Point 1: You had not seen any accounts of her being physical, she literally cut him.
I’m just reacting to this thread.
If she cut him and it wasn’t self defense she should be in jail, as he should for allegedly hitting her.
Point 2: She showed signs of mental illness far before, immediately before, during, and after her pregnancy.
You seem to be very deep into their relationship.
Not sure anyone can make claims of “mental illness” just from the public accusations being made.
But, if she was actually crazy a long time ago. Then even more responsibility falls on this dude to do the right thing for his kid.
If you can determine she was crazy from a far. Then dude had to know it.
Point 3: You don’t prematurely try to take a woman from her child. I believe you should always try to hold out, and no court would give him custody because she “seemed” off. So that would have just led to him going through what he’s going through now, which is not seeing his son.
It’s not “premature” if she was as crazy as you claim she was a long time ago.
Imagine something had happened to the kid while he was out cheating and kicking it while leaving his loaded gun at the house.
Seems he didn’t really care about any of that till she went public and filed for custody, now he’d out to get his licks in.
Point 4: How his accusations a retaliation when everything he mentioned happened well before she accused him of hurting her, and he’s also not to one who decided to public. He’s allowed to defend himself and he has no choice to, once she decides to go public. That’s not retaliation, that’s covering all bases.
He didn’t mention any of it till she went public. If this was really about his kid being in harms way by a crazy woman we should have heard this from him a long time ago.
I know if my kid was stuck on a situation like that, my every conscious moment would be fighting to get them out of it.
Point 5: There is no primary abuser in a toxic relationship, that’s what makes it toxic. It’s mutual abuse.
like i said you’re a troll. wear the Hall of shame badge proud.
I didn’t call anyone a primary anything.
It’s way easier to make up shyt and call people a “troll” then to have a nuanced conversation here on the coli.
That’s what we calling a split knuckle??? She “cut” him???
This is why these conversations are stupid on here. nikkas just pick a side and argue that mug truth be damned
