DDG and gf haile are now separated

[Chelsea Bridge]

Only 1 in 4 black women marry, where is this plenty of single mothers you speak of that are getting married??
65% of the women are not married
75% won't get married in their lifetime and that number is growing
It's only 24%- 28% of married bw one bm in this country

Men don't wanna raise another man's child or children

This is 2024, not 1994

There are more single mothers than there are married men in our community.

Ask 1000 men and majority will tell you this.

I don't know what world you live in but dudes with money are hitting her, maybe making her a gf, and that's it.

But you keep believing that nikkas are out here making single mothers wives

That’s not how life works in the world she lives in. She’s not some everyday woman that got pregnant by some random man. Now did she make a bad decision? Of course she did, but that won’t affect her as much as you think it will given the life she lives and the world she lives in.

You know that 1 in the 4 represents millions of women right? I said plenty.. I didn’t say all of them.

And those other single mothers not getting married isn’t because they are only being used to hit and quit, it’s because the standards of marriage is not a reality for a lot of those women just like the men who choose to continually impregnate women without even thinking about marriage. Until marriage becomes more of a focus in the black community then you will have these statistics and it has nothing to do with hitting and quitting.. it’s the standards that each individual has to uphold when they decide to be with someone.

That’s how it works.

Halle will be fine.

It’s DDG out here acting like the one who’s been hurt. It’s clear that she left him because she chose that peace you were speaking about for herself and it seems she is focused on her career and raising her son. She can definitely find another man if she focuses on the right ones.

His recent words said that he doesn’t want multiple baby mamas and the only relationship he would be in is to be back with Halle. He said they’re taking a break right now but that’s the only woman he would be with. So clearly that’s who he wants.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Oh, she will be just fine!

It’s the disappointment that she dealt with a guy like DDG. If things didn’t workout with a more respectable dude, folks wouldn’t really trip as hard. We could all look at him and see what the outcome would be, that’s all. But she’ll be aight. Plus she’s young so she’ll definitely find someone else when it’s time.

Exactly. It’s 100% a disappointment. The same disappointment I saw when Ciara decided to be with Future and had a baby with him. But what she did was she found a better man and she’s thriving right now with her beautiful family,

People don’t like to see someone that they see more for, either it be a woman or man, in a particular relationship with someone who they know shouldn’t have even been a choice.

But we always hope people learn as they grow and just because someone made one bad decision, that doesn’t mean that person making a bad decision will continue to follow on that path nor do they deserve to be judged for that one bad choice.

Like you said Halle is still young and she may need more guidance but I don’t see her continuing to make bad decisions now that she sees the decision she made and the results that came from it. She has a beautiful baby boy and hopefully she focuses on creating a positive and prosperous environment for him and herself.

I’m not going to judge a young woman for making a mistake.

We all know the definition of insanity.. making one mistake doesn’t make you insane.

 

[Secure Da Bag]

With all the dating that Rubi Rose and Lori Harvey do, how come they ain't running with 3 kids a piece?

 

[Gloxina]

With all the dating that Rubi Rose and Lori Harvey do, how come they ain't running with 3 kids a piece?

Cuz they know the game!!


Now if they really really understood, they would marry one of their better prospects (although I still believe Lori will be fine in that regard).

I keep saying it- you have to get in your daughter’s head BEFORE she starts dating so that she sees shyt exactly for what it is.

You think Hallie Bailey’s mom sat her down and talked to her the way Lori Harvey’s mother sat her down and talked to her??! <——— THAT is my point.

One girl knows not to take entertainers seriously and only date the ones with some status, and the other girl got knocked up by a “streamer”.

Even the groupies aim to date/have kids with athletes.


People are not honest with their girls about the real world because they think talking about this stuff will make your babygirl go wild out with dudes.
No; it will open her eyes and allow her to spot out the genuine dudes a lot faster.

 

[mag357]

With all the dating that Rubi Rose and Lori Harvey do, how come they ain't running with 3 kids a piece?

Those are real life smart hoez u talkin bout.

They waiting snag a big sucka fish

 

[mag357]

Cuz they know the game!!


Now if they really really understood, they would marry one of their better prospects (although I still believe Lori will be fine in that regard).

I keep saying it- you have to get in your daughter’s head BEFORE she starts dating so that she sees shyt exactly for what it is.

You think Hallie Bailey’s mom sat her down and talked to her the way Lori Harvey’s mother sat her down and talked to her??! <——— THAT is my point.

One girl knows not to take entertainers seriously and only date the ones with some status, and the other girl got knocked up by a “streamer”.

Even the groupies aim to date/have kids with athletes.


People are not honest with their girls about the real world because they think talking about this stuff will make your babygirl go wild out with dudes.
No; it will open her eyes and allow her to spot out the genuine dudes a lot faster.

