Dating red flags/tips you learned over the years

[Malcolmxxx_23]

If she says

PeRIODTt

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

If she smokes weed all the time.

 

[DatNkkaCutty]

"I don't fukk wit females...most my friends are dudes...."

"I got 3 kids..."

Me: "That's whats up. How many BDs you got tho?"

"3...."



"Me n my BD are still coo...."

(First date...)"So we goin to do something BIG...a boat ride...the city...what?"

"I used to do coke (or any hard drug)..."

IDK what your cuddy ass did for that shyt...

"My ex just came out the buildin...that ngga a lil crazy nd a stalker...."

In my younger years when I was on that... it was cool. Now I don't even entertain these type a hoes.


(Me at shorty crib)....

"So u aint gotta dude? I don't gotta worry bout no ngga runnin up in here righ?"


"Hell nahh....U good."

"What type movies you like queen?"

"Romance n comedies..."

"O ok...can you pour me another drink please..."

(Proceeds to run DVD collection by the TV or Netflix que)....

-Menace II Society, Paid In Full, Scarface, etc.....

"No dude uh hoe...."

 

[cheek100]

Animal print

Picked that one up from The Coli. It's so demonic, friends.

And overly arched eyebrows huge indicator

 

[xoxodede]

- he doesn't have any unsecured credit cards

- he has yellow teeth or bad teeth

- he doesn't care about his wardrobe or hygiene

- his bedsheets smell or his house smells

- he has yellow/brown stains in his white tees

- he has a roommate or lives with his family member

- has a baby mother -- and he "hates" her

- he wants to pick out my clothes and tells me how to wear my hair

- he doesn't take the trash out if he sees my trash is full or by the door.

- he always brings up feminist or feminism

- he calls or I over hear him call women broads, bedwenches, clucks, bytches, hoes

- he always asking or making suggestion someone is paying my mortgage for me -- or trying to figure out my pockets

- he uses "baddie" or "bad" when referring to me or any woman.

- he's from California or Vegas

- he's dated IR or is bi-racial

- he talks bad about his momma

- he doesn't work out

- he talks about business, entrepreneurship, and tries to tell me or anymore else how to get money from doing so -- but is employed and works a 9-5.

 

[HearNoEvil]

- he doesn't have any unsecured credit cards

- he has yellow teeth or bad teeth

- he doesn't care about his wardrobe or hygiene

- his bedsheets smell or his house smells

- he has yellow/brown stains in his white tees

- he has a roommate or lives with his family member

- has a baby mother -- and he "hates" her

- he wants to pick out my clothes and tells me how to wear my hair

- he doesn't take the trash out if he sees my trash is full or by the door.

- he always brings up feminist or feminism

- he calls or I over hear him call women broads, bedwenches, clucks, bytches, hoes

- he always asking or making suggestion someone is paying my mortgage for me -- or trying to figure out my pockets

- he uses "baddie" or "bad" when referring to me or any woman.

- he's from California or Vegas

- he's dated IR or is bi-racial

- he talks bad about his momma

- he doesn't work out

Lol.

For my brehs, a list of women’s real red flags

- paid in full on the first date and made no attempt at intimacy

- took a full two months to show any sexual or romantic interest

- double, triple, or quadruple texts after not getting a response

- has not gotten laid in the past six months

- expresses too much interest in getting into a relationship right away

- eye contact and physical touch are best described as “awkward”, always seems nervous

- has a roommate or lives with a family member

- talks bad about his momma

- doesn’t work out

 

[ViShawn]

If she's a feminist.

 

[ViShawn]

Single moms
Been in an abusive relationship
Never knew her dad/fatherless
Cheated on/shyt on every relationship
Talks about her ex alot
Lack of respect for men
Feminist ideology leanings
Has all male friends
Too many visible tattoos/piercings
Unnatural hair color
Lives alone
Went to a party school
Has a cracked iphone screen
Dirty room/car
High body count
Worked in the sex trade
Abuses alcohol/drugs

Etc etc

I agree with most but what's your reasoning for "lives alone"?

 

[Mike Nasty]

If her passenger seat is all the way back, she got a dude on the side

Actually a double red flag, cause she's driving around with dudes who most likely don't have a car.

 

[xoxodede]

Lol.

For my brehs, a list of women’s real red flags

- paid in full on the first date and made no attempt at intimacy

- took a full two months to show any sexual or romantic interest

- double, triple, or quadruple texts after not getting a response

- has not gotten laid in the past six months

- expresses too much interest in getting into a relationship right away

- eye contact and physical touch are best described as “awkward”, always seems nervous

- has a roommate or lives with a family member

- talks bad about his momma

- doesn’t work out

I almost agree with your full list.

But,

- paid in full on the first date and made no attempt at intimacy

This is actually ok. Because, most women are not going to be all lovey-dovey and touchy-feely on the first date. I expect just a regular date with conversation, laughs and respect.

- took a full two months to show any sexual or romantic interest

This would definitely be a problem -- but no way I'm going to let it go past the 2nd-3rd date. I would know within the first couple weeks if you are going to be dropped or ghosted.

- expresses too much interest in getting into a relationship right away

Agreed. It doesn't feel right.

 

[IVS]

If you ask her to send you a pic and she says "add her on instagram".....she dont really fux with you like that.
If she ask you to go run errands with her.

She not really dating you, she just occupying her time.

 

[ViShawn]

Personal one for me:

Pay attention to her behavior on social media. If she posts too much or always posting what she's doing online she may require way more attention than i ca provide. I always tell women i have the attention span of a 5 year old.
If she requires a lot of attention i'd probably get on her nerves really early so why bother?

Women i fukk with understand that them not hearing from me for 3 or 4 days is perfectly normal.

A girl I know that was into me and I was sort of feeling was "off" to me for some reason. I later realized how much she posts selfies and stuff on social media and she's 32!

She said she was giving up social media for a month after her grandma died and she couldn't last 10 days until she was posting selfies and using FaceApp and shyt. shyt is annoying. I see her always on IG and she used to like my stuff now she ignores me a bit because I stopped talking to her.

 

[xoxodede]

If you ask her to send you a pic and she says "add her on instagram".....she dont really fux with you like that.
If she ask you to go run errands with her.

She not really dating you, she just occupying her time.

Running errands is a beautiful thing to do together. What you talking about?

On the IG issue. It's a red-flag if they have a IG, Snap and Twitter account they really care about and need to update all the time. I can't deal with someone obsessed with IG and social media.

I don't have one -- so I always get the side-eye -- and asked why.

Another red flag -- always wanna FaceTime ALL THE TIME. It makes me think they always facetiming somebody. And when Im not around.

 

[IVS]

Running errands is a beautiful thing to do together. What you talking about?

On the IG issue. It's a red-flag if they have a IG, Snap and Twitter account they really care about and need to update all the time. I can't deal with someone obsessed with IG and social media.

I don't have one -- so I always get the side-eye -- and asked why.

Another red flag -- always wanna FaceTime ALL THE TIME. It makes me think they always facetiming somebody. And when Im not around.

RUnning errands while im trying to get to know you. Naw fux all that. I run errands with my lady, not somebody im pursuing.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

-Her "best friend" is a male
-Complains about bills
-Hygiene
-Idolizes ig thots
-Single mom but her IG is nothing but different angles and filters of her ass and titties.
-Only reads sex novels
-is 30+ still getting tattoos on her chest & ass