Deadbeat fathers helped destroy the black community.

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Yes they did, OP. So did the women who knowingly gave those deadbeats their vaginas. This ain't the 90s. BM bashing won't be tolerated.
Stop. There are men that take care of kids they had by one woman because he likes her more, but not his other kids. Does that make him a half deadbeat?
 

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Stop making it hard for the kid to see pops and stop weaponizing the kid. A good bit of deadbeat dads aren’t actually deadbeats

Female judges need to stop laughing dads out of courtrooms
Both men and women weaponize kids. I know just as many dudes who literally try and use kids to terrorize they baby mamas and ex-wives as I know women who try and use kids to destroy dude lives.

One of my closest friends is going thru this now. She is a single mother of five children. But before u judge, she was married to her ex-husband for 10 years. Tried to have kids and couldn't so they took fertility treatments and ended up adopting two children. Kept trying and wound up with triplets. Years later she ended up having to divorce him b/c he wouldn't contribute money to the family b/c he was dating and courting a totally different woman.

She does everything in her power to make sure he can communicate and see his children but he refuses to do so b/c he does not want her to be free any weekends. If I could show u some of the correspondences and how he speaks to her. She stopped speaking to him and only communicates via email now. She still encourages the kids to speak to him.

He's legit mad that she didn't continue to put up with him even tho she had documented prove of him planning to be with another woman. So he will purposefully break the visitation schedule so that she can't have time to herself or to meet others. How u gon make plans to literally be with an ENTIRELY different bytch and get mad and play mind games with ur kids in an attempt to control the life of ur ex-wife.

And I know she's a good woman. We've been with her every step of the way and the kids are in high school so they see this shyt.

Long story short, it ain't always women being evil trying to keep men away from kids.
 

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i don't care what race you are, if you walk out on your kids, you're a fakkit. i'm not talking about in a case where you and your wife separated or divorced and she now has the kids, that's different. most of us in here are referring to nikkas who get chicks pregnant and don't even try to be there in the first place.

if you don't or didn't want to deal with a baby mama and raising kids, you should've been more careful nikkas want to run through these hoes but then

You can call me dumb or a simp, but i don't have any baby mamas, i'm doing well financially, and i'm not being threatened or checks garnished for child support :heh: if you're on here complaining about how crazy your baby mama is or how she is demanding more money from you, you can't call anyone dumb or a simp.

I don't feel sorry for most of these dudes because it could have all been avoided if you had just not had any kids. Plus black kids are already born at an economic disadvantage in this country (wealth and income disparities, no economic base, discrimination etc) it doesn't help that these nikkas are creating them and leaving. And there are always many people who make excuses for them and defend them, so idk what they are even in here complaining about.:russell:
 
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The government dangled the bag in front of black women, who then kicked black men out the home. But Trump is about to take that bag away. :francis:


The correct answer is this.

Old maid trickbaby game taking on