Dating women with kids?
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Neil Tyson
YYZ
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Treblemaka
President, BYNKRadio.com (Retired)
I've done it before. I knew going into it I wasn't going to be long term widdit. When she asked me to do ish for her son I told her "I'm not his daddy" which she tried to get controlling I dipped.
Sex was good
convo was good
If you ain't got kids too, chicks wit kids are seasonal. Like flip flops and pea coats.
Sex was good
convo was good
If you ain't got kids too, chicks wit kids are seasonal. Like flip flops and pea coats.
I'm just tryna get the yams. fukk is a long term?I've done it before. I knew going into it I wasn't going to be long term widdit. When she asked me to do ish for her son I told her "I'm not his daddy" which she tried to get controlling I dipped.
Sex was good
convo was good
If you ain't got kids too, chicks wit kids are seasonal. Like flip flops and pea coats.
Most people over 25+ have at least 1 child....some have multiple and with multiple baby daddies.
It's due to our community and being accepting of women and men with kids outside marriage. Sometimes we encourage it. Actually in the black community...and Hispanic I believe...u would be looked at as weird as not having a child by 30. People would think u infertile, gay or lesbian, selfish, career man or woman who is selfish and don't want to add to ur family, or u just want to be immature and not deal with the growing up and raising a child and having to sacrifice.
If u date a woman with kids...ask about the fathers. Baby daddy drama can be a lot to deal with. If u don't have biological kids but want them...make sure she is willing to have a child for u. If not...u may have to find another woman...unless u OK with not having any kids of ur own. Make sure y'all on same page about kids, finances and both of your desires. During dating, make sure u treat kids with love and respect almost like their ur step kids. Remember they come with her as a package deal. They are a part of her and they should be. Watch how she treats her kids and how she is as a mother. It may tell u some things about her.
It's due to our community and being accepting of women and men with kids outside marriage. Sometimes we encourage it. Actually in the black community...and Hispanic I believe...u would be looked at as weird as not having a child by 30. People would think u infertile, gay or lesbian, selfish, career man or woman who is selfish and don't want to add to ur family, or u just want to be immature and not deal with the growing up and raising a child and having to sacrifice.
If u date a woman with kids...ask about the fathers. Baby daddy drama can be a lot to deal with. If u don't have biological kids but want them...make sure she is willing to have a child for u. If not...u may have to find another woman...unless u OK with not having any kids of ur own. Make sure y'all on same page about kids, finances and both of your desires. During dating, make sure u treat kids with love and respect almost like their ur step kids. Remember they come with her as a package deal. They are a part of her and they should be. Watch how she treats her kids and how she is as a mother. It may tell u some things about her.
I'm 25 right now and it's getting scarce.
I'm not sure. I'm always down to give a relationship a chance.
But at 27 I'm starting to get scared. I really hope to find a career minded, college educated woman, with no kids; But it's really starting to get tough.
I'm always down to give a relationship a chance.But at 27 I'm starting to get scared. I really hope to find a career minded, college educated woman, with no kids; But it's really starting to get tough.
Charlie Sollers
All Star
Chicken wings and french fries. That's all they would get.
How do y'all do that? These hoes always busy. I'm getting at the age where more than half these girls have kids. I'm just tryna smash this PYT and she talking about baby sitters
why you askin about datin when you just tryna smash?
we don't do that around here
I was with one for a couple of years. She had a babysitter whenever needed, and their father would take them too.
Oh wait... fukk single mothers, throw em in the bushes
Oh wait... fukk single mothers, throw em in the bushes
I will never do it again