Dating Coach says Black Men be BSing

Mindfield333

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You think any girl above a 1 is even thinking that she needs to improve to get a Man?

You ever took a look at women's social media especially their DM's?
Lol I’ve had a few opportunities but I honestly would rather not. Especially how women complain about getting “meat mail” randomly
 

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People who are using the apps seriously do know what they’re looking for, that’s why there are these videos complaining about low effort, lack of conversation, etc.
They obviously don’t know what they’re looking for if they continuously matching with low effort/lack of conversation individuals and continuously complaining about it
 

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I said next time I would get the number quicker but save them as something specific besides their name so they don’t get integrated with the rest of my regular contacts.

Best to have ZERO expectations until you've met up with the woman in real life.

Until you have it's all a fantasy and not reality.

Withold your investment.

Problem is men who use apps operate as if it's the same as first meeting a woman outside like at a club/bar/event/grocery store where the woman has already physically seen you. It is not the same.
 

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You might be right.

NY women are by far the most delusional women on Earth. Probably due to men trying to holla at them since elementary school.
As a Brooklynite i can tell you having a button up scurl and wallabees is catnip to country girls.

I didnt even wear s curl but say some random NGE lessons or some rasta saying or anything Hotep and the biggest swine eating weave wearing sisters will be on your jock.

They probably never heard that

Opposites attract
 

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Women and men in the dating scene are raised in two different environments. The issue is trying to merge those two experiences into a functional relationship..
Men and Women should settle with people from the same environment instead of trying to re-invent the wheel with an individual they’re obviously not compatible with
 

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They obviously don’t know what they’re looking for if they continuously matching with low effort/lack of conversation individuals and continuously complaining about it
Ok breh…you’re right, every decently filled out profile results in finding someone who is on there seriously, you’re 100% able to tell what time everyone is on by the 2-3 prompts they filled out on their profile :deadrose:
 

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You might be right.

NY women are by far the most delusional women on Earth. Probably due to men trying to holla at them since elementary school.
As a Brooklynite i can tell you having a button up scurl and wallabees is catnip to country girls.

I didnt even wear s curl but say some random NGE lessons or some rasta saying or anything Hotep and the biggest swine eating weave wearing sisters will be on your jock.

They probably never heard that

Opposites attract
Lol I’ve had a few opportunities but I honestly would rather not. Especially how women complain about getting “meat mail” randomly
Nothing women say is truth in the sense of it being fact.

Its much better to assume that women mean the opposite of what they say to Men
 

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My guy you think women care if they come off looking like a side piece????

I knew this pretty ass super christian chick who announced that Dez Bryant was in her DM's ( she was a super redskins/commanders fan to boot) and deleted her IG
A celebrity isn’t a good indicator. But let my clarity. I know proud hoes. I know a few. I think the problem with us, and the premise of this thread is how both BM and BW put wypipo on a pedestal when it comes to dating and relationships. We demonize each other then get mad when they go off with Brad/Stacy. Since mostly men post here, I wanna know how we can be better.
 

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A celebrity isn’t a good indicator. But let my clarity. I know proud hoes. I know a few. I think the problem with us, and the premise of this thread is how both BM and BW put wypipo on a pedestal when it comes to dating and relationships. We demonize each other then get mad when they go off with Brad/Stacy. Since mostly men post here, I wanna know how we can be better.
Thats because most Black prefer wipipo
 

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Ok breh…you’re right, every decently filled out profile results in finding someone who is on there seriously, you’re 100% able to tell what time everyone is on by the 2-3 prompts they filled out on their profile :deadrose:
my nikka if you are continuously complaining about low effort folks and are unable to screen them out, then maybe that environment isn’t for you. Folks are more comfortable in complaining about a problem than fixing it :mjlol:

Back to the OG point, Hinge and Tinder are seen by the majority as hookups apps. You can complain and bytch all you want, but that’s what they are

If you want a serious relationships, relying on apps will have you looking stupid.
 
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