DDG and gf haile are now separated

[Brandsdale]

why she date DDG?

 

[Luke Cage]

Its easy to end a relationship soon after having a baby. the relationship dynamic changes overnight.
But if you weather the storm things eventually get back to normal. Just a question if you value it enough to weather it.

 

[NO-BadAzz]

But you argued with me about this in the Cam Newton thread

And there are plenty of young black men that are making money and want to be married but everyone looks around whistling when it's established that these men don't want single mothers

So some where between 17-25 you have all these game goofy single mothers and the young men coming into the world like all these bytches got kids?

This is a key reason why black men aren't getting married. Them 90s/early 2000s step daddy minded nikkas have aged out the game. Young nikkas ain't going for it

And we got women in this thread preaching that nikkas want single mothers as wives

How you being a woman, telling us men wtf we want


That shyt isn't going anywhere, just because you wanna brush over it or don't wanna hear It doesn't push that narrative

nikkas will fukk and lay around with single mothers until they get tired and then move on.

Mothers should be telling their daughter, or daughters, MEN ARE NOT TAKING CARE OF ANOTHER MANs KID OR KIDS

THE MEN YOU WANT ARE NOT.

GET MARRIED 1ST. BEFORE HAVING A KiD.

 

[NO-BadAzz]

Halle won't see a marriage over 5 years.

nikkas not being stepdads in 2024 for no longer than 5 years max.

You have 5 year window if you're lucky to date a nikka if you have kid or kids before he leaves

So you can try and hope for him to marry you, be a bf, but your window is 5 years

After that, nikkas will start to be on some, man i don't like this shyt or man, I'm definitely about to step out on my marriage
5 year window to have yourself a nikka if you are a single mother if you get lucky


Just get married 1st and then have your kids, very simple


Be a wife shyt and learn how to pick a nikka. Pick the opposite of what kind of man you have in your head as a woman cuz that nikka don't exist

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

And we got women in this thread preaching that nikkas want single mothers as wives

How you being a woman, telling us men wtf we want


That shyt isn't going anywhere, just because you wanna brush over it or don't wanna hear It doesn't push that narrative

nikkas will fukk and lay around with single mothers until they get tired and then move on.

Mothers should be telling their daughter, or daughters, MEN ARE NOT TAKING CARE OF ANOTHER MANs KID OR KIDS

THE MEN YOU WANT ARE NOT.

GET MARRIED 1ST. BEFORE HAVING A KiD.

Yall don't live in real life

 

[DJSmooth]

A man has a breaking point and in 2024, no man especially a man with money is putting up with shyt that's gonna mess with their mental and peace.

This ain't 1996 lady. All that staying together just because is going outta the window. We are adults, we know how to act in relationships.

You know how to act on a job, folks, the man and woman should know how to act with each other.

It looks bad on her, she's a single mother. nikkas will hit and bounce, he has money and can date younger and older women.


It says a lot if she had a baby before she had a ring,
You mentioned something about him hitting raw, why she let him do that?

Why not say, you can hit me raw AFTER we get married.? Is that hard to do??

A woman knows how to ask nikkas to do something and not do something when it comes down to anything else in their lives but she can't keep ask the nikka not to raw dog her? Miss me with that.

She could have said that to dude..let's wait on having raw sex until we get married boyfriend.

She wanted raw sex.

The man sets the tone in the relationship. If she had a bad attitude why did he get with her? Women show signs before it even gets that far to have a baby.

Sure she let him hit raw but he had to nut in her for her to have a baby. Again it's his fault they got a kid.

 

[NO-BadAzz]

The man sets the tone in the relationship. If she had a bad attitude why did he get with her? Women show signs before it even gets that far to have a baby.

Sure she let him hit raw but he had to nut in her for her to have a baby. Again it's his fault they got a kid.

When you said sure she let him hit raw. I stopped reading. Thats all that's needed.

She doesn't let him hit raw which it is her choice her body, then things don't get to the point where he can nut in her
It's funny how women say it's my body my choice but when a child is born it's Ole the dude shouldn't have nutted in her

No, no, no, it's her body and her choice to let him hit raw. You chose to put yourself in a situation where you could become pregnant before you got married. Your body your choice

You only get to hit raw AFTER you marry me is what she should have said

 

[Sauce and Footwork]

The man sets the tone in the relationship. If she had a bad attitude why did he get with her? Women show signs before it even gets that far to have a baby.

Sure she let him hit raw but he had to nut in her for her to have a baby. Again it's his fault they got a kid.

I haven’t been following y’all conversation to chime in, but I saw that last sentence and that’s the only thing I’m referencing lol. Unless she is saying she was tricked or raped, they both consensually engaged in unprotected sex. It takes two people to have a child and the woman ultimately decides if she wants to keep it or not. She wasn’t helpless while the man put his seed in her. These are 2 irresponsible people who chose to create a child together before even fully committing their lives to each other. And now those grown adults have to live with the consequences. They are equally at fault for what’s occurred here. He is a a$$hole and she willingly chose a a$$hole to create a baby with.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

And we got women in this thread preaching that nikkas want single mothers as wives

How you being a woman, telling us men wtf we want


That shyt isn't going anywhere, just because you wanna brush over it or don't wanna hear It doesn't push that narrative

nikkas will fukk and lay around with single mothers until they get tired and then move on.

