you want to change your ways up, but the fact is, most won't, so you win more by being whimsical than you do being all in they shyt.
Described it perfectly. The goal is to do what you want. It's not a$$hole behavior. It's decisive and assertiveness. Say what you want within reason and just be honest about your feelings.

People always try to put on a face or try to sculpt an image that is no 100% true to who they are. Women will not respect that if you're doing it to appease their every desire instead of being yourself.

Saying what's on your mind will go far with chicks even if they call you an a$$hole. But this is what keeps them around and wanting more. But again should be obvious this is in within reason. Don't up and call her a fat bytch or something. But don't be afraid of saying no or saying exactly what's on your mind either.
 

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She told me we would be good friends:francis:

2/3 months later I bounced & never looked back. It hurts to say she saw me as "Mr Nice guy" she would date after she been ran through

Needless to say I had her doing some freaky ish from the pornos:lolbron:

Youngbloods, you need to learn to get cold to shyt like that. Just nod your head and keep pounding. You could have had that ho on freak speed dial. No need to get moral with the shyt. She's telling you where she's coming from, accept that and take from her what you can get.

Biggest mistakes I've made in my life; throwing away p*ssy for "moral" reasons.
 
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I quickly got rid of the last black girl that said that to me, she has a daughter. Maybe if I were persistent I could have hit it, but I'd rather smash an escort and that's what I did. She was also a neighbour and she propositioned me me to be fukk buddies, that went over my head because I had no interest in her.

She also told me she had a vaginal cyst.:picard: She somehow always found a way to unintentionally disgust me.
 
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Youngbloods, you need to learn to get cold to shyt like that. Just nod your head and keep pounding. You could have had that ho on freak speed dial. No need to get moral with the shyt. She's telling you where she's coming from, accept that and take from her what you can get.

Biggest mistakes I've made in my life; throwing away p*ssy for "moral" reasons.
TBH I'm glad there's morality out there, too much debauchery going on.
 

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breh knows what he talmbout :blessed:

"Models" by Mark Manson is a required text for the brehs here that don't have a handle on bytches yet. don't be a sucka for the games.
And I don't even mean it in a malicious "bytches ain't shyt" sort of way. The fact is, most people ain't gonna be for you, so you can't let a pretty smile
and a few words have you roped in. Don't be an a$$hole, but don't be open to any and everything these ladies think and want if it isn't in your character.

My problem used to be when I liked a chick, everything else stopped mattering as much. That was my issue. I lost bread and opportunities over chicks, even
bushing better suited chicks over the ones I wanted that weren't acting right towards me...if I knew what I know now, I would have just gotten my money
and let that shyt speak for me.
 
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