Dating red flags/tips you learned over the years

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Girl, you came through!

You did first!

 

[Elle Driver]

Single moms
Been in an abusive relationship
Never knew her dad/fatherless
Cheated on/shyt on every relationship
Talks about her ex alot
Lack of respect for men
Feminist ideology leanings
Has all male friends
Too many visible tattoos/piercings
Unnatural hair color
Lives alone
Went to a party school
Has a cracked iphone screen
Dirty room/car
High body count
Worked in the sex trade
Abuses alcohol/drugs

Etc etc

Damn

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

- he watches and donates to Tariq Nasheed or any YouTube "Black Manosphere"

- he always brings up my or anyone else's skin-tone/skincolor -- or he says he only dates "light-skin or brown-skin baddies" - aka Colorist

- he brings up how he doesn't like his woman to wear Headwraps or Bonnets to sleep -- even though he doesn't know if you do or not. And doesn't care that sometimes you may need too.

- he compares me to his ex's - good comparison or not.

- talks or lets me know about his favorite IG Thots, Pornstars or anything sexual without me inquiring

- he makes comments about getting me pregnant. Not cute.

- he is on some #alllivesmatter or #allvaginasmatter

- he watches reality TV shows and plays a lot of video games

- he always asking for a picture or to take a picture - and even when they see you all the time. Like why?

- he makes comments about my shopping habits or things I buy.

- he goes out to the club still -- or more than once a month.

- His crew consists of celebrities and male thots.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

When it's early in the dating stage and you tell her your want to come over and she says "tonight's not a good time" because she secretly got some dikk lined up to come through while you at home playin' ps2, thinkin' she's at home sick with a cold.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

-Gets offended or emotionally manipulative if you want him to get tested for STDs

-Acts like ur crazy or not feeling him just b/c u don't want his strange dikk inside u after going out with him once

-Mentions "submission" or "submitting"
-been divorced more than once or went thru a bad divorce.

-Feels entitled to female affection and resents men women like
-One with the universe, can't be bound, Free spirit dikk.
-Is a Republican or conservative
-thinks money can be a replacement for being a good person
-doesn't like women or consider them human beings
-hell doesn't like people

 

[The Message]

Has a cracked iphone screen

nikka if this aint the real deal holyfield

i used to joke and tease girls about it...but as i eventually found out...its the fukkin truth. RUN!

 

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

some entertaining ass posts in here

gonna sub to read later

 

[The Fukin Prophecy]

Single moms

No kids, lives alone and not in great physical shape
Daddy drama
Expects you to pay for everything

 

[Fctftl]

Man some of these flags yall postin apply to my girlfriend. I shouldnt have read this thread. :sadspur:

 

[xoxodede]

You did first!

One more though...

- expects you to only talk/date/communicate/spend time with him -- but he expects you to be cool with him having a whole rotation of women he does all those things with.

 

[True Darkseid]

Single moms
Been in an abusive relationship
Never knew her dad/fatherless
Cheated on/shyt on every relationship
Talks about her ex alot
Lack of respect for men
Feminist ideology leanings
Has all male friends
Too many visible tattoos/piercings
Unnatural hair color
Lives alone
Went to a party school
Has a cracked iphone screen
Dirty room/car
High body count
Worked in the sex trade
Abuses alcohol/drugs

Etc etc

 

[threattonature]

- if she doesnt like sending pics(regular) shes either fat or she still not over her ex...we live in the Instagram era no excuses

- if she has kids ask her how much time she has available( big flag...u will save time)..broads will lie sayn they busy with kids n be on dates with other men

- simple one bit If she doesnt text you alot or compliment you physically( ive matched with women n talked n noticed some wont say im handsome etc) im not taking no bytch out or spending a dime lmao

This the realist shyt ever. Every single female that I've asked for a full body pic (for those I met online) that tries to argue about it or tries to deflect had a garbage ass body outside of one. The one that didn't had a godly body but was a fukking nutcase though.
My list is pretty simple:
-too much focus on social media
-sends too many pics
-too much time in the club
-all her friends are guys
-always high or drunk
-has a child but never talks about them
-bad relationship with parents
-complains too much
-makes self out to be a victim in every story
-makes everything about herself
-talks about ex too much
-too evasive about past
-never attempts to pay
-talks too much early on about how man should "take care" of women
-talks about ballers she dated in past
-talks too much about trying to ball out

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

If she has a dirty car, she has a dirty living space

 

[Marc Spector]

Any bytch who stans the city girls or cardi.

They out to get over on you.

 

[YouMadd?]

The relationship with the father thing is VERY important.... Most women's only reference for what a quality man comes from the father and how their relationship with their mother was.

a Nonexistent father leaves them to go into fantasy land(even more than usual) of what a man should be and what their relationship should be like.