Dating Life After Losing Weight

[Krs2]

What's going on with his eye?? He should be thankful that's not a deal breaker for woman lol

 

[King_Kamala61]

He was the wrong kind of fat should've played football...Olinemen and Dlinemen don't have them problems

 

[WaveGang]

he seem kinda gay

and also,

It sounds obvious but remember, these guys grew up being told that looks don't matter.

The lesson in every romcom is that it's all about what matters on the inside.

Mainstream media tells you that all you need is confidence.

Pick up artists continued the lie with their "mouthpiece and game" bullshyt.

Redpill grifters mislead you into thinking that it's only about money.

So, when guys end up getting better looking and then receive more attention, of course they're shocked.

Looks were the only thing they were told they didn't need to have.

na bro, all the above is right you need all those things. in all honesty, society hasn’t changed.

in life you always needed to have your lames and npcs so the playas were represented by a small minority.

nowadays the lames and npcs just have platforms. back then they didn’t.

case closed.

and hb seem kinda gay

 

[god shamgod]

If I lost 130 pounds + I’d be dead Dude had to be 320+

 

[Sonny Bonds]

280? How tall is he?

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

See, WHY does it have to be all of that?

Why can't people just be attracted because they like what they see?

Remember, it's not just about the body.

Most people are referring to facial features when they talk about attractiveness.

The facial features you have usually don't say anything about you.

It is shallow. And that's okay.

You shouldn't have to justify why you're attracted to someone.

I’ve been saying this on here for years, and brehs get mad at me, and want to force women to marry men they aren’t attracted to, just because he’s a nice guy, or provides stability. Folks act like kissing and sex aren’t an important part of a relationship. She isn’t going to want to fukk you back, because you’re a nice guy. Notice I said “fukk you back”, because just laying there isn’t going to cut it.

 

[Uchiha God]

What exact insights did you get from this video that prompted a thread?

 

[The ADD]

See, WHY does it have to be all of that?

Why can't people just be attracted because they like what they see?

Remember, it's not just about the body.

Most people are referring to facial features when they talk about attractiveness.

The facial features you have usually don't say anything about you.

It is shallow. And that's okay.

You shouldn't have to justify why you're attracted to someone.

^^^

 

[Da King]

Social media is a disease

 

[Payday23]

See, WHY does it have to be all of that?

Why can't people just be attracted because they like what they see?

Remember, it's not just about the body.

Most people are referring to facial features when they talk about attractiveness.

The facial features you have usually don't say anything about you.

It is shallow. And that's okay.

You shouldn't have to justify why you're attracted to someone.

Yep. Its why all these people get played going off looks rather than looks and personality

 

[Payday23]

I’ve been saying this on here for years, and brehs get mad at me, and want to force women to marry men they aren’t attracted to, just because he’s a nice guy, or provides stability. Folks act like kissing and sex aren’t an important part of a relationship. She isn’t going to want to fukk you back, because you’re a nice guy. Notice I said “fukk you back”, because just laying there isn’t going to cut it.

The problem is when people have unrealistic expectations from people that will just smash rather than want something with you.. A lot of nice guys are raised by single moms who used them for emotional support and fukked them up. As to women its like they think if they win the guy over it proves their worth. Its like a woman who's muslim, partying, hooking up, acting American women style in every way being shocked men use and abuse her but won't wife her. You're telling me i have to do everything a normal woman requires but also commit to your religion and follow rules you dont follow? Nah. Social media has gassed women up so bad they think the hot guy who beats and cheats, hits and dips is on their level. In fact, social media celebrates toxicity in every form. Daddy and mommy issues everywhere. I will say mens attractiveness can change via LMS but only if its done for himself. A lot of people are going to end up single in the coming decades due to unhealthy social media, relationships and that doesn't even touch the job market, AI/robots are wiping out

 

[Payday23]

Are you crazy?

There is no “current dating scene”.


Society reacts to fat people one way and fit people another way. It’s that simple.


Yea; if you have a 15yr old daughter who is a size 20 and all the girls who are being asked to go to the dance are a size 2- 10, it would be pretty realistic to have a conversation with her about health, fitness, and how society treats people who are deemed more fit than others.


You have high school aged boys going to the gym with their fathers because they understand the difference in how people in school treat the guys who are fat or scrawny vs the guys who are more tone.

YES. If you want to raise kids who can somewhat acclimate to society you keep it real with them.


The girl who rolls out of bed wearing pjs to school vs the girl who takes the time to put together an appropriate outfit gets treated differently too.


Yea.


You want to get those convos out the way before college because your child will be in for a world of pain.


Folks be wondering why “some ppl are late bloomers” or “some people don’t figure it out until they are later along in life”.
THIS IS WHY.

Because some people have families that actually prepare them for the harsh social aspects of society, and some people have families that throw them into the world and tell them to “figure it out” on their own.

Agreed. Im part 2 and it's been hell. Navigating life with any disability, ethnic, height or weight difference and no support either in understanding the world or support from it's harshness is bad. Now I will say toxic thinking like you have to looksmax, be a size 2 etc for people who cant realistically achieve that doesn’t require shaming or bullying. Honestly, I don't feel bad when bullies get merked or beat up.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Oh shyt he went from "He exists?" to "Fine shyt."




I know he got BAGGAGE like a mofo

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

See, WHY does it have to be all of that?

Why can't people just be attracted because they like what they see?

Remember, it's not just about the body.

Most people are referring to facial features when they talk about attractiveness.

The facial features you have usually don't say anything about you.

It is shallow. And that's okay.

You shouldn't have to justify why you're attracted to someone.

Wrong

In what universe are we only referring to a face when they talk about attraction?

Ya'll literally post about ass all fukking day.

There is a 20+ thread of a woman who ya'll literally describe as looking like a "ghoul." A motherfukking ghoul.

 

[Phitz]

What exact insights did you get from this video that prompted a thread?

Let 'em play ref, let em play.