Dating red flags/tips you learned over the years

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RUnning errands while im trying to get to know you. Naw fux all that. I run errands with my lady, not somebody im pursuing.

True. But, what if she is trying to see if you vibe with doing things together.

Like going clothes or shoe shopping together - it's a great way to connect (or disconnect).
 

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- he watches and donates to Tariq Nasheed or any YouTube "Black Manosphere"

- he always brings up my or anyone else's skin-tone/skincolor -- or he says he only dates "light-skin or brown-skin baddies" - aka Colorist

- he brings up how he doesn't like his woman to wear Headwraps or Bonnets to sleep -- even though he doesn't know if you do or not. And doesn't care that sometimes you may need too.

- he compares me to his ex's - good comparison or not.

- talks or lets me know about his favorite IG Thots, Pornstars or anything sexual without me inquiring

- he makes comments about getting me pregnant. Not cute.

- he is on some #alllivesmatter or #allvaginasmatter

- he watches reality TV shows and plays a lot of video games

- he always asking for a picture or to take a picture - and even when they see you all the time. Like why?

- he makes comments about my shopping habits or things I buy.

- he goes out to the club still -- or more than once a month.

- His crew consists of celebrities and male thots.
 
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Another red flag -- always wanna FaceTime ALL THE TIME. It makes me think they always facetiming somebody. And when Im not around.

Most likely someone is facetiming you because they wanna make sure you ain't lyin which early on in any relationship I don't wanna be facetimed like that I don't have to answer to nobody so I refuse it
 

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A lodge of the Saints John of Jerusalem
This here....

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Driving with missing hubcaps = sloppy ass woman

Junky car, junky house......junky MENTAL STATE
Bald ass tires too.
 

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If he is

-bitter
-no career
-plays video games excessively
-got kids and uninterested in being in their lives
-blames women for everything
-abuses drugs
-has insecurities about your career
-is a Hotep
-doesn't have a good relationship with his parents
-is a hoe
-incel
-can spend days in a dark room doing nothing
-lives in a filthy crib
-can't cook or clean
-seems irritated by u being positive
-always tries to bring everything back to sex
-is never genuine but always talking corny game
-can't be himself
-Hates on his own friends to make himself look good
-has encouraged a chick to get an abortion in the past
-lacks passion
-is willing to fukk u raw
-never accountable for anything
-doesn't have REAL hobbies outside of PSN
-seems controlling
-can't have an enjoyable conversation with u
-resents u for having any expectations of him but wants to fukk u
-is a single sperm donor
-gets triggered by this list


There are others...
 

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If he is

-bitter
-no career
-plays video games excessively
-got kids and uninterested in being in their lives
-blames women for everything
-abuses drugs
-has insecurities about your career
-is a Hotep
-doesn't have a good relationship with his parents
-is a hoe
-incel
-can spend days in a dark room doing nothing
-lives in a filthy crib
-can't cook or clean
-seems irritated by u being positive
-always tries to bring everything back to sex
-is never genuine but always talking corny game
-can't be himself
-Hates on his own friends to make himself look good
-has encouraged a chick to get an abortion in the past
-lacks passion
-is willing to fukk u raw
-never accountable for anything
-doesn't have REAL hobbies outside of PSN
-seems controlling
-can't have an enjoyable conversation with u
-resents u for having any expectations of him but wants to fukk u
-is a single sperm donor
-gets triggered by this list


There are others...

Girl, you came through!
 
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