Dating Coach says Black Men be BSing

[Rell84shots]

It's funny how nothing a cac does will deter them from dating them, but they look for the littlest things to say they're done with black men.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Funny how that never crosses their minds, like they're incapable of being curved

It can be all so simple. SMH

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

A bar? Where folks get drunk, watch sports, and usually dance? That’s the place a person would complain they can’t find a serious partner? Lmaoooooooooo

good for your friend group and co-workers, that still doesn’t erase what these apps are. Which is why people who complain constantly about them are laughed at.

why did you equate romantic success to education level & income?

My entire point was for Men and Women to really analyze the probability of finding their future spouse on an app with a flame as it’s logo, and you are speaking gibberish

Their probability is higher using them than avoiding them. Two of the earliest “industries” on the internet as soon as it started becoming widely available were porn and dating/love.

It’s a fallacy to think that for people 35+ they’re going to fall into meeting mate organically at the same rate as those in their 20’s-early 30’s, past a certain age, people are married or coupled. You don’t just roll into the alumni mixer, friends BBQ, gym class, get approached in the grocery store and meet a mate as folks are taken and the few who might be single might not be a match. Dating apps are a perfectly fine addition to one’s efforts, like anything, it shouldn’t be the only thing you do or rely on when seriously looking for someone, but you trying to act like they’re inherently unserious is denying the reality of how much people use the internet to connect in todays world. Online dating was birthed from serious sites first

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Their probability is higher using them than avoiding them. Two of the earliest “industries” on the internet as soon as it started becoming widely available were porn and dating/love.

If the probability is higher, why are there so many failure stories opposed to those irl? Why sre

It’s a fallacy to think that for people 35+ they’re going to fall into meeting mate organically at the same rate as those in their 20’s-early 30’s, past a certain age, people are married or coupled. You don’t just roll into the alumni mixer, friends BBQ, gym class, get approached in the grocery store and meet a mate as folks are taken and the few who might be single might not be a match. Dating apps are a perfectly fine addition to one’s efforts, like anything, it shouldn’t be the only thing you do or rely on when seriously looking for someone, but you trying to act like they’re inherently unserious is denying the reality of how much people use the internet to connect in todays world. Online dating was birthed from serious sites first

they are inherently unserious and should be used as a supplement to your in perso dating life.

I’m a college student currently using them. Like right now, as of Jan. 1, 2023.

Everyone, but you, seems to understand this.

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

If the probability is higher, why are there so many failure stories opposed to those irl? Why sre

they are inherently unserious and should be used as a supplement to your in perso dating life.

I’m a college student currently using them. Like right now, as of Jan. 1, 2023.

Everyone, but you, seems to understand this.

This is where we’re differing, a college student shouldn’t have to use these as you live in a social bubble of single people. Someone who is 37 does not, they don’t live on campus, meet new people at the same rate, live and socialize amongst people who are 90% unmarried, a 37/42/50 yr old etc is mostly in a sea of married/partnered people or those who have divorced and are not serious about another relationship, apps increase their odds of meeting someone

 

[RaspberryFitted]

This is where we’re differing,

You don’t say

a college student shouldn’t have to use these as you live in a social bubble of single people.

I use it as a supplement to my in-person dating life, and so does the majority of every user on these sites

I’ve been saying this shyt for about three pages

Someone who is 37 does not, they don’t live on campus, meet new people at the same rate, live and socialize amongst people who are 90% unmarried, a 37/42/50 yr old etc is mostly in a sea of married/partnered people or those who have divorced and are not serious about another relationship, apps increase their odds of meeting someone

Increase the odds of meeting someone who’s unserious, because a divorced 54 yr old who does not having any friends or associates that can connect them with potential mates wouldn’t fare well on an app

 

[Astroslik]

A "femininity coach" cursing up a storm, that's a sugar baby on the side...

Literally can't make this shyt up...