Mothers should be telling their daughter, or daughters, MEN ARE NOT TAKING CARE OF ANOTHER MANs KID OR KIDS

THE MEN YOU WANT ARE NOT.

GET MARRIED 1ST. BEFORE HAVING A KiD.

I never said they wanted them as wives.. I said single mothers can still get married. They are not just some hit it and quit it just because they had a child.

Why don’t you actually process what you read instead of making up shyt that only aligns with you want to believe?

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

I think you're living in fantasy land.
The older Halle gets the less of her chances of getting married. You do know this right..? As a man, many men don't wanna raise another man's child or children.

There's no Plenty of ANY race of men that's getting married in 2024 that are step fathers or even wanting to become a step father

1 in 4 will be married in their life time

If there are 40 million black folks

20 million adults, let's say 10 men and 10 women to be fair which this is not the case because there are LESS men than million
Black women outnumber Black men by 2-3 million but lets go with 10 and 10

50% of 10 is 5 million

Only 25% of black women outta that 10 million will
2.5 million black women out of 10 million.

Close to 8 million will not be married. Thats atrocious.

And 8 million are not Shacking up with a man until their 60. So miss me with the whole folks don't wanna get married.
More than likely, majority of those women in that 8 million will be living alone or with their kids, which is bad, or with a sibling.

Those single mothers are hit it and quit it, they may get a bf or dude who may stick around for a year or 2, but thats it. I'll give you 5 years that the dude may stick around but I won't let you think that this dude is sticking around until they hit the age of 65. No way.

Her single ass will be alone if she's not married.
Being married in 2024 for black women is a lifeline, it's not a choice, it's dayum near a requirement NOW in 2024.

You won't be able to survive by yourself, those women who are 20-40 years old, when they reach 65, being by their selves won't be an option especially if they are making under or 50k which many are.

Ok Mr. man who speaks for all men.

No that’s a lie. Most black women get married at an older age. That’s a fact.

I don’t know why you keep quoting stats like they can tell the future It’s a prediction… it’s not a fact.

I’ve heard that mess for years now and I still see most black women getting married.

I’m getting married my damn self, lol. And before you attempt to assume anything.. no I don’t have any children.

 

[NO-BadAzz]

I never said they wanted them as wives.. I said single mothers can still get married. They are not just some hit it and quit it just because they had a child.

Why don’t you actually process what you read instead of making up shyt that only aligns with you want to believe?

Of course they can still get married, my rebuttal is that they WONT.

They are hit it and quit material. Dudes will fukk on single mothers until they get tired. They are not taking care of another man's kid or children

Don't get mad at me for how men are moving in 2024 and beyond

 

[NO-BadAzz]

Ok Mr. man who speaks for all men.

No that’s a lie. Most black women get married at an older age. That’s a fact.

I don’t know why you keep quoting stats like they can tell the future It’s a prediction… it’s not a fact.

I’ve heard that mess for years now and I still see most black women getting married.

I’m getting married my damn self, lol. And before you attempt to assume anything.. no I don’t have any children.

Ok
Just keep living.
Congratulations to you

 

[Don Homer]

The man sets the tone in the relationship. If she had a bad attitude why did he get with her? Women show signs before it even gets that far to have a baby.

Sure she let him hit raw but he had to nut in her for her to have a baby. Again it's his fault they got a kid.

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

 

[Gloxina]

But you argued with me about this in the Cam Newton thread

And there are plenty of young black men that are making money and want to be married but everyone looks around whistling when it's established that these men don't want single mothers

So some where between 17-25 you have all these game goofy single mothers and the young men coming into the world like all these bytches got kids?

This is a key reason why black men aren't getting married. Them 90s/early 2000s step daddy minded nikkas have aged out the game. Young nikkas ain't going for it

You hit ANY HBCU campus and the young Black women outnumber the young Black men. Y’all can literally pick from a pool of goal-oriented young women.

I have young men in my family at HBCUs and the girls are all over them.

I have divorced older men in my family and they are LITERALLY running through women. One’s mother is so disgusted she asked him how many women he’s been with and if he’s done

Black men with their shyt together have PLEEEEEENTY of options, which is why they don’t feel the need to rush like white dudes and propose at 28. Lol

 

[Gloxina]

you think lori harvey going to be good? You dont think shes going to have answer in court how she swapped from dating diddy son to dating diddy

I think that was a monumental mistake and I can only hope she wasn’t actually dating the son and they were all just hanging in a group of rich kids.

I still don’t understand that shyt.


Without that on her record— she’d be



Even with that, she’s beautiful and will probably marry some rich dude of another race if she doesn’t lock down a rich breh. She gon be aight lol