Dating Coach "tries" to help a 55yo Single Black Christian find a Husband

[Voice of Reason]

That dude is a sissy

 

[Apollo Creed]

One thing she needs to understand is this:

If she's looking to find a genuine man of the Christian faith then it's gonna be hard at that age. Usually, men and women that are genuine in adhering to their faith and "doing it by the book" so to speak marry early, often times earlier than the general public. So while she was focusing on career and other things, the pool of eligible men (per her faith) were out there forming relationships, settling down and getting married etc.

Time waits for no man. You have to strike a balance between enjoying your youth but also being productive.

@Nigerianwonder You said it best. Biggest lie we tell the youth is "you have all the time in the world". It's really poor advice. My uncle would always tell me this "you have time, but you don't have time", there has to be sense of urgency/purpose in your actions. Stop and smell the roses, but keep things pushing ahead.

Only three types of men in a church
1.a man there because of his woman
2.a man hustling
3. A gay man

 

[phcitywarrior]

Only three types of men in a church
1.a man there because of his woman
2.a man hustling
3. A gay man

Ehhhh...let's just agree to disagree on this one G.

 

[the bossman]

He's not a dating coach more of a common sense type who doesn't kiss women's assess and tells them what they need to hear instead of what they want to hear.
If you don't watch his shows on the regular you've been missing out. He's been straight ethering incels, MGTOWs, and professional Black women who THINK they are 8s,9s,10s for like 3 months straight.




His shows aren't really intended for just Black people but they somehow pivoted that way for the last few months. Glenndon Camerons is starting to lean that way to even though they both said they're not going to do that. But they both see the fukkery and just can't avoid not focusing on Black people. They both seem to care about there group but aren't down for the excuses many Black males like to make as why they can't get the bag.

First 30 seconds into the "why black people don't have money and wealth" video and he says I'll explain to you why racism isn't a problem

 

[MaxPain]

Look who’s talking.. you’re a whore who probably has cheated on every woman you’ve been with. You’re not a shining example for your gender.

More femcel babble

Advocate for being lonely old women brehettes lol

 

[MikelArteta]

bingo

I tell everyone enjoy life when u in your teens and 20s but don’t be mad at 40 years old when u don’t have anyone and u complaining I can’t find a man

I see it so much and hear it from these women..

Majority of the women I dated all came from fukked up previous relationships and when I do my homework on the chick , I realized the dudes she was with prior been bums , ex cons or sleeping with a dude who was still married but separated from his wife

and the results are the same... the woman start to trust no man, crying because she has no one in her life, focus on the church or some just stick to randomly fukking a couple dudes on the regular when they need dik..

and then just like that 55 year old woman , they become more and more depressed because they friend or co workers are married or in real good relationships and they are a mess

Women think their prime is everlasting but its not

No offense but at that age what can a woman offer?
Beauty?
kids?


ish is like michael jordan making a comeback you were once great but the game has passed you by breh

the only times i hear about old broads liek these getting married is like their hs or college bf found them on fb type of ish

heck if i was 55 and single i wouldn't even cavort with a 55 year old woman my cut off would be like 45

 

[Art Barr]

old ass vets in that age group.
were never beasts in the bed, bougoise, old maid/slash gold digger matriarch game, prudes, original old maid divorcee, no knowledge of self religious chasity belt wearing goofies and c00ns.
Plus were the original dopeboi wives. Who were not down or so bogus based.
all because they choose wrong based on drug money and not real connections.

fukk that fifty year old age bracket.

they was wack when i was twenty two, twenty eight, thirty five etc.

chicks who graduated before 1996, not on shyt as a mate. Unless they was with their dream relationship since seventh grade and never broke up.

she a lost cause..her whole matrix and socialization is too warped in general to save.

ol boi just to young to just put her on ignore.
imma see what he says, but i can tell you.
ol girl huff in the sack and think her coochie is golden.
plus can not ride, and will never make a move on you regardless of how long you been around them.
plus all their talk is negative about being forward on sex.
on some you ain't getting none of this negative shyt.
Plus, since they were dope boi wives era. They do not even know how to pull out the pom poms to root a nikka on to do a cot damn thing. Including not educated on recognizing shyt street past being handed ol dope boi simp gifts.

trust me,...

