Dating Game: How do you close girls?

[godkiller]

Describe your process and the right process because I conversed with, hit on but ultimately failed to close 2 women today. I have a problem with the late game pick up stage wherein one must set up a frame to get a target's number after the initial pick up and 20 minute discussion. I tend to ramble pointlessly which makes for awkward silences, fake smiles and failed missions. I can't seem to create lucid and effective closing frames. Women just walk away after 20 minutes of funny babble.

 

[Dwolf]

Describe your process and the right process because I conversed with, hit on but ultimately failed to close 2 women today. I have a problem with the late game pick up stage wherein one must set up a frame to get a target's number after the initial pick up and 20 minute discussion.

How did you fail?

 

[Killer Instinct]

I tend to ramble pointlessly which makes for awkward silences, fake smiles and failed missions.

Well there's your problem. You talk too damn much.
Women love talking about themselves. Let them.
Trying to make yourself come across as the most interesting man in the world isn't necessary, and it's a quick way to talk yourself out of her panties.
You should = Nonchalant, lighthearted, and concise.
Let her do the rambling in the initial conversation. Put her on the spot and allow her to sell herself to you.
Obviously you keep the conversation moving, but by no means should you ever be a chatty patty.

 

[MexicanKingpin]

You have to get the number withing the first 5 minutes and get the fukk out of there you can't be telling your whole life story to the girl.

 

[Surreal]

The last step is to wait. It's all on them bruh

 

[PeridotPuss]

I'm going to sit.....because

Yall might need some help

 

[Yoda]

I just tell em to close there legs, im finished now make me a ham sandwhich with no mayo hoe

 

[Bless't]

You have to get the number withing the first 5 minutes and get the fukk out of there you can't be telling your whole life story to the girl.

Basically. Garner her interest, make her giggle a few times, get her number then leave. Even if you have nowhere to go, leave. She knows within the first minute of being around you if she even wants to give her number to you.. Even still... That's 10% of the battle.

Process, endure, adapt.

Then cross your fingers.

 

[Bless't]

I'm going to sit.....because

Yall might need some help

 

[Warren Moon]

Usually let them be them and me be me.


I close when they react positively to me

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

get business card ASAP

just be like, "hey I have to leave to attend to some business, but It was a pleasure meeting you and I would love to get to know you better, here's my card"

when you give a chick your number, you have total control over the situation.

1) you automatically stand out. she's probably had 49754958 nikkas ask her for her number but you might be the only one to give her your number


2) when you call a girl, she can ignore you call, block you, shyt on you behind your back, etc. a lot of girls give out their phone number as a form of validation and for bragging rights to their friends. Some of these young hoes will give you their number and post a picture on IG like "OMG these thirsty nikkas keep blowing my line up "


3) if a girl hits you up first, she is pretty much interested in you so your chase will be much smoother

 

[plushcarpet]

just be good looking

 

[PhonZhi]

If u didnt compliment her thats where u up. Dont let these cats here tell u that givin women compliments is for suckers. Women LOVE aggressiveness. Let em know rite off the bat that you find her attractive physically. Dont drool over her looks or act thirsty, an "i thought u were cute so i had to say sumthing to u" is fine. Establish that you are talking to her because u find her physically attractive ASAP.

 

[At30wecashout]

I'm going to sit.....because

Yall might need some help

Lord that woman has her moments.

@Roddy Right You doing what I used to do, breh. That analysis paralysis is a mothafukka.

It's been said a few times, but really, close that deal, mawfukka I was on that song-and-dance shyt and NEVER got anywhere with women.

I switched my game up to treating them like I already knew them...and would do some shyt like "Man, that new ice cream spot opened up and I've been looking
for someone to buy me some." Corny as that shyt was, I was able to use it 3 times to hang out with different girls.

Don't be awkward, and don't be afraid to lose. Every man has held an L, and sometimes you start out dope and talk too much or entertain the wrong kind of conversation
and the thing is dead. Take note: women like to talk. You should be able to have her laugh and giggle, and you get to know things about her, while she knows shyt but
your name. Take your time, cause there are other dudes that are gonna throw every bit of info from where they work to how much is in their pockets. Show restraint
and meet her like an equal. When you treat a chick like an old friend, you can say damn near anything. To back up to an important point, know when to dead a conversation.

I have talked myself out of dates because my approach was right, I was hitting the notes, but I ran out of gas and attempted to win her back after already dropping the ball.
Just tuck your tail if you fukk up, but don't try to scrub history. If anything, audibly tell her "Yea, im a lame" and say your goodbyes. She might still want to speak.

Another important point: let her run her mouth, but don't let her mouth run you. She talk too much, you gonna do what every man she put in the friendzone before you
did, which is not know when to interject. Sometimes something she said can lead to a funny joke, or a way out of an interaction that is going too long. On that note, don't
let her talk about dumb shyt, or downers. Her girlfriend trippin? Her ex boyfriend showed up to her job? Don't listen to that. Keep that shyt dead. Be the best, most memorable
part of her day, get contact info, and run the fukk along. Overstaying your welcome when you are at a situational disadvantage I would say is 90% of why dudes fukk themselves
up. Stick and move!

 

[DrX]

ask her for sex ....worse she can say is no