$100

Looks like someone ravaged and pillaged for that funky ass $100

 

[Mowgli]

Uses profanity. Ain't no good woman going to her to find a man.

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

You don’t say

I use it as a supplement to my in-person dating life, and so does the majority of every user on these sites

I’ve been saying this shyt for about three pages

Increase the odds of meeting someone who’s unserious, because a divorced 54 yr old who does not having any friends or associates that can connect them with potential mates wouldn’t fare well on an app

Bro, someone who is 54 may have 6 true close friends, the likelihood of them having a single friend, them living in the same area, and that single friend being a good match is low. Sorry, but if you’re college age, you cant speak on the realities of life for people who are 35+ you haven’t been in the world to see how friendships and relationships play out after school.

 

[FluffyEyes]

This lady's "client" has bigger problems seeing as she's taking advice from a "femininity coach" who moonlights on OnlyFans. She's a grifter of the highest degree and anyone listening to her advice is an idiot.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Bro, someone who is 54 may have 6 true close friends, the likelihood of them having a single friend and that single friend being a good match is low. Sorry, but if you’re college age, you cant speak on the realities of life for people who are 40+ you haven’t been in the world to see how friendships and relationships play out after school.

and if you not college aged or 25-30, you can’t speak on the reason for why the majority of users are on these apps. Y’all tryna change the rules of the playing field That’s like tryna operate a Christian fanclub on OnlyFans in 2023

You got 45 year olds on there with their titties being the first thing you see on their profile, but I’m suppose to believe they want true love lmaooooo

keep telling these women they gon find true love a POF

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

and if you not college aged or 25-30, you can’t speak on the reason for why the majority of users are on these apps. Y’all tryna change the rules of the playing field That’s like tryna operate a Christian fanclub on OnlyFans in 2023

You got 45 year olds on there with their titties being the first thing you see on their profile, but I’m suppose to believe they want true love lmaooooo

keep telling these women they gon find true love a POF

What are you talking about? The OP is clearly a woman over 40 which framed how I approached the conversation, it wasn’t until 8 replies later you said you were in college in which case I agreed that for sub-30, there are more opportunities for “chance” meetings, and apps may not play as big a role for people seeking something serious. That said, plenty of people in my 20’s used online dating to find lifetime partners also - match, eharmony, okCupid were the hinge/bumble/tinder of the 00’s/early 10’s until tinder introduced swiping.

And ok, you found the goofy women on there just looking to be seen as a sexual object, I’m not defending the experience women with their t*ts and ass out have. Like why are you using a non serious woman as part of a conversation where we’re talking about people who use the apps seriously?

 

[Astroslik]

and if you not college aged or 25-30, you can’t speak on the reason for why the majority of users are on these apps. Y’all tryna change the rules of the playing field That’s like tryna operate a Christian fanclub on OnlyFans in 2023

You got 45 year olds on there with their titties being the first thing you see on their profile, but I’m suppose to believe they want true love lmaooooo

keep telling these women they gon find true love a POF

Single women over the age of 35 on these apps are usually batshyt crazy/leftovers/undesirable in some capacity

 

[Wildhundreds]

You don’t say

I use it as a supplement to my in-person dating life, and so does the majority of every user on these sites

I’ve been saying this shyt for about three pages

Increase the odds of meeting someone who’s unserious, because a divorced 54 yr old who does not having any friends or associates that can connect them with potential mates wouldn’t fare well on an app

I don't understand why there is so much confusion about dating apps. Its a place where people who don't want to put in real work in a relationship meet up. The probability of finding something real is present, but a rational person wouldn't hold their breath.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

I don't understand why there is so much confusion about dating apps. Its a place where people who don't want to put in real work in a relationship meet up. The probability of finding something real is present, but a rational person wouldn't hold their breath.

Exactly. Telling anybody to treat Hinge, Tinder, and Bumble with the utmost seriousness is foolish.

Folks will swipe their hearts away while being the only quiet one at a gathering.