that’s why I hold my tongue when it comes to my dating woes. Anything a woman’s done to me, I’ve done to another woman. It sucks, but someone else has felt the same way through my actions…Flaked, left on read, ignored, hell.. some women were invisible to me until I HAD to speak to them.
that is the neglected group in these relationship debates: the invisible women. They get written off as “well, women can have sex anytime they want” but a lot of dudes assume every breh a woman has access to is electric in bed or assume every woman wants that primarily…It’s not just the obese or fugly ones, it’s the ones that don’t fit the model that these men fantasize.
A simple “damn, I wanted to fukk shordi but she wasn’t choosin’… oh well” would do WONDERS for the ego and mind but no.. let me complain about it to other men and project that onto random IG Thots I’ll never have access to or Twitter birds I most likely didn’t want in the first place.
a lot of men have to be realistic with who, where they fall, and need to look at the: