Dating red flags/tips you learned over the years

[Buzzed Lightyear]

If you squeeze your tooth paste from the bottom & she uses it & squeezes from the top or middle, she won't follow your lead in other scenarios.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Only thing I disagree with is the first date being cheap as hell...Coffee is definitely not perfect breh, that is a friend zone date...

$100 for dinner reasonable so that's what I would aim for...

Pay for dinner test always been one of the best in determining a woman's quality...If you enjoyed her company and she makes a move to pay for it, you stop her and pay it yourself...If she doesn't make the move, she's a smash and pass and you need to determine if you can get the box tonight...If the answer is no, pay your half and bounce...

The other classic test is the passenger door...Basically get out, open the door for her and when she gets in pay attention to what she does as you make your way around to the driver seat...If she pulls out her phone its

Also if she pulls her phone out infront of you at any point and does not apologize she's ...

I had a guy beg me for 2 weeks to hang out. I get there, a spot he chooses, and he wants to go Dutch. At that point he's pretty much cancelled in my book.

 

[Ohene]

The door test. Always the door test.

If she doesn't lift up that button to open the door for you, she's a selfish broad, and you're just seeing the tip of the iceberg. You dump her, and you dump her fast.

meh. with car doors having automatic door locks it aint the same

 

[Voice of Reason]

You really can't deal with a woman who you don't know where her loyalty stands. Some of these women have ties to other men, especially those with ex-boyfriends or baby fathers that are in prison. As soon as you catch wind that she was dealing with someone who's currently in prison. It doesn't matter whether he's doing 20 months or 20 years. If she was visiting him while he was in prison or putting money on his commissary, then she was still connected to him while he was doing his bid. Even if she tells you that she's no longer involved with him, do not take the chance.

I guarantee the dude in jail is still claiming her, especially if she was with him when he got locked up. It will be some unnecessary drama once he gets out of jail. There's a strong likelihood that he's going to try to get back with this woman. Even if it's for a place to lay his head or stand on his feet, she's who he is coming to. And if they have a baby together, forget about it. Just keep it moving. And sure, she'll try to hit you with the "it's not her fault he's in jail and that she's trying to move on with her life, but he won't get the picture", but that's not your problem. You deserve to come into a situation with a clean slate, and not having to worry or look over your back when it comes to her exes or some dude in prison. What would be tragic is you investing all of this time in her, and then he comes home and just takes your place. And she hits you with the "I love you, but me and him got history." She had you as a placeholder until her real man came home. And also had you raising his kid. Don't do it to yourself. If she got a man or baby father who's in jail, don't get mixed up in it. She's taken whether she believes it or not.

You should make a thread about this. I know a few women like this.

 

[RareHunter]

Lol.

For my brehs, a list of women’s real red flags

- paid in full on the first date and made no attempt at intimacy

- took a full two months to show any sexual or romantic interest

- double, triple, or quadruple texts after not getting a response

- has not gotten laid in the past six months

- expresses too much interest in getting into a relationship right away

- eye contact and physical touch are best described as “awkward”, always seems nervous

- has a roommate or lives with a family member

- talks bad about []his[\b] momma

- doesn’t work out

I’m so confused. Are u a breh?

If you a female, u tryna day you the one that pay and feed the dude?

 

[Won Won]

The door test. Always the door test.

If she doesn't lift up that button to open the door for you, she's a selfish broad, and you're just seeing the tip of the iceberg. You dump her, and you dump her fast.

Maybe in 1997. Everybody has a fob now

 

[HearNoEvil]

I’m so confused. Are u a breh?

If you a female, u tryna day you the one that pay and feed the dude?

I am a breh who was trained in the crimson arts.

 

[semicko82]

Only thing I disagree with is the first date being cheap as hell...Coffee is definitely not perfect breh, that is a friend zone date...

$100 for dinner reasonable so that's what I would aim for...

Pay for dinner test always been one of the best in determining a woman's quality...If you enjoyed her company and she makes a move to pay for it, you stop her and pay it yourself...If she doesn't make the move, she's a smash and pass and you need to determine if you can get the box tonight...If the answer is no, pay your half and bounce...

The other classic test is the passenger door...Basically get out, open the door for her and when she gets in pay attention to what she does as you make your way around to the driver seat...If she pulls out her phone its

Also if she pulls her phone out infront of you at any point and does not apologize she's ...

Agree to disagree, trust my dude she is letting one guy hit without spending one dollar on a date, meanwhile you going to the steakhouse and she gives you a handshake and hug.

 

[semicko82]

Sorry breh but coffee is a friend zone date. Nothing more. At least movie can give you a little intimacy.

I recently met up with this lady at a local coffee house, 30 minutes later I was at house tearing up them guts. If a woman is digging you, trust you don’t have to go all out.

 

[RJThaGreat]

Agree to disagree, trust my dude she is letting one guy hit without spending one dollar on a date, meanwhile you going to the steakhouse and she gives you a handshake and hug.

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

Animal print

Picked that one up from The Coli. It's so demonic, friends.

All praise due to Lord @Mowgli

 

[King Khufu]

Get a foreign for the long-term women, American women are too warped to be stable partners....

#ExoticalGang
Foreign honeys with money! 4 the W

 

[Black Panther]

You know if you dated someone who is conservative, you might eliminate some of that aint shyt behavior, right, darlin'?

All @Booksnrain would have to look forward to is this:



:bpunimpressed:

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

Only thing I disagree with is the first date being cheap as hell...Coffee is definitely not perfect breh, that is a friend zone date...

$100 for dinner reasonable so that's what I would aim for...

Pay for dinner test always been one of the best in determining a woman's quality...If you enjoyed her company and she makes a move to pay for it, you stop her and pay it yourself...If she doesn't make the move, she's a smash and pass and you need to determine if you can get the box tonight...If the answer is no, pay your half and bounce...

The other classic test is the passenger door...Basically get out, open the door for her and when she gets in pay attention to what she does as you make your way around to the driver seat...If she pulls out her phone its

Also if she pulls her phone out infront of you at any point and does not apologize she's ...

(In Clay Davis' voice) Sheeeeeeeeeeeit

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

I blame masculinity being eliminated from modern culture....

But you keep mentioning thing like "fukk raw"... at the same time you dont like someone politically conservative...

You know if you dated someone who is conservative, you might eliminate some of that aint shyt behavior, right, darlin'?

Nah I know plenty of on-paper conservatives who are staunch pro-lifers, uber judgemental, oh so by the book, who are also nuttin raw in chicks, and being hypocrites.

Actually, we can add hypocritical conservatives to the list---like dudes who are judgemental about single moms...but got a bunch of illegitimate kids themselves. Most wannabe conservatives don't live up to their own standards themselves.
Growing up in the church will teach u that.
Pastor got that extra family on the other side of town.
Ain't shytness ain't got a political/social/cultural affliation.