Bruhhhh.
Now this is getting insane.

I dapped this not even thinking it was u saying it.

I'm expecting a full thread apology by u toward me in the morning.
Ain't no way u talking like this now

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

With all the dating that Rubi Rose and Lori Harvey do, how come they ain't running with 3 kids a piece?

Plan B, Abortions, Birth Control exists.

Some women don’t fall in love unless they fall into a secured and definite bag.

Halle clearly fell in love in the emotional sense. She wasn’t looking for a come up.

Rubi Rose and Lori are women who are trying to get a come up and create an empire for themselves. They attach themselves to certain men in order to expand their brand.

They are trying to do what the Kardashians did. That’s the blueprint.

 

[Gloxina]

Bruhhhh.
Now this is getting insane.

I dapped this not even thinking it was u saying it.

I'm expecting a full thread apology by u toward me in the morning.
Ain't no way u talking like this now

Boy stop.


I told you we agree more than we disagree.


The reason why I discuss this stuff in detail on here is to make y’all understand that THE REASON THERE ARE SO MANY HALLIE BAILEYS IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY IS BECAUSE NO ONE IS TEACHING YOUNG BLACK GIRLS THE GAME!!!

Negros think chicks are out here wh0ring themselves out and don’t care about family, etc when it’s the opposite for most of these girls. They don’t understand that men and women see things differently and have different desires. Big surprise: young girls believe you when you say “I love you” and beg for sex.

People don’t talk to their daughters about the real world so everything that is blatant and right in your face gets glossed over because some dude whispered the right shyt in your daughter’s ear.


Man, that episode of Fresh Prince when Will lied to ol girl and pretended to marry her so that he could just have sex with her— girls don’t understand that men are willing to do shyt like that to get the draws! Of course I didn’t fully understand that shyt because I was just a kid watching reruns on tv, but best believe before I went off to college the guys in my family made it clear how important it was to protect myself and especially never get pregnant.


It’s been said on here before, these White girls be going crazy in HS and undergrad (abortions included), and then they pop up like a whole new person at 24 and marry some dude on track to complete his law degree in the next 12mon. Why? Because White society games them up.
Asians girls too. Asian chicks can sniff money better than anyone else

It’s not that Black girls are just stupid and loose; no one teaches Black girls that if a man is in your life, he needs to be a PROVIDER.

And in our community, a man who is providing or wants to do nice things for his woman is a SIMP. So Black girls don’t get told the truth until they fukk up and everyone says “well damn, why didn’t you go for someone with money?” Uh, because you ain’t teach her that men primarily want her body, and she needs to receive provision and protection in exchange.


Where you and I have possibly disagreed in the past was that I put an equal amount of blame on men.

The truth is there aren’t as many young Black men who are prepared for serious relationships/marriage at a relatively young age as compared to other races. You have 25, 25, 30YO White and Asian dudes who are established and ready to propose and start families, while our community doesn’t have the same percentage of young Black men ready at that age.

All these White and Asian girls aren’t marrying men who are 10+ years older than them. The average age gap in US marriages is like 4 years. Those girls of other races have more men in their age bracket ready to marry.

AND when it comes to other races BOTH sexes are more careful about avoiding out of wedlock births.

Keke Palmer and her baby daddy, Hallie Bailey and hers…who else (I know there are more lol)

Aside from the Kardashians (who mainly do this with Black men), how many of these Whit female stars/socialites dating White guys are having kids out of wedlock?

Both sexes need to do better, but yes- if the Hallie Baileys of the world got more instruction when it comes to dating, they could avoid this crap. She should have NEVER been with DDG.

 

[The Fade]

Dual mating strategy

 

[jay83]

Boy stop.


I told you we agree more than we disagree.


The reason why I discuss this stuff in detail on here is to make y’all understand that THE REASON THERE ARE SO MANY HALLIE BAILEYS IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY IS BECAUSE NO ONE IS TEACHING YOUNG BLACK GIRLS THE GAME!!!

Negros think chicks are out here wh0ring themselves out and don’t care about family, etc when it’s the opposite for most of these girls. They don’t understand that men and women see things differently and have different desires. Big surprise: young girls believe you when you say “I love you” and beg for sex.

People don’t talk to their daughters about the real world so everything that is blatant and right in your face gets glossed over because some dude whispered the right shyt in your daughter’s ear.


Man, that episode of Fresh Prince when Will lied to ol girl and pretended to marry her so that he could just have sex with her— girls don’t understand that men are willing to do shyt like that to get the draws! Of course I didn’t fully understand that shyt because I was just a kid watching reruns on tv, but best believe before I went off to college the guys in my family made it clear how important it was to protect myself and especially never get pregnant.


