Dating Coach says Black Men be BSing

[Mindfield333]

we all have wants in life, but many aren’t willing to put in the work to achieve it.

let’s also omit the phrase “other women”. There are BW who are courted romantically, who are given dinners, and who feel appreciation from a potential partner.

they exist

Getting/planning a date shouldn’t be hard. Mutual interest, convo then plan a date. Women got the easiest part and that’s just to one present. It’s not anything to work to achieve. Trying to manipulate someone makes things harder though.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Getting/planning a date shouldn’t be hard. Mutual interest, convo then plan a date. Women got the easiest part and that’s just to one present. It’s not anything to work to achieve. Trying to manipulate someone makes things harder though.

Getting the desired partner you want is hard when you aren’t in the position to fulfill what that desired partner wants or needs

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

What she's saying is bullshyt because black women are only swiping on a handful of black men.

They ignore guys like me who are absolutely willing to put in effort.

I'm willing to bet money that the black men who she matched with are better looking than the cac.

It only takes a couple of black men to paint ALL black men in a negative light, but it only takes one white man to paint ALL non-black men in a positive light.

As long as I am sitting here with ZERO matches on every dating app, their argument will forever be bullshyt.

It's all just an excuse to date white men without feeling like a "traitor"

 

[Jazzy B.]

Tbh when I was on apps I probably spent way too much time getting to know them before setting shyt up. Probably seemed I was BSing. Things moved faster in person. shyt even on social media

That's the trap most men fall into.

You're heavily investing when the woman hasn't even confirmed her own actual investment which is agreeing to a date/meetup or at the minimum giving you her number.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Women got the easiest part and that’s just to one present.

if they got the easiest part, then why the fukk they keep failing at simple interactions with Men ?

 

[Mindfield333]

What she's saying is bullshyt because black women are only swiping on a handful of black men.

They ignore guys like me who are absolutely willing to put in effort.

I'm willing to bet money that the black men who she matched with are better looking than the cac.

It only takes a couple of black men to paint ALL black men in a negative light, but it only takes one white man to paint ALL non-black men in a positive light.

As long as I am sitting here with ZERO matches on every dating app, their argument will forever be bullshyt.

It's all just an excuse to date white men without feeling like a "traitor"

Damn man. Are you in Utah or something? Get someone to take better pics of you

 

[Wiseborn]

You can tell the woman she's talking about is corny, hence why no nikkas fuk with her

Bumble is the app where women choose the Men so they already knew she was attracted to them

Bet if they were attracted to her they wouldve asked her out

Women can defenitely understand the nice but meh dudes getting curved but they never stop to think that maybe theyre nice but meh too.

I mean a chick using a fating coach tells you all you need to know

 

[Mindfield333]

That's the trap most men fall into.

You're heavily investing when the woman hasn't even confirmed her own actual investment which is agreeing to a date/meetup or at the minimum giving you her number.

I said next time I would get the number quicker but save them as something specific besides their name so they don’t get integrated with the rest of my regular contacts.

 

[Mindfield333]

if they got the easiest part, then why the fukk they keep failing at simple interactions with Men ?

Present for a physical date. I guess the issue is getting to that point. You’ll have to ask women that part.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

Damn man. Are you in Utah or something? Get someone to take better pics of you

No, in NYC. And my pics are good. Women are just not fukking with my face.

Looks matter to women. And black women in particular are harsh when it comes to looks, especially when it's a black man.

 

[Mindfield333]

Bumble is the app where women choose the Men so they already knew she was attracted to them

Bet if they were attracted to her they wouldve asked her out

Women can defenitely understand the nice but meh dudes getting curved but they never stop to think that maybe theyre nice but meh too.

I mean a chick using a dating coach tells you all you need to know

Not necessarily. People use coaches for things they want to improve on. Physical training, the job hunt etc.

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

why do women LOOK for serious behavior on dating apps?

Because there are serious people, plenty of people get into LTRs or married from meeting on apps

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Present for a physical date.

that’s not enough to secure a long-term relationship, so this is a moot point.

I guess the issue is getting to that point.

that’s not an issue either.

You’ll have to ask women that part.

That’s the ENTIRE point both Men and other women have been repeating.

there’s a SECTOR of women who aren’t taking accountability and reflecting as to what they may possibly be doing wrong in their dating life.

Not everything can be blamed on a man not “doing enough”

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Because there are serious people, plenty of people get into LTRs or married from meeting on apps

those apps have taken a culture of their own, and complaining about not getting serious results from said culture is stupid.

want to find a serious person/LTR on apps? Present yourself as one to the highest degree and know exactly what you’re looking for

 

[Mindfield333]

No, in NYC. And my pics are good. Women are just not fukking with my face.

Looks matter to women. And black women in particular are harsh when it comes to looks, especially when it's a black man.

Damn breh. I’m sorry to hear that. You probably gotta do things aesthetically that help like having clear skin or a nice cut/retwisted locs.