Dating Past 30 is easier for men than it is for women.

[Miggs]

I'll take my L I live in a million dollar home for half of the year alone. I'll get about 450k cold hard cash whenever my parents sell . I have a house in Jamaica mortgage free (thanks grandpa/rip grandpa), I'm about to start this cushy sweet unioinzed gig at a hospital on the 16th.


Such a tough life

Nobody would move out a house like that where they parents are gone for the winter to pay 1200-1500 a month rent for 1/10th the space so they can say they "left the nest".Especially not when like you said your gonna inherit the property or cash when its sold...

Toss ur money down the toilet so you can tell dumb bytches you "left the nest" brehs

 

[MikelArteta]

wealthy but you have a 9 to 5? which wealthy person has a day job?
mooching off your parents at 29 isnt an accomplishment i dont know any rich person that mooches off their parents well into their late twenties
they either off pursuing a dream, they inherit a business or have a startup they got funded
one of my bros whos 23 got an early start into politics from his rich parents he lives on his own, my other friend is fukking 25 and has his own catering business and he moved out 2 years now with his girl
u dont do shyt but post online all day
u nikka rich u not wealthy
if your house is that big then your neighbors come from real money then they look down on your old ass just know bruh

that's great breh congrats on your friends. I'll continue living this horrible life

 

[International Playa]

Its all depends on how you spent your 20s. Did you cultivate your career? Did you party and fukkk your 20s away

If you are a 30 + year old guy, you get better if you excelled in your studies and career. I know plenty 30 year old dudes who done nothing but party in their 20s in college and chose wack career paths doing bad, still living with room mates at 35.

Most women in their 30s usually have baggage, kid or two or emotional relationship baggage. A woman in her 30s with no kids and great career still has major value trust me.

How you spend your 20s determines your value in your 30s, man or woman.

 

[philmonroe]

No one is mad at them. I regularly fukk girls on IG, well used to, because I'm taken now, and I can personally tell you most of them are either superficial, or incredibly insecure. I have no problem with them, but the ones who go around shytting on nikkas, and go around like they're better than people ? I can't wait to see them hoes fall off. It's just the way it is

Regarding bold nikka think he the gate keeper on how chicks act smfh. Who the fukk cares if they aren't treating you or maybe your friends/family like that? I promise I think a lot of you dudes be lying y'all's ass off about the either the quality/quantity of the chicks y'all fukking with. I don't know one dude IRL from anywhere I've been that's get girls that sound like cats on here regarding them. Do you care about dudes who do chicks dirty? Do you go on rants about that? If not get this faux concern out of here.

No, because believe it or not, men aren't as materialistic as women. A lot of dudes ain't messing with a woman just because she has money. And you can age well all you want, you're never going to age as well as someone who hasn't had to start aging yet.

The 25 year old > The 37 year old. 95% of the time.

Men are materialistic but let's be real a chick usually not going to spend her money on a guy like the opposite would happen. Dudes would love for it to happen more often but I definitely agree its more about looks at first for majority of dudes unless you can see them in action like at work, volunteering, class, etc.

And the reality is that you will be in comparison to a young breh (no how matter how much you go to the gym) and without status like 95% of men


Youth is the ultimate social currency. I don't know who told you different.

This is true too most dudes ain't 40 walking around with the body of a model and bank account of a playboy. Most cats are just regular so you don't really have no advantage and probably have disadvantages because some chicks girlfriends/society going to try to clown you for dating a young girl esp if she late teens.

Coli full of revenge of the nerds ass nikkas

nikkas creating this imaginary world where their life is getting better but what are the 30 somethings on the coli doing?
Posting 500 times a day
Lying about smashing, making threads one minute about how depressed they are, then the next day are balling got certs and banging mad imaginary chicks.

Yeah dudes are making outlier situations become the norm on here. All you have to do is walk around and see that dudes in the 30s + are dating chicks more in their age range than not. Also a lot of dudes don't want to deal with that stuff young chicks usually bring if they are trying to settle down. My boy has dated a few younger (18-22) chicks at 33 but he isn't the norm at all.

I hear what you are saying but I think it's more realistic then you might realize

I see older single brehs bagging young chicks often enough. It does happen. They aren't unicorns.

Also remember how the dynamics of dating and relationships are changing a lot in this modern era. I think men ultimately will benefit from it in the long run. Breh I have tinder and anytime I log on I have dozens of HOT college girls (i live near a major university) to talk to and possibly meet literally at my fingertips.

The quality and quantity of bad broads out there these days is unreal. It's like they keep getting hotter and arguably more accessible.

Now let's look at dudes. It's a lot of simps and porn addicts out there. Straight up. You know why these smoke show 19 year olds are on Tinder? Because their 19 year old male classmates are at home beating it to xhamster and myfreecams.

Point is, I can't see a decent looking guy with financial stability in his 30s hurting for dates as long as he's focused and moderately aggressive. That doesn't mean he's gonna bag a new Ariana Grande every night, sure you'll swing and miss maybe more often than not but the potential to crush and have a fun dating life is definitely there. You just gotta stick your neck out. It's a buyers market.

I don't think nobody said it unicorns people said that's not the norm and if you think so you on that shyt regarding bold.

From what I see, it's the same at any age, but I guess you guys are trying to make it seem worse when women get older. I think what changes it, is when you have kids and gain weight (which most people do) but I doubt an attractive woman is having any problems.