It’s been said on here before, these White girls be going crazy in HS and undergrad (abortions included), and then they pop up like a whole new person at 24 and marry some dude on track to complete his law degree in the next 12mon. Why? Because White society games them up.
Asians girls too. Asian chicks can sniff money better than anyone else

It’s not that Black girls are just stupid and loose; no one teaches Black girls that if a man is in your life, he needs to be a PROVIDER.

And in our community, a man who is providing or wants to do nice things for his woman is a SIMP. So Black girls don’t get told the truth until they fukk up and everyone says “well damn, why didn’t you go for someone with money?” Uh, because you ain’t teach her that men primarily want her body, and she needs to receive provision and protection in exchange.


Where you and I have possibly disagreed in the past was that I put an equal amount of blame on men.

The truth is there aren’t as many young Black men who are prepared for serious relationships/marriage at a relatively young age as compared to other races. You have 25, 25, 30YO White and Asian dudes who are established and ready to propose and start families, while our community doesn’t have the same percentage of young Black men ready at that age.

All these White and Asian girls aren’t marrying men who are 10+ years older than them. The average age gap in US marriages is like 4 years. Those girls of other races have more men in their age bracket ready to marry.

AND when it comes to other races BOTH sexes are more careful about avoiding out of wedlock births.

Keke Palmer and her baby daddy, Hallie Bailey and hers…who else (I know there are more lol)

Aside from the Kardashians (who mainly do this with Black men), how many of these Whit female stars/socialites dating White guys are having kids out of wedlock?

Both sexes need to do better, but yes- if the Hallie Baileys of the world got more instruction when it comes to dating, they could avoid this crap. She should have NEVER been with DDG.

Can you define what provider means to you?

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

With all the dating that Rubi Rose and Lori Harvey do, how come they ain't running with 3 kids a piece?

Halle Bailey is actually talented and can make money on her own merits. Rubi Rose and Lori Harvey ain't known for anything besides being a pretty face. Halle can move different than they can.

 

[itsyoung!!]

Cuz they know the game!!


Now if they really really understood, they would marry one of their better prospects (although I still believe Lori will be fine in that regard).

I keep saying it- you have to get in your daughter’s head BEFORE she starts dating so that she sees shyt exactly for what it is.

You think Hallie Bailey’s mom sat her down and talked to her the way Lori Harvey’s mother sat her down and talked to her??! <——— THAT is my point.

One girl knows not to take entertainers seriously and only date the ones with some status, and the other girl got knocked up by a “streamer”.

Even the groupies aim to date/have kids with athletes.


People are not honest with their girls about the real world because they think talking about this stuff will make your babygirl go wild out with dudes.
No; it will open her eyes and allow her to spot out the genuine dudes a lot faster.

you think lori harvey going to be good? You dont think shes going to have answer in court how she swapped from dating diddy son to dating diddy

 

[NO-BadAzz]

That’s not how life works in the world she lives in. She’s not some everyday woman that got pregnant by some random man. Now did she make a bad decision? Of course she did, but that won’t affect her as much as you think it will given the life she lives and the world she lives in.

You know that 1 in the 4 represents millions of women right? I said plenty.. I didn’t say all of them.

And those other single mothers not getting married isn’t because they are only being used to hit and quit, it’s because the standards of marriage is not a reality for a lot of those women just like the men who choose to continually impregnate women without even thinking about marriage. Until marriage becomes more of a focus in the black community then you will have these statistics and it has nothing to do with hitting and quitting.. it’s the standards that each individual has to uphold when they decide to be with someone.

That’s how it works.

Halle will be fine.

It’s DDG out here acting like the one who’s been hurt. It’s clear that she left him because she chose that peace you were speaking about for herself and it seems she is focused on her career and raising her son. She can definitely find another man if she focuses on the right ones.

His recent words said that he doesn’t want multiple baby mamas and the only relationship he would be in is to be back with Halle. He said they’re taking a break right now but that’s the only woman he would be with. So clearly that’s who he wants.

I think you're living in fantasy land.
The older Halle gets the less of her chances of getting married. You do know this right..? As a man, many men don't wanna raise another man's child or children.

There's no Plenty of ANY race of men that's getting married in 2024 that are step fathers or even wanting to become a step father

1 in 4 will be married in their life time

If there are 40 million black folks

20 million adults, let's say 10 men and 10 women to be fair which this is not the case because there are LESS men than women
Black women outnumber Black men by 2-3 million but lets go with 10 and 10

50% of 10 is 5 million

Only 25% of black women outta that 10 million will
2.5 million black women out of 10 million.

Close to 8 million will not be married. Thats atrocious.

