dead ass serious: how do i make decisions for you?

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if i ask

Do you wanna stay or go?
Another drink or nah?
Are you sleepy?
Etc.

Is there a way to do it without you giving me the mom look? Or at least give it less. I know you like a dude to take charge but picking the wrong movie or dining is gonna fukk up my next 48 with you...cuz of you.

So in short: how do you prefer i ask you what you wanna do without asking you?
 

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You staying here tonight?
Another drink?
You look/sound tired, (why don't you) get some sleep.

If you ask a biased question or make a command posed as a question you're more likely to get the answer you want without sounding rude or demanding.
 

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You staying here tonight?
Another drink?
You look/sound tired, (why don't you) get some sleep.

If you ask a biased question or make a command posed as a question you're more likely to get the answer you want without sounding rude or demanding.
I do this ...I sometimes hit her with the pet name at the beginning or the end too :ehh:
 

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This is the type of stuff we learn in retail and sales.

Don't ask questions that can be answered with a yes or no. So instead of asking if she wants a drink, you ask what drink would you like.

That's why at my old job, we're not supposed to say "Can I have your email address?, instead we say " What is your e-mail address?"
 

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That's why at my old job, we're not supposed to say "Can I have your email address?, instead we say " What is your e-mail address?"
I hate that shyt. I find that people answer more nicely if I ask them if they want to leave it. When I say 'what is...' I be getting hit with the straight attitude. :wow:
 
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