I paused at the fabric of his early unfolding and how it may have shaped some of his mentality, but I don't sense "agent" from the man. He's to rooted in himself to be a pawn like that. Even his alluding to direct white racism he experienced himself factors into his drive. The message is based in "do for self"... which isn't a "bootstrappism" nod. Alternatives to psychological centeredness for black men is a good thing, as we are familiar with general militancy, anti-establishment, etc. I'm an astute stoic...so I already navigate a path that fits a similar narrative. I get it tho.
I'm at exactly 200 pages in his book, and I agree. So far, I feel like the message of David's book is saying that "Life is going to suck sometimes, and when it does, the only person who can save you is yourself." Which is true, because when shyt happens, who's really got our backs except for us? Support systems are wonderful, but that's just it -- they're
support systems. They can't do everything for you, as much as we may wish for it sometimes. And I think David's mentality in that regard, to take it one step further, is "What will you do even in the events when you
don't have that support system?" He didn't have his mom or his on-again/off-again wife Pam with him during Hell Week those three times. While he had other people enduring it with him, it's
his own mind that got him through it. It's not like dude was tanking it no problem either, he was close to quitting numerous times. Even he acknowledges just how insane it all is.
His dad was an absolute piece of shyt, to be sure, but he also faced a lot of turmoil being the only black kid in his environment, and a lot of his growth comes from him accepting both sides of the trauma. I highly doubt that someone like David, being the man that's been through everything that he has, is then going to turn around and preach Bootstrap Tactics. The fundamental difference, I believe, is in the intention. David is all about conquering life by accepting that there will be suffering, and the only way to grow stronger is to welcome it and use it to steel our resolve. There's so many circumstances that occurred in his life that could've set him on a terrible path had someone older than him or wiser didn't make a decision in a split-second, and he knows this.
He
could go out and say "Well, if I was an overweight kid who dealt with abuse and was heading down the wrong path and became a Navy SEAL, there's no excuse for you!", but then he'd be forgetting exactly where he came from and what it took to get him there. It'd be like Elon Musk laughing at a homeless man because the homeless guy wasn't able to own Uber at the same age Elon owned PayPal. At that point, you're throwing the baby out with the bathwater, and then where would we be?