Dating At 53

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I'm not cosigning everything (I'm certainly not 6-figure), but I whole-heartedly agree with the last part, or this entire sentiment. IDK how so many folks struggle to meet females. It's you. NA SERIOUSLY ITS YOU. Its no different than the nkkas who always gotta toxic GF, or BM. Them nkkas the problem, not the bytch. You're flawed at choosing women.

U nkkas walkin around with a "one-size fits all" mentality. OR you're attracted to the "wrong" type of women. Again...there are millions, upon millions, upon MILLIONS of women in this country. Single, lonely, cheated on, successful, modest, BORED, etc. We're not even including the women, who maybe in a relationship, but are UNHAPPY. Their man shyts on em, etc. I don't wanna hear you can't meet a good female.

Of course there are POS females. But how were you raised? Are u bad judge of character, who doesn't know how to vet MFERS? That speaks more to you, than them (if you're always with shallow, POS bytches). I've came across TOO many females who were good ppl. They may not have been FOR ME at the time, because of how I was movin, but they were definitely wifey types. Actually I wasnt for them, cuz I was on demon time. This is across multiple cities and states (including my own).

AND I still think a lot you nkkas put too much into finances (being rich). You know how many lonely women, just want a GOOD man. OFC you gotta be decent, have some type of work ethic, and come with something, but there's PLENTY of attractive older women who hold their own, and just want a companion. Someone to lay up with, have around, ETC. Again...there's millions of women in this country. Get you one.

Majority of the women want emotional connection(romance) over money
Y’all can go ahead and call me blue pill simp

 

[The ADD]

All jokes aside dude is a prime passport bro candidate. He could go to Africa for 6 months and find the younger wife of his dreams and start a family if he wanted. Women dating older is more common overseas as well.




Men have never a problem supporting women who are feminine and submissive and not ran through. The problem is most women in America are not worth the investment due to those missing characteristics and all the kids and baby daddys they come with.

Maybe but that’s not what he indicated

 

[DatNkkaCutty]

Majority of the women want emotional connection(romance) over money
Y’all can go ahead and call me blue pill simp

I believe this to be true too. A woman will always be a female first... EMOTIONAL. Ofc you got shallow money hungry bytches, detached.... but u shouldn't be chasing them like that anyway. Most girls just wanna be loved, on some daddy shyt. PERIOD.

 

[lib123]

This thread is hilarious. You got an early 50s breh and late 30s/early 40s brehettes both taking shots and sneak dissing each others dating prospects.

 

[CopiousX]

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[Screwface Exchange]

And that's why your single at 53. What you can do for someone IS substance. Your looking for a woman who can do something for you, whether that is comfort you, cook, clean, take care of you or excite you, keep your mind stimulated.

Every1 is looking for a partner for marches, or fulfills what they need and that is the substance.

Girls without substance see the ones jus fukkin or dating and not looking for any thing in you or in a future.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

This thread is hilarious. You got an early 50s breh and late 30s/early 40s brehettes both taking shots and sneak dissing each others dating prospects.

All this this talk of money and needing to be a sugar daddy, you might as well count yourself as done for. You need a $200k salary to properly take care of a woman. 90% of the male population aint anywhere near that. Hell most dudes ain't even near $100k


Better take what you can get at 53.

 

[King Poetic]

He spoke nothing but truth as a older guy like myself

The world today with these women is what can u provide to me

 

[etrofllenrod504]

Reality is a lot of men don’t understand leverage. You leverage what you have, that can either give you an advantage in the game or atleast allow you to play the game. You can’t consider the same benefits as handsome gang, same as handsome gang can’t expect the benefits of paper’d up game, etc. Once you know your leverage you go at the women that you’ll have the best chance to win with but, understand the dynamic and respect it. Don’t cry about substance and wanting me for me and all that shyt. Women date by category of what she see’s you in, it’s on you to tip the scales in your favor based on where you can have an advantage. It’s shytty but, that the reality of our current world

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

I feel sorry for dude. the type of relationship he wants comes from spending decades together building up a connection. he not going to get that in his age. The best he can hope for is a good friend who appreciates him.

 

[Stuntone]

Why not date a fellow 50 year old?

Absolutely no man under 60 wants anything to do with an 50 woman.


Have you ever heard of menopause?

 

[Indeed]

Absolutely no man under 60 wants anything to do with an 50 woman.


Have you ever heard of menopause?

 

[King Poetic]

Absolutely no man under 60 wants anything to do with an 50 woman. IE VIVICA FOX, LISA RAYE TYPES


Have you ever heard of menopause?

Fixed

 

[Black Magisterialness]

Reality is a lot of men don’t understand leverage. You leverage what you have, that can either give you an advantage in the game or atleast allow you to play the game. You can’t consider the same benefits as handsome gang, same as handsome gang can’t expect the benefits of paper’d up game, etc. Once you know your leverage you go at the women that you’ll have the best chance to win with but, understand the dynamic and respect it. Don’t cry about substance and wanting me for me and all that shyt. Women date by category of what she see’s you in, it’s on you to tip the scales in your favor based on where you can have an advantage. It’s shytty but, that the reality of our current world

I would have put this a bit differently, but you've got a point.

There's a lot of men using the same tools to obtain different women and that's why it doesn't work.

The money/provider move doesn't really have pull on the CEO woman like that. Sure it helps, but its not a game changer like dealing with the cashier at Banana Republic.
The fly nikka, flashy shyt might work on a square chick, but if she's also fly and into her gear and actually might even work in a creative industry, having style is a PRE-REQUISITE.

Understand your tools, then apply them to the task at hand. I'm for example a very outgoing person and I know a lot of people. That shyt is really a big deal for women that I meet in my field. But for other's I've dated having connections for them just highlighted their insecurities.

Stop shooting for women that ain't checking for a man like you.

 

[Gloxina]

I would have put this a bit differently, but you've got a point.

There's a lot of men using the same tools to obtain different women and that's why it doesn't work.

The money/provider move doesn't really have pull on the CEO woman like that. Sure it helps, but its not a game changer like dealing with the cashier at Banana Republic.
The fly nikka, flashy shyt might work on a square chick, but if she's also fly and into her gear and actually might even work in a creative industry, having style is a PRE-REQUISITE.

Understand your tools, then apply them to the task at hand. I'm for example a very outgoing person and I know a lot of people. That shyt is really a big deal for women that I meet in my field. But for other's I've dated having connections for them just highlighted their insecurities.

Stop shooting for women that ain't checking for a man like you.

But that’s kinda the point being made here.

This 53 year old man thinks women 15-20 years younger than him are looking at a 53 year old man and not expecting money

What genuine connection is she forming with a man with a 1-2 generation gap, that she can’t form with a younger man? His leverage IS the money if he’s an older man.