Dating experience Random Thoughts: In the dating world...

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Hustling, finesse, lying...

It's apart of survival.
A lot of people do these things male and female b/c that's how they have operated to survive. It's not a matter of being a good or bad person but the experiences in their lives have made them believe that they have to do these things to get over on people.

And to be honest in some cases they are right. There is a subset of damaged people who respond to being manipulated and/or mistreated. So it gives u a zing to get results but ultimately those people can't satisfy u b/c u want something real. Just a few observations about the dating scene.

What are some of yours?

 

[Rhapscallion Démone]

Don't waste people time
Honesty is GOAT
It's ok to flirt but if u sense they're reading more into it than intended fall back...that's all I got right now

 

[AquaCityBoy]

#UglyTeam always loses.

 

[Mastamimd]

#UglyTeam always loses.

We gotta stick together tho.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

#UglyTeam always loses.

Looks aren't everything even tho too many people put far too much stock in them early on. Also average has descended into the category of ugly these days b/c people are ego maniacs and superficial. Most "ugly" people aren't ugly. they look average.

 

[Neuromancer]

A lot of people are looking for someone intersting, but aren't interesting themselves. My girl intimated this about previous relationships . She dated a Jamacian breh and he told her he expected her to be different in some way cause she's an "Alt" black girl. (she's really a regular black girl with varying interests.) But he wanted her to be the excitiment in his,life when she's kinda sqaure.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

A lot of people are looking for someone intersting, but aren't interesting themselves. My girl intimated this about previous relationships . She dated a Jamacian breh and he told her he expected her to be different in some way cause she's an "Alt" black girl. (she's really a regular black girl with varying interests.) But he wanted her to be the excitiment in his,life when she's kinda sqaure.

Yeah I've seen this. Usually these types got a chip on their shoulders trying to be something they not. They dating for validation not b/c they actually like each other.

 

[Mastamimd]

Looks aren't everything even tho too many people put far too much stock in them early on. Also average has descended into the category of ugly these days b/c people are ego maniacs and superficial. Most "ugly" people aren't ugly. they look average.

Its subjective but this is true. Theres a wide line between ugly and beautiful. Most of us are average as fukk or when dolled up 7s or 8s at best.

 

[ModestMo]

All I ask for is honesty, consistency and No Games!!
We can go out, eat good and enjoy ourselves.
Why does it have to be complicated?

 

[DarrynCobretti]

Be honest with yourself, because it's levels to this dating shyt.

Communication and making sure you're on the same page from the jump, is the foundation for anything you're trying to build.

 

[Neuromancer]

Yeah I've seen this. Usually these types got a chip on their shoulders trying to be something they not. They dating for validation not b/c they actually like each other.

Which type?

 

[Neuromancer]

All I ask for is honesty, consistency and No Games!!
We can go out, eat good and enjoy ourselves.
Why does it have to be complicated?

Because men and women tend not to want the same thing now adays.

 

[semicko82]

Hustling, finesse, lying...

It's apart of survival.
A lot of people do these things male and female b/c that's how they have operated to survive. It's not a matter of being a good or bad person but the experiences in their lives have made them believe that they have to do these things to get over on people.

And to be honest in some cases they are right. There is a subset of damaged people who respond to being manipulated and/or mistreated. So it gives u a zing to get results but ultimately those people can't satisfy u b/c u want something real. Just a few observations about the dating scene.

What are some of yours?

This one I can understand, I moved in with a chick who I wasn't attracted too. Worst decision I've made to date. It helped me out financially for a couple of months, but after a while you see a persons true stripes. Long story short everything bad financially end up happening to me anyway. Karma

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

The ones that need to date the most interesting man in the world. Lmao But they ain't even never been outside of their town.

Which type?

 

[ModestMo]

Because men and women tend not to want the same thing now adays.

Make your intentions clear.