dating 101: curving

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Someone explain this to me. I'm old school and I don't know the rules. When you have a bad first date or whatever. I thought it was understood if I don't hit you back, I'm no longer interested.

Apparently, I'm curving and playing people. What is proper etiquette on saying "I don't want you"?
No I need to give a reason why?
You're wasting nikkas time who clearly want to fukk with by either being a cock tease or engaging in conversation. That or you lettin a nikka take you out knowing damn well you arent feeling him. Frontin like its all good on the date to be polite then get behind a locked door and say u not feelin dude or stop answering phone calls.
 

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You're wasting nikkas time who clearly want to fukk with by either being a cock tease or engaging in conversation. That or you lettin a nikka take you out knowing damn well you arent feeling him. Frontin like its all good on the date to be polite then get behind a locked door and say u not feelin dude or stop answering phone calls.

Dude, you are assuming a hell of a lot.
Most of these dudes I met online and I tell them the truth from the get go. I'm not looking for a relationship. I just want to meet up and see how we vibe, then we'll see if something clicks.

We meet up, have a convo, maybe lite or drink something. They feeling me but its not mutual. They usually try to take it to a physical level, I squirm away and say nah. I'm obviously uncomfortable, but they try to lighten the mood by telling corny jokes. I tell them I'm ready to go home and I bounce.

I probably am a tease but it's not like they really losing. I usually go to them and most of the time, they don't even have to come out of pocket.

It's either that or a movie and I always offer to pay for my ticket.
 

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Dude, you are assuming a hell of a lot.
Most of these dudes I met online and I tell them the truth from the get go. I'm not looking for a relationship. I just want to meet up and see how we vibe, then we'll see if something clicks.

We meet up, have a convo, maybe lite or drink something. They feeling me but its not mutual. They usually try to take it to a physical level, I squirm away and say nah. I'm obviously uncomfortable, but they try to lighten the mood by telling corny jokes. I tell them I'm ready to go home and I bounce.

I probably am a tease but it's not like they really losing. I usually go to them and most of the time, they don't even have to come out of pocket.

It's either that or a movie and I always offer to pay for my ticket.
Yea yea. Just ask these guys how big their dikks are before you go out and stop wasting time. You clearly just wanna get bust in :blessed:
 

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you just want nikkas to keep hitting your phone.

how much of a cornball do you gotta that you can tell a nikka no via text? I can see face to face but damn
 

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if its a first date from someone you met online i dont see the need to explain that you're not interested, a no reply should make that pretty clear. i'd probably prefer getting a non-reply as opposed to some "hey i had a fun time the other night but blah blah blah" bullshyt. that shyt is a waste of time for both parties
 
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