nikka. You want a law that forces everyone to be on a dating app….
I say that is weird…
you try to explain the logic on how it would be great… iunno
Still weird to envision a law forcing people to get on a dating app.
Dating apps are GOAT
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I say that is weird…
you try to explain the logic on how it would be great… iunno
Still weird to envision a law forcing people to get on a dating app.
OK I didn't mean that literally. Of course I don't want people to be forced to do that. That would be weird. I'm just saying it would be cool if every potential mate was right there on your screen. If your perfect match is in another city or even the same city but you two are never in the same place at the same time, you're not going to meet her. My idea helps to eliminate the happenstance in finding your person. Imagine how helpful it would be to those people who never want to leave the crib. But no I don't want people to go to jail for not doing it LOL.
MajesticLion
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I made this thread, I change my mind, I was wrong.
Quantity doesn't mean quality.
Dating apps help u meet a lot of women, but very few are quality
Growth.
Doobie Doo
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If every potential mate was on your screen how would YOU get her? Every potential mate is on her screen too. There's no such thing as soul mates. Relationships are literally about opportunity and chance. There are thousands of people compatible with each other across the world you just hope they know it when you meet them and they don't feel like looking
cyndaquil
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It isn't about the number of matches tho. But what happens after you match. 90% of the time it's nothing if we keeping it a buck and that plays a big part of why people hate the apps now.I was getting matched everyday when I was using dating apps
Pete must be less attractive than she’s willing to admit
is this still true?
Uchiha God
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Givethanks
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I wish I could sell courses
If only my weight started with a 2 and my Height started with a 6
If only my weight started with a 2 and my Height started with a 6
Out of all matches maybe 40% were interesting enough to chat with for more than 20 messages
Of those maybe 50% were interesting enough to exchange numbers
Of those, maybe 25% there was still enough interest to schedule a date.
Of the dates, 100% were down to give up the draws
I mean… I’ve ghosted a decent amount of women and turned down sex after the date plenty of times… so it’s not just men getting rejected from my experience.
EVERY match I was really interested in I was able to seal the deal with once it got to exchanging numbers.
This seems normal figures to me even with chicks met through cold approaching instead of using apps.
My current girl I met on an app
I think the main issue is that most dudes don’t know how to present themselves in a way that attracts women. You really have to have your personality and interests locked in otherwise you look like something is missing.
cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
I'm not implying you are wrong about many men not being able to formulate an interesting and winning profile. The statistics speak for themselves both women and men are frustrated now with these apps. What years were you on the app?Out of all matches maybe 40% were interesting enough to chat with for more than 20 messages
Of those maybe 50% were interesting enough to exchange numbers
Of those, maybe 25% there was still enough interest to schedule a date.
Of the dates, 100% were down to give up the draws
I mean… I’ve ghosted a decent amount of women and turned down sex after the date plenty of times… so it’s not just men getting rejected from my experience.
EVERY match I was really interested in I was able to seal the deal with once it got to exchanging numbers.
This seems normal figures to me even with chicks met through cold approaching instead of using apps.
My current girl I met on an app
I think the main issue is that most dudes don’t know how to present themselves in a way that attracts women. You really have to have your personality and interests locked in otherwise you look like something is missing.
I'm not sure what you mean. You mean there would be competition? That exists with or without a dating app. I guarantee you will NEVER get her if you never meet her. My point is really easy. There may be somebody out there that you would really vibe with and the only thing keeping you apart is that you haven't met. And its very likely you never will, especially if she is in a far off location, or you two just never end up in the same place. My idea increases the chance you meet. I don't believe I said anything about "soul-mates".
As to the bolded. yes, but it's not when you meet them, it's IF. This is not complicated. The internet has connected us in ways like never before. What I'm saying is just taking advantage of it for dating purposes.
Between 2021 and 2024
started dating a chick from there early 2024.
went on between 40-60 dates... lost count
Lieutenant Daniels
I’m up for Major
I see where you’re coming from. If the perfect woman for me and me for her is out there the chances of me running into her are left to fate. Like in your example her and I are in the same city but don’t frequent the same areas. We would never run into each other. But if she was on the dating app we could see each other.
even if you are "matches" in real life...
your profile may not give the necessary info/vibe to show that anyway.....
so being on an app is only useful if your presentation skills are on point
Lieutenant Daniels
I’m up for Major
I’ve seen you mention presentation skills a couple times the last few comments. What’s an example of a “presentation” skill for online dating that could get brehs the results they’re looking for? Pictures? Clothes? Cars? Lifestyle?