I put one of the in the age bracket out in January of last year.


ol girl who gave me a crib was in this age bracket and i truthfully told her.
what it was and that is how i got a crib. As she was like you are the only guy who was ever honest about having other women and nOt having time.
Plus she not bout it in the bed. I should not be giving lesson on how to fukk or positions to an older woman.

ask her, what year she graduated high school.
if it is before 1996. fukk ol girl off top.
any chick before that.
is a definite wack spoiled ex dope boi wife and chastity belt wearing gold digger.
this age bracket is the original wack ones.
they created the auntie with a bag divorcee bullshyt too.


art barr

 

[Voice of Reason]

Only three types of men in a church
1.a man there because of his woman
2.a man hustling
3. A gay man

Some black men have religious conviction without some negative reason. I think a dude like Steph Curry is genuinely religious

 

[Art Barr]

finally sees thumbnails in thread.

man i ain't even listening to dude.

I'm out.
why would anyone listen to duke or watch him.
duke a lame.


art barr

 

[NZA]

he asked if she was clinically diagnosed by a shrink

 

[HARLEM AL]

I disagree. If you ask 1,000 women what they want out of life, 1,000 of them will list marriage as either the #1 or #2 priority. Very few of them would be able to vocalize a logical answer as to why they want that, they just want it.

Sure we have those internet chicks who are "strong, independent, and don't need no man" but that's just the internet. Those women are interested in someone; they're being courted by someone; sleeping with someone.

Unfortunately, there's no such thing as a happily single woman over 30.

There’s a difference in what they say and what they do. Everything they say is the total opposite of what they do. They say that because that’s what they think you want to hear. There actions up to now shows otherwise. I get women are under certain constructs but marriage ain’t one of them. They fought long and hard to be free to do as they wish. The pressure the feel is of their own self doing.

Again follow what they do and not what they say. They have at least 2-3 decent guys in their phone. The problem is they don’t want them. The “feel” they should deserve more.

 

[the bossman]

actually its the opposite. They been told they don't need a relationship and having a man will slow you down. And they are finding out thats not true. They feel empty and they feel alone when they get older.

I disagree. If you ask 1,000 women what they want out of life, 1,000 of them will list marriage as either the #1 or #2 priority. Very few of them would be able to vocalize a logical answer as to why they want that, they just want it.

Sure we have those internet chicks who are "strong, independent, and don't need no man" but that's just the internet. Those women are interested in someone; they're being courted by someone; sleeping with someone.

Unfortunately, there's no such thing as a happily single woman over 30.

Yall are both right. Most women grow up wanting romance, marriage, and a family. shyt they are nurturers at heart so they don't need to vocalize it. It's just in their DNA. It's a natural thing imo. I don't see anything wrong with it. BUT majority of today's women have been taught and raised to not need a man. To focus solely on education in order to get what you want out of life whether it's career options or certain quality of life. It's a good in a way. You'd be foolish as a man in today's world to raise your daughter to grow up to be dependent on a man. That's just setting her up for failure.

But the part that is missing is not teaching/showing them how to treat a man and how he should treat you. so that IF you want the marriage/family life then you are equipped to get that and maintain that. The mantra today seems to just be focused on "don't worry about men. just get your education. that's all that matters. everything else in life will work itself out". That's great for career but detrimental for relationships as they now have all the success at work but 0 skills in the relationship dept

It's crazy how people STILL leave dating and relationships to chance

The mentality of just focus on your education and everything else will work itself out is a huge disservice. Just cause you may be great at your job does not mean that success translates into your love life.

 

[mamba]

Some black men have religious conviction without some negative reason. I think a dude like Steph Curry is genuinely religious

Vast majority of eligible Black men aren't in church on Sundays. Those days are long gone.

That's not to say they are anti-religion. Most just don't feel sitting for hours on end every Sunday is a good use of their time.

 

[BeeCityRoller]

This is the result of "Black don't crack" Feel-Good rhetoric

 

[Voice of Reason]

Vast majority of eligible Black men aren't in church on Sundays. Those days are long gone.

That's not to say they are anti-religion. Most just don't feel sitting for hours on end every Sunday is a good use of their time.

I never said the majority of black men are in church. I'm saying of the black men who are in church some are in there for legitimate reasons.