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I have a pretty straightforward no-nonsense attitude dealing with women . To most girls, I come off as crass and rough around the edges, but I'm also respectful and polite. I guess most of the girls I meet tend to think I'm too geniune, like I have an ulterior motive. And I can tell that they think that because they're always just a bit thrown off on how comfortable I am around them. They expect me to be nervous I guess. I don't really know how to explain it. It offends me. I am really like that. If I have a problem, I speak up. Things are really that simple.

I don't buy into the whole "romantic" view of love. You know, love at first sight, soul mates, all that shyt. I think the girls I date expect me to romance them, and I'm not going to do that. I want to get to know them as a person. And it throws them off I guess.
 

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Sounds like you need to hit the clubs, fukk a different girl at least 4 nights a week, and weed out the girls who just want to get hit. Then weed out the ones who want romance. Get the sluts who don't believe they deserve better than a scumbag, and eat up. Any hood club will do.:sas2:
 
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Sounds like you need to hit the clubs, fukk a different girl at least 4 nights a week, and weed out the girls who just want to get hit. Then weed out the ones who want romance. Get the sluts who don't believe they deserve better than a scumbag, and eat up. Any hood club will do.:sas2:

Too much money being wasted.
Not this thread again :beli:










I don't think I can handle any more :mjcry:

Share your thought breh.. What's up?
 

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Ever since I started telling jokes dating has been AWESOME. Women have been making me food and buying me meals for the last few weeks now. Just today I had 3 different women in a 24hr period. I feel like I'm on top of the world!

All because I can raddle off some zingers.
 

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Ever since I started telling jokes dating has been AWESOME. Women have been making me food and buying me meals for the last few weeks now. Just today I had 3 different women in a 24hr period. I feel like I'm on top of the world!

All because I can raddle off some zingers.


Most people can't tell jokes for shyt. You're the lucky one that can pull it off.
 

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I was on a date today, went to the movies and then to a sport bar for drinks to catch the seahawks games against the broncos. Ate some good food and had a nice time. I just try to be respectful, funny and charming. I don't see why is that so hard for most of yall?
 

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Too much money being wasted

Then it becomes zero sum if you ain't putting in that work. Truth of the matter is, your quality is gonna go way down more often than not. Even if you end up with someone bad as hell who fits the profile, a few weeks later you find out she twice miscarried, then a month later catch her in your bathroom like ":whoa:Bae, thats just Ajax. Its not what you think :damn:" while your tub tiles look :scust:
 

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Most people can't tell jokes for shyt. You're the lucky one that can pull it off.
Man, this fly ass chick I was dating today spent the whole time just listening to me riff. Didn't cut me off. Didn't argue. Just listened intently. Laughed when it was appropriate.

She ended up paying for my meal. All I had to do was get the tip. Ended the date with a nice makeout session. Going to hit that on Thursday.

Just before that I had a girl over at my place making me dinner and doing my chores then stayed the night. All because she's into my righteousness and loves the sh!t I spit.

Dating has entered a new stage for me, brehs.
 

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Too much money being wasted.


Share your thought breh.. What's up?
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Feel like I need to move just to have a decent dating life. I'm not one of these nikkas on here who tries to holler , fukk, dump and repeat with women like it's a sport. I just want a steady boo. Maybe I need to go back to school and get my degree. Feels like more women my type personality-wise are college educated . I'm shooting blanks off these dating sites/apps, clubs, bars, etc. etc. etc. Still, when I step out of the house, I gotta keep the front going like I don't have this problem with me. Otherwise, it could even be worse. I still have that mystique with me for I have a good life as a bachelor . However, At 33, I really don't have the patience to put up with the games a lot of women play today.


I can go further but I might need to find a publisher cause I can go on and on with my drought. :wow: I've had the worst luck with women , I'm starting to think it's meant for me to be alone :sadbron:
 

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Feel like I need to move just to have a decent dating life. I'm not one of these nikkas on here who tries to holler , fukk, dump and repeat with women like it's a sport. I just want a steady boo. Maybe I need to go back to school and get my degree. Feels like more women my type personality-wise are college educated . I'm shooting blanks off these dating sites/apps, clubs, bars, etc. etc. etc. Still, when I step out of the house, I gotta keep the front going like I don't have this problem with me. Otherwise, it could even be worse. I still have that mystique with me for I have a good life as a bachelor . However, At 33, I really don't have the patience to put up with the games a lot of women play today.


I can go further but I might need to find a publisher cause I can go on and on with my drought. :wow: I've had the worst luck with women , I'm starting to think it's meant for me to be alone :sadbron:
I feel ya brah. 3 years and counting for me. Dry spell like whoa.:why:
 
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