If She has a mind of her own
If she has a mobile phone
If she is black
I'm I doing it right Coli?
If she has a mobile phone
If she is black
I'm I doing it right Coli?
Dating red flags/tips you learned over the years
- Thread starter Max.
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BmoreGorilla
Veteran
90% of women eliminated out the gate
Single moms with multiple children by multiple men
Been verbally, physically, or sexually abused
Bad credit
Predetermined time period they plan to withhold sex
Can't hold a conversation
Doesn't watch the news (this always irked me)
Overly religious (every one of those women proved to be slutty in some way)
Questionable ambition
To many visible tattoos and piercings
To many male friends
To self righteous about anything
Loud
Teeth and feet/shoes tell a lot as all
Bad hygiene (must armpits, bad breath, funky vaginas)
Looking at older women in a woman's family will tell you a lot about how she's going to be when she gets older, so I always evaluated the mother, aunts, and other matriarchs within her family structure when looking at them.
Been verbally, physically, or sexually abused
Bad credit
Predetermined time period they plan to withhold sex
Can't hold a conversation
Doesn't watch the news (this always irked me)
Overly religious (every one of those women proved to be slutty in some way)
Questionable ambition
To many visible tattoos and piercings
To many male friends
To self righteous about anything
Loud
Teeth and feet/shoes tell a lot as all
Bad hygiene (must armpits, bad breath, funky vaginas)
Looking at older women in a woman's family will tell you a lot about how she's going to be when she gets older, so I always evaluated the mother, aunts, and other matriarchs within her family structure when looking at them.
I understand this completely. This is why when I meet women, I assume they are with someone.....by default
BmoreGorilla
Veteran
I’m surprised nobody brought up chicks who have dated dudes way younger than them. They be off mentally. True story I went out on a date with this chick a few years ago and the first red flag was that she was separated. That wasn’t the red flag itself tho. She had been separated before I even got married to my ex wife. So at the time that was like 7 years
Then she started talking about her ex bf and how he still had so much shyt at her house he needed to get. It turns out he was like 20 years old and she was the same age as me. This woman had the nerve to be an in home daycare provider too
I promptly blocked her number when I got in the car
Then she started talking about her ex bf and how he still had so much shyt at her house he needed to get. It turns out he was like 20 years old and she was the same age as me. This woman had the nerve to be an in home daycare provider too
I promptly blocked her number when I got in the car
So, no.... got it
IsThatBrothaMouzone?
Veteran
Red Flags:
1.) Doesn't get along with women and prefers hanging out with (straight) men. This means she's probably b*tchy or at the very least, just enjoys the attention of men. She's got way too many dudes hovering around waiting for their shot.
2.) Kids are not "bad" but if she's trying to get you to meet them right away....bad sign. You want a woman that keeps her kids out of sight when you're around. That means she's probably a good mom and doesn't just trust any dude around her babies. Good judgement.
3.) By date #2 or date #3, if she doesn't feel any urge to smash...keep it moving. You're not obligated to fukk right away but she should be visibly struggling to hold herself back. If she's too comfortable acting platonic around you, her needs are probably getting met elsewhere. Also possible she's got an arbitrary 'no-sex' period based on previous issues she's had with men.
4.) Cleanliness is relative. I dust, vacuum, handle my laundry, wash dishes, clean the bathroom etc. I can't stand a broad that's noticeably dirtier than I am. If a woman (single or with kids) can't clean up after herself at the level you clean, you'll have A LOT of fights in the future.
5.) Doesn't like to cook. Most guys want a lady that has a nurturing side. Quite a few of the women I've seen would cook dinner for me not long after we smashed the first time. They enjoyed cooking and wanted to show off their skills. There's something to be said for a lady that has a little old skool flair in her.
6.) She insists on coming to your house and is nosy. Seen a few like this...they come over to your house and get all up in your business. You can tell they're examining every inch of your crib but somehow always have some excuse for why you can't come to their crib. Had two broads like this....and had to drop them because they ask way too many questions.
7.) Tries to add you on facebook/IG etc., too quickly. I've had broads add me on facebook five minutes after our first phone conversation. I was sloppy with FB for a long time and got caught up with this thick pawg. I blocked her but she had her sister look me up and check out my profile. Didn't realize my profile wasn't private at first. Cleaned that shyt all the way up.
1.) Doesn't get along with women and prefers hanging out with (straight) men. This means she's probably b*tchy or at the very least, just enjoys the attention of men. She's got way too many dudes hovering around waiting for their shot.
2.) Kids are not "bad" but if she's trying to get you to meet them right away....bad sign. You want a woman that keeps her kids out of sight when you're around. That means she's probably a good mom and doesn't just trust any dude around her babies. Good judgement.
3.) By date #2 or date #3, if she doesn't feel any urge to smash...keep it moving. You're not obligated to fukk right away but she should be visibly struggling to hold herself back. If she's too comfortable acting platonic around you, her needs are probably getting met elsewhere. Also possible she's got an arbitrary 'no-sex' period based on previous issues she's had with men.
4.) Cleanliness is relative. I dust, vacuum, handle my laundry, wash dishes, clean the bathroom etc. I can't stand a broad that's noticeably dirtier than I am. If a woman (single or with kids) can't clean up after herself at the level you clean, you'll have A LOT of fights in the future.
5.) Doesn't like to cook. Most guys want a lady that has a nurturing side. Quite a few of the women I've seen would cook dinner for me not long after we smashed the first time. They enjoyed cooking and wanted to show off their skills. There's something to be said for a lady that has a little old skool flair in her.
6.) She insists on coming to your house and is nosy. Seen a few like this...they come over to your house and get all up in your business. You can tell they're examining every inch of your crib but somehow always have some excuse for why you can't come to their crib. Had two broads like this....and had to drop them because they ask way too many questions.
7.) Tries to add you on facebook/IG etc., too quickly. I've had broads add me on facebook five minutes after our first phone conversation. I was sloppy with FB for a long time and got caught up with this thick pawg. I blocked her but she had her sister look me up and check out my profile. Didn't realize my profile wasn't private at first. Cleaned that shyt all the way up.
You from chi come on now you know these hoes driving around in Cavaliers, Versa, Sentra and Malibus with temp plates and they check engine light onThis here....
Driving with missing hubcaps = sloppy ass woman
Junky car, junky house......junky MENTAL STATE
xoxodede
Superstar
30 plus and haven’t been in a relationship longer than a year
Living in community housing
Was used by an ex for money or sex
Living in community housing
Was used by an ex for money or sex