And 8 million are not Shacking up with a man until their 60. So miss me with the whole folks don't wanna get married.
More than likely, majority of those women in that 8 million will be living alone or with their kids, which is bad, or with a sibling.

Those single mothers are hit it and quit it, they may get a bf or dude who may stick around for a year or 2, but thats it. I'll give you 5 years that the dude may stick around but I won't let you think that this dude is sticking around until they hit the age of 65. No way.

Her single ass will be alone if she's not married.
Being married in 2024 for black women is a lifeline, it's not a choice, it's dayum near a requirement NOW in 2024.

You won't be able to survive by yourself, those women who are 20-40 years old, when they reach 65, being by their selves won't be an option especially if they are making under or 50k which many are.

 

[O.Red]

It’s been said on here before, these White girls be going crazy in HS and undergrad (abortions included), and then they pop up like a whole new person at 24 and marry some dude on track to complete his law degree in the next 12mon. Why? Because White society games them up.
Asians girls too. Asian chicks can sniff money better than anyone else

It’s not that Black girls are just stupid and loose; no one teaches Black girls that if a man is in your life, he needs to be a PROVIDER.

But you argued with me about this in the Cam Newton thread

And there are plenty of young black men that are making money and want to be married but everyone looks around whistling when it's established that these men don't want single mothers

So some where between 17-25 you have all these game goofy single mothers and the young men coming into the world like all these bytches got kids?

This is a key reason why black men aren't getting married. Them 90s/early 2000s step daddy minded nikkas have aged out the game. Young nikkas ain't going for it

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Boy stop.


I told you we agree more than we disagree.


The reason why I discuss this stuff in detail on here is to make y’all understand that THE REASON THERE ARE SO MANY HALLIE BAILEYS IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY IS BECAUSE NO ONE IS TEACHING YOUNG BLACK GIRLS THE GAME!!!

Negros think chicks are out here wh0ring themselves out and don’t care about family, etc when it’s the opposite for most of these girls. They don’t understand that men and women see things differently and have different desires. Big surprise: young girls believe you when you say “I love you” and beg for sex.

People don’t talk to their daughters about the real world so everything that is blatant and right in your face gets glossed over because some dude whispered the right shyt in your daughter’s ear.


Man, that episode of Fresh Prince when Will lied to ol girl and pretended to marry her so that he could just have sex with her— girls don’t understand that men are willing to do shyt like that to get the draws! Of course I didn’t fully understand that shyt because I was just a kid watching reruns on tv, but best believe before I went off to college the guys in my family made it clear how important it was to protect myself and especially never get pregnant.


It’s been said on here before, these White girls be going crazy in HS and undergrad (abortions included), and then they pop up like a whole new person at 24 and marry some dude on track to complete his law degree in the next 12mon. Why? Because White society games them up.
Asians girls too. Asian chicks can sniff money better than anyone else

It’s not that Black girls are just stupid and loose; no one teaches Black girls that if a man is in your life, he needs to be a PROVIDER.

And in our community, a man who is providing or wants to do nice things for his woman is a SIMP. So Black girls don’t get told the truth until they fukk up and everyone says “well damn, why didn’t you go for someone with money?” Uh, because you ain’t teach her that men primarily want her body, and she needs to receive provision and protection in exchange.


Where you and I have possibly disagreed in the past was that I put an equal amount of blame on men.

The truth is there aren’t as many young Black men who are prepared for serious relationships/marriage at a relatively young age as compared to other races. You have 25, 25, 30YO White and Asian dudes who are established and ready to propose and start families, while our community doesn’t have the same percentage of young Black men ready at that age.

All these White and Asian girls aren’t marrying men who are 10+ years older than them. The average age gap in US marriages is like 4 years. Those girls of other races have more men in their age bracket ready to marry.

AND when it comes to other races BOTH sexes are more careful about avoiding out of wedlock births.

Keke Palmer and her baby daddy, Hallie Bailey and hers…who else (I know there are more lol)

Aside from the Kardashians (who mainly do this with Black men), how many of these Whit female stars/socialites dating White guys are having kids out of wedlock?

Both sexes need to do better, but yes- if the Hallie Baileys of the world got more instruction when it comes to dating, they could avoid this crap. She should have NEVER been with DDG.

I remember my older brother telling me how easy it was to get a girl to sleep with him or his boys.

All they had to do was tell the girl they loved them and that was it.

So once some of the guys started just randomly saying that to me and looking at me like it was supposed to mean something when I didn’t even know those dudes and they didn’t know me, I looked at them like they were stupid.

I’m not falling for that fake mess. You don’t even know me dude

But you explained it very well. Young black women are not being given the same guidance. Not all of them have older brothers or people in their lives that give them the truth about how a lot these guys out here operate.