It's so weird how on here all the dudes know a ton of 45 year old men dating 25 year olds but irl, I never see that. There was even a study saying men become invisible to young women at 39 (of course they all said that study was wrong but if it was about women, it would be right )

Bold is true I see a lot of older chicks who if they didn't tell you their age still look like they are low to mid 20's. Its definitely the kids and weight (for both genders IMO) that hurt people as they get older. They also aren't hurting for dates either but the commitment part but truth be told that happens a lot at any age for chicks/guys for various reasons. I don't know about the 39 part but for the avg dude I could see it and I also agree 40yr old dudes dating 20 something year old chicks isn't the norm at all but does happen.

I don't hate anything. I'm young, in College, enjoying myself for the most part, outside of the things that I can't change as far as my parents.

I hate dealing with bytches of my generation, so I haven't

I been fukking them and leaving them be up until The girl I met recently.

nikkas In this thread try to make it seem like every nikka who opposes the bullshyt that the average woman brings is either a loser, or a nikka who hasn't accomplished anything and lives with their parents. It's the opposite.

The most successful nikkas are the ones who don't waste their funds, or time on today's bytches. It's about self improvement. One of the reasons why I'm with the girl I,m with now is because she's low maintenance. And on top,of that she's beautiful and has her own money and crib, like me.

All that wasting resources, money and time on transient women is a dub for smart nikkas in 2015. fukk all that shyt.

First bold has a lot of truth because let's be real how often do people that are "winning" complain about the game being rigged? Also the most successful people don't waste their time talking about how chicks are this, that, and the other why they are having no problem getting them under some faux guise. You can also improve self without sounding bitter and like the dudes that get no chicks.

Second bold y'all gotta stop with the bullshyt most cats don't have "resources" anyway so they not spending shyt. Stop acting like the avg dude out here spending all his "resources" on chicks when most cats don't have shyt to spend in the first place and probably should be working on that instead of dating anyway.

 

[Mr.Forte]

This 35 year old single mother of three got mad at me because I wouldn't date her

She still gave me some head though

Right after she put her children to sleep

She had great hospitality

She laid the red carpet out for me

But she also had three Baby Daddies

 

[CHILLL]

This 35 year old single mother of three got mad at me because I wouldn't date her

She still gave me some head though

Right after she put her children to sleep

She had great hospitality

She laid the red carpet out for me

But she also had three Baby Daddies

u made a thread weeks ago about how depressed you were that you werent married by 30

 

[Ashley Banks]

Its all depends on how you spent your 20s. Did you cultivate your career? Did you party and fukkk your 20s away

If you are a 30 + year old guy, you get better if you excelled in your studies and career. I know plenty 30 year old dudes who done nothing but party in their 20s in college and chose wack career paths doing bad, still living with room mates at 35.

Most women in their 30s usually have baggage, kid or two or emotional relationship baggage. A woman in her 30s with no kids and great career still has major value trust me.

How you spend your 20s determines your value in your 30s, man or woman.

this is basically what I was trying to say. I think a lot of the guys on the coli want it to be one definite way that's in favor of men when it really just depends on the person.

 

[Mr.Forte]

u made a thread weeks ago about how depressed you were that you werent married by 30

I was being honest too

I always wanted a wife and kids

But things don't always happen the way you want them to

That's just life

 

[mamba]

Its all depends on how you spent your 20s. Did you cultivate your career? Did you party and fukkk your 20s away

If you are a 30 + year old guy, you get better if you excelled in your studies and career. I know plenty 30 year old dudes who done nothing but party in their 20s in college and chose wack career paths doing bad, still living with room mates at 35.

Most women in their 30s usually have baggage, kid or two or emotional relationship baggage. A woman in her 30s with no kids and great career still has major value trust me.

How you spend your 20s determines your value in your 30s, man or woman.

Good points. Men and women are squandering their 20s.

 

[CHILLL]

Nobody would move out a house like that where they parents are gone for the winter to pay 1200-1500 a month rent for 1/10th the space so they can say they "left the nest".Especially not when like you said your gonna inherit the property or cash when its sold...

Toss ur money down the toilet so you can tell dumb bytches you "left the nest" brehs

how wealthy are you if you cant afford 1500 dollars rent
you cant afford to own your business so you're forced to work a 9 to 5 in a hospital yet you're wealthy
nikka upper middle class and getting by
@Emperor_ReinScarf

 

[CHILLL]

I was being honest too

I always wanted a wife and kids

But things don't always happen the way you want them to

That's just life

atleast u being a real nikka about it

 

[Mr.Forte]

atleast u being a real nikka about it

Always

 

[the bossman]

who hurt you last night, bruh? Who inspired this ranting and raving?

A lot of you niccas gloating over these supposed dating options as you age come across as cats that are having difficulties now, and hyping yourself up over a better day to come. Kinda like niccas that think that "going to heaven" is going to make up for their shtty life on earth.

If these visions of prancing around with 21 y/o when you're 45 are keeping you warm at night, then so be it...but its not realistic.

that ether

 

[Ensoniq]

Im a nerd in my late 30s

Im married now

But when i was single in early to mid 30s i was fukkin hotties age 19-25 and they worshipped me, bytches my age got denied left n right

Cuz i had a place and dough and alot of cool shyt

It got old tho cuz of the maturity differences

So i just picked a hot leftover from the early 30s pool

Revenge of the Nerd

Gotta love it

 

[NatiboyB]

who hurt you last night, bruh? Who inspired this ranting and raving?

A lot of you niccas gloating over these supposed dating options as you age come across as cats that are having difficulties now, and hyping yourself up over a better day to come. Kinda like niccas that think that "going to heaven" is going to make up for their shtty life on earth.

If these visions of prancing around with 21 y/o when you're 45 are keeping you warm at night, then so be it...but its not realistic.

I don't know how old you are but as a 32 yo I most def agree with the OP....the quality of woman at 22 vs 32 is get seems to have increased in numbers and quality for me...Part of that may be maturity but part of it is also women respect security and quality of life more.