Dating Game: How do you close girls?
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godkiller
"We are the Fury"
Poignant post. I forgot that one should make the target girl qualify herself--prove her worth--not the other way around. This frame imples that the man has value. I spent the entire conversation trying to prove my worth and ended up showing I have none in return. My late game collapses b/c my mind game sputters.
This is right. I had her wrapped around my finger within the first few minutes and things unraveled from there. But then I see other dudes get chatty on buses --- where I ended up -- and the girl looks interested so talking with them for longer than 5 minutes can still be conducive to eating, right? Its about letting her talk more; directing the combo; and putting her on the spot.
Bless't
Living the dream
Poignant post. I forgot that one should make the target girl qualify herself--prove her worth--not the other way around. This frame imples that the man has value. I spent the entire conversation trying to prove my worth and ended up showing I have none in return. My late game collapses b/c my mind game sputters.
This is right. I had her wrapped around my finger within the first few minutes and things unraveled from there. But then I see other dudes get chatty on buses --- where I ended up -- and the girl looks happu. What's the deal?
Basically... You have to work on your conversational skills. Practice makes perfect. The other dudes just had more "game" then you. And I fukking hate that term but it is what it is.
Conversation should, at one point, come naturally. You can just chop it up with someone and adapt to their energy and what they are saying to you and move accordingly. When you get good at this, you'll be able to direct them where you want them to go (conversationally wise)
It's never 100% accurate of course.
But for now, get a girls interest, get the number then bounce. Step 1... Done and done.
Knuckles Red
<3<3<3
Be funny, and attentive. Make a lot of eye contact.
VFib
All Star
20 minutes? Where are you approaching them? I'm not standing there for 20 minutes while you figure out a way to "close the deal". Especially if I have somewhere to go. Be friendly, respectable and direct, but get to the point.
I AM WARHOL
Veteran
Breh i literally order some monday half because of thisget business card ASAP
just be like, "hey I have to leave to attend to some business, but It was a pleasure meeting you and I would love to get to know you better, here's my card"
when you give a chick your number, you have total control over the situation.
1) you automatically stand out. she's probably had 49754958 nikkas ask her for her number but you might be the only one to give her your number
2) when you call a girl, she can ignore you call, block you, shyt on you behind your back, etc. a lot of girls give out their phone number as a form of validation and for bragging rights to their friends. Some of these young hoes will give you their number and post a picture on IG like "OMG these thirsty nikkas keep blowing my line up"
3) if a girl hits you up first, she is pretty much interested in you so your chase will be much smoother
cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
Good cuz I need a lil help bustin this nut right here, pm me some t*ts.I'm going to sit.....because
Yall might need some help
Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
THIS.
You got to observe her tide, and then ride the wave.
This is something you should be able to do talkin' to anyone, but a lot of you don't know how to talk
to someone in real life without a phone. Learning how to speak to people willl get you farther in this
world. "B-b-b-but, i'm an introvert..." Well, you gotta learn how to step out of that sometimes.
Sometimes you got go in the snake pit to get some chit.
Anyway:
- don't run up on her. how you come at her is 75% of it.
- don't have anything rehearsed; she'll know if she's getting a speech from you.
If you're trying to get your lines straight, it will keep her from talking.
- let her know you are attracted to her (you don't have to be too direct, you can slide that in the convo)
- ask for her name only AFTER y'all establish good repoire - and tell her your name as well.
Asking someone their name shows that you care about who they are, but people only wanna
tell somebody this when they feel comfortable with you.
- if you ask for the number, tell her why you want it.
- leave before she wants you to; don't spend too much time there.
I AM WARHOL
Veteran
help me too please
HollowPoints2
Don Makaveli.
Closing?
If you did a good job leading up to the closing part, then getting the p*ssy shouldn't be hard.For most dudes, the hard part is breaking the ice in a conversation not closing.Once you're able to do that ,then everthing else is easy. Especially after shes been around you for a while.
Step your game up lil niqqa.
cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
For real just chat for a min mention how I'd like to get together sometime for some bullshyt get yo digits, hit you up, go out, fukk, break it off, rinse and repeat til married or dead
BaldingSoHard
Banned
It's hard to explain cause every case is different.
But basically, less is more.
You want to sell yourself, but not your whole self.
Give them a little peek, but keep the best parts covered up. That creates intrigue.
I say no more than 5 mins of small talk before you give them the, "Why don't we hang out sometime, get to know each other better."
It's easier if you give the impression that you have somewhere to be shortly, that way you have an excuse to be short and to the point.
Close earlier. Realize the conversation is going on for too long. Always leave her wanting more and ask for the number to give her more.
Bless't
Living the dream
Talk about outer space and how much it interests you. Then play this.
If you generally know how to be a normal human being, something like this should spark SOME sort of interesting conversation.
If you generally know how to be a normal human being, something like this should spark SOME sort of interesting conversation.
"This may sound forward but can I have your number?..... I would like to continue our conversation" 
shyt never fails, I aint one to brag a boast but take it from a guy that GETS IT INNNNNNNNNNNN
Hit variations of this, knock off the last sentence if you don't need to soften the blow, sometimes replace it with "my friends are leaving" or "I caught a good vibe from you". Thank me later
shyt never fails, I aint one to brag a boast but take it from a guy that GETS IT INNNNNNNNNNNN
Hit variations of this, knock off the last sentence if you don't need to soften the blow, sometimes replace it with "my friends are leaving" or "I caught a good vibe from you". Thank me later