MoveForward
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we have all had a simple disagreement with a black woman that randomly turned into a, “See y’all black men…”
Dating Coach says Black Men be BSing
- Thread starter Mindfield333
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NoirDynosaur
Yurrrrrrrrrr
Realistic advice
Expect nothing less disappointments
The reality of these apps both men and women are looking for the next best thing. Idealized view of that person instead of just hitting it off like regular humans. With fear dethrones confidence that's why the modern dating world is in shambles. People are just too scared to be real with one another.
In real life it's wayyy easier because the communication is organic, raw and spontaneous. Most of these cues are lacked online.
On apps certain scenarios play a role:
Women want the men to chase after them but doesn't give anything in return. Ex: One word texts, low engagement, plays it off so your ego doesn't get crushed (a lot of women subconsciously do this to avoid rejection) Or she may just the app for validation. I won't lie I used to go on apps just for the ego boost. Why I prefer real life.
Another scenario: Women pursues the man but the man doesn't put enough effort to maintain the attraction. Doesn't want to seem needy or perceives the woman is playing games. Slows fades her out.
Communication is key make the intentions known from the start make action.
Its mass confusion in america right now.. It's becoming obvious that social media has done more damage to society and how it view on values and purpose for relationships.
YaThreadFloppedB!
The Patron Saint of Threads
Yeah one that lives in a Black area and Dates Black womenMeanwhile you a passport breh
Make that make sense
Colombia has double the Black people america has per capita and everyone agrees that the Afro Colombian population is severely under counted
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ALOT of Black Women are starting to get more bold that they prefer White Men
Too bad White men don't prefer them....other than kink ish
Mindfield333
Superstar
So it circles back to what does someone 35+ do that wants to seek out a relationship? Toil the streets for a chance encounter? Cold approach every person they see for the cha be that person is single? Like someone said earlier, it’s one tool. Folks move to a new city, and don’t drink, what now?
Cobalt Sire
All Star
Most of the women in comment section look crazy (New York definition of it lol), Talking about why are Black men not acting right. Because you don't look good anymore lol.
Uchiha God
Veteran
ALOT of Black Women are starting to get more bold that they prefer White Men
lol need the context@AngryBaby … go ahead and provide the harsh reality since nobody wants to address the elephant in the room
(Femcel) black women is talking down on black men and saying that black women are better off divesting to white boys because they’re treated better.
Unfortunately for them, this isn’t really played out in reality.. I don’t really see desirable white boys checking for sistas like that. I work with them, went to school with them. These white boys love asians and latinas
