Dating a younger woman as an old nikka?

[Ahadi]

You're in your 30's?

32. Late bloomer. 30s is beautiful so far.

When it comes to dating I’m honestly skeptical of women’s intentions after the “prime” years. Not trying to be Mr. Stand up / I’m choosing you now vs back then.

Their younger years atleast gives me an honest outlook from their point of views. Now if she’s older and has been in long term relationships, that’s my exception. But you having fun from 20-27 hell no.

Older ones are dope tho. Especially when they keep themselves together.

 

[boogers]

admittedly i didnt read the rest of the thread but i can say that older men generally seek out younger women for their lack of experience. a younger woman wont know how trash your dikk is, and will be irresponsible right along with your dumb ass. theyre much more easily impressed with wealth/possessions and generally dont think about the future

when i see an older man with a young woman i assume 1) he has trash dikk and 2) shes using him for his money

its fukked up, seeking out a person who cant smell what a loser you are. its dishonest as hell. especially if you gotta leave the country just to get laid. how can you not get laid in a country with almost 400 million people? or do you gotta go to another country where $20 USD lets you live like a king and you can flex on the poor. its pathetic.

if you met someone younger and you both genuinely like each other its cool, but thats real fukkin rare

 

[2 one 3]

admittedly i didnt read the rest of the thread but i can say that older men generally seek out younger women for their lack of experience. a younger woman wont know how trash your dikk is, and will be irresponsible right along with your dumb ass. theyre much more easily impressed with wealth/possessions and generally dont think about the future

when i see an older man with a young woman i assume 1) he has trash dikk and 2) shes using him for his money

its fukked up, seeking out a person who cant smell what a loser you are. its dishonest as hell. especially if you gotta leave the country just to get laid. how can you not get laid in a country with almost 400 million people? or do you gotta go to another country where $20 USD lets you live like a king and you can flex on the poor. its pathetic.

if you met someone younger and you both genuinely like each other its cool, but thats real fukkin rare

This isn’t always the case.

I’ve had two chicks who liked older men off gp…

Their dads were 10+ years older than their moms so you can see how that has an influence as well.

But I definitely agree. It’s rare as hell to find compatibility with someone with a huge age gap. A genuine connection at that.

 

[boogers]

This isn’t always the case.

I’ve had two chicks who liked older men off gp…

Their dads were 10+ years older than their moms so you can see how that has an influence as well.

But I definitely agree. It’s rare as hell to find compatibility with someone with a huge age gap. A genuine connection at that.

if its not a manipulation/sex thing i dont see the big deal. but its nearly always a manipulation/sex thing lol

people at that age are basically still retarded. i didnt know who i was until i was 29 or so

 

[2 one 3]

if its not a manipulation/sex thing i dont see the big deal. but its nearly always a manipulation/sex thing lol

people at that age are basically still retarded. i didnt know who i was until i was 29 or so

Exactly fam…

That’s why when i was like 31 and this 19 year old pressed me at Cheesecake Factory I had to hit the


And we are still cool and cordial with one another to this day. Glad I didn’t fall for it and gained a cool homegirl in the process.

 

[Voice of Reason]

27 - 33 is the sweet spot for me. Females over 33 always want to talk about future way too soon into the getting to know them and always think about if I accidentally got a female under 25 pregnant we’d be too far apart in ages and she’d just be a child support payment later in life.

What age range are you?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Went out on a few dates with a guy who was 22 y/o when I was like 38 y/o. I didn't realize how young he was until he told me his birthday was coming up.

It was awful. He was so young and stupid and tried that redpill shyt on me. Needless to say I think we only went out 3 times. He was so disappointed when I told him I was good on him. He was sooooo thirsty. He was a tech nerd.

The next and last guy I ever dated was 56 y/o. Not quite as bad but still unpleasant. This nikka had me watching black and white movies. BLACK and fukkING WHITE ya'll...and golf *sigh*. He wasn't boring per se but I couldn't do it.

He had a very preteigous career and he took me on great dates. Once he took me to this party where everyone was coked out and this chick came out high as shyt on a damn hoverboard dressed as Storm. No I'm not counting that as a good date but it was hella entertaining.



But he would constantly think I was seeing other people. shyt was annoying as fukk and he was constantly testing my boundaries.

That was when I decided that I wasn't interested in dating or marriage.

I thought "Is this what you really wanna deal with just to live nice? You can get it yourself and not have the obligations or deal with the silly shyt."

I broke up with him and never looked back. That was a few years ago and he tries to hit me up every 6 months or so.

