Dating Coach says Black Men be BSing

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Damn breh. I’m sorry to hear that. You probably gotta do things aesthetically that help like having clear skin or a nice cut/retwisted locs.
Got all of that.

Clear skin.

Good teeth.

In shape.

Fly as hell.

High confidence.

Naturally funny.

These are things I even get complimented on.

The facial structure is just not doing it for them. :yeshrug:
 

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Getting/planning a date shouldn’t be hard. Mutual interest, convo then plan a date. Women got the easiest part and that’s just to one present. It’s not anything to work to achieve. Trying to manipulate someone makes things harder though.

And its pointless. You're either on something or you're not.
 

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that’s not enough to secure a long-term relationship, so this is a moot point.

that’s not an issue either.

That’s the ENTIRE point both Men and other women have been repeating.

there’s a SECTOR of women who aren’t taking accountability and reflecting as to what they may possibly be doing wrong in their dating life.

Not everything can be blamed on a man not “doing enough”
The premise of this thread is about securing a date and actually planning one/not bullshytting. I’ve seen brehs take pride in not taking women on dates. Now are there some women that are delusional wanting 5 star meals out the gate? Yes. But We’re losing the plot, let’s stay focused.
 

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that’s not enough to secure a long-term relationship, so this is a moot point.

that’s not an issue either.

That’s the ENTIRE point both Men and other women have been repeating.

there’s a SECTOR of women who aren’t taking accountability and reflecting as to what they may possibly be doing wrong in their dating life.

Not everything can be blamed on a man not “doing enough”

Women and men in the dating scene are raised in two different environments. The issue is trying to merge those two experiences into a functional relationship..
 

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Not necessarily. People use coaches for things they want to improve on. Physical training, the job hunt etc.
You think any girl above a 1 is even thinking that she needs to improve to get a Man?

You ever took a look at women's social media especially their DM's?
 

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those apps have taken a culture of their own, and complaining about not getting serious results from said culture is stupid.

want to find a serious person/LTR on apps? Present yourself as one to the highest degree and know exactly what you’re looking for
People who are using the apps seriously do know what they’re looking for, that’s why there are these videos complaining about low effort, lack of conversation, etc. you don’t know someone is bs’ing until you engage with them
 

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Got all of that.

Clear skin.

Good teeth.

In shape.

Fly as hell.

High confidence.

Naturally funny.

These are things I even get complimented on.

The facial structure is just not doing it for them. :yeshrug:
You know theres other girls than the ones around your way.

A cheat cide for any up north cat go south. Opposites usually attract
 

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You think any girl above a 1 is even thinking that she needs to improve to get a Man?

You ever took a look at women's social media especially their DM's?
I mean if they wanna get a man that about something and not coming off like a side piece. Some women need assistance. It’s like everyone can get a minimum wage job but you might need a coach to land 6 figures
 

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You know theres other girls than the ones around your way.

A cheat cide for any up north cat go south. Opposites usually attract
You might be right.

NY women are by far the most delusional women on Earth. Probably due to men trying to holla at them since elementary school.
 

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The premise of this thread is about securing a date and actually planning one/not bullshytting. I’ve seen brehs take pride in not taking women on dates. Now are there some women that are delusional wanting 5 star meals out the gate? Yes. But We’re losing the plot, let’s stay focused.
yeah, because the woman wasn’t worthy of a date. Do the bare minimum for someone who is the bare minimum.

A sector of Women, BW to be exact, are courted properly. They are shown a good time, appreciation, and courtesy. They are respected, and protected throughout the night

I’m not gon let you nikkas group in fantastic BW with a group of undesirables, ones who are that due to an assortment of reasons
 

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I mean if they wanna get a man that about something and not coming off like a side piece. Some women need assistance. It’s like everyone can get a minimum wage job but you might need a coach to land 6 figures
My guy you think women care if they come off looking like a side piece????

I knew this pretty ass super christian chick who announced that Dez Bryant was in her DM's ( she was a super redskins/commanders fan to boot) and deleted her IG
 
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