I'm really not cut out to be some man's wife. I work with men and I can't imagine living with one. I just enjoy my freedom too much.

I won't say I'll never date again but I just no longer have the stomach for it. I thought about dating women but I'm just not really into the whole premise of ownership that people have when dating. Not interested in no women going crazy on me either.

I just really don't see the point at this period of my life. I'm good. I much rather just make new friends.

 

[Bigen King]

What age range are you?

38

I’m in the gym 5 days a week and playing basketball an a washed up men’s league.

I dated 40, 37, 35, 32, 31, 30 this past year and the older women were divorcee’s and both kinda bitter and the young women wanted to rush into relationships. Two women I saw before at church with my ex when I was in a relationship and they still wanted to go out.

Ended up with a woman who’s 30.

 

[Bigen King]

Went out on a few dates with a guy who was 22 y/o when I was like 38 y/o. I didn't realize how young he was until he told me his birthday was coming up.

It was awful. He was so young and stupid and tried that redpill shyt on me. Needless to say I think we only went out 3 times. He was so disappointed when I told him I was good on him. He was sooooo thirsty. He was a tech nerd.

The next and last guy I ever dated was 56 y/o. Not quite as bad but still unpleasant. This nikka had me watching black and white movies. BLACK and fukkING WHITE ya'll...and golf *sigh*. He wasn't boring per se but I couldn't do it.

He had a very preteigous career and he took me on great dates. Once he took me to this party where everyone was coked out and this chick came out high as shyt on a damn hoverboard dressed as Storm. No I'm not counting that as a good date but it was hella entertaining.



But he would constantly think I was seeing other people. shyt was annoying as fukk and he was constantly testing my boundaries.

That was when I decided that I wasn't interested in dating or marriage.

I thought "Is this what you really wanna deal with just to live nice? You can get it yourself and not have the obligations or deal with the silly shyt."

I broke up with him and never looked back. That was a few years ago and he tries to hit me up every 6 months or so.

I'm really not cut out to be some man's wife. I work with men and I can't imagine living with one. I just enjoy my freedom too much.

I won't say I'll never date again but I just no longer have the stomach for it. I thought about dating women but I'm just not really into the whole premise of ownership that people have when dating. Not interested in no women going crazy on me either.

I just really don't see the point at this period of my life. I'm good. I much rather just make new friends.

You went out 3x’s with him almost could have got the goods.



It’s a 3 date rule over here.

Nah but I talk to my homegirls who always have these horror stories about the guys they’re dealing with but they continue to deal with them even when they know it’s no future with a guy.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

You went out 3x’s with him almost could have got the goods.



It’s a 3 date rule over here.

Nah but I talk to my homegirls who always have these horror stories about the guys they’re dealing with but they continue to deal with them even when they know it’s no future with a guy.

Nah he had no chance.

He told me he didn't spend money on women until he had sex with them so I went out with him just to get him to spend money on me just on principle.

Then I made him think he was gonna get some and then ghosted him for a few days. That man was setting my phone on fire with calls. I told him what the deal was and he was so disappointed. The little light went out in his eyes.



I basically just trolled him. He's probably a savage now. fukk that kid.

 

[Gloxina]

Nah he had no chance.

He told me he didn't spend money on women until he had sex with them so I went out with him just to get him to spend money on me just on principle.

Then I made him think he was gonna get some and then ghosted him for a few days. That man was setting my phone on fire with calls. I told him what the deal was and he was so disappointed. The little light went out in his eyes.



I basically just trolled him. He's probably a savage now. fukk that kid.

Yes yes

 

[J.E.T.S]

Y’all catching hell with women apparently lol

The women I’ve dealt with, young or old, has actually liked me for me.

I know for a fact that I’m attractive. I can get with a variety of different kinds of women. & I’m only 5’10 …

All this getting used and wanting someone young and stupid has been so far off from my experiences.

I can’t relate with some of you.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

To sum up this thread. All men are abusers, controlling, cheaters, narcissists, and creeps. And if you a black man, multiply that x3.

No point in even playing them game if you automatically deemed the villian. Just focus on your health and wealth and do what makes you happy.

 

[Voice of Reason]

To sum up this thread. All men are abusers, controlling, cheaters, narcissists, and creeps. And if you a black man, multiply that x3.

No point in even playing them game if you automatically the villian. Just focus on your health and wealth and do what makes you happy.

Stop listening to these washed up women.

 

[Voice of Reason]

Yeah.. lol the sweet spot is really 23-26

A lot of em at 27 and up wana rush you.

When you are in your late 20s early 30s maybe you can say this. mid and late 30s society will try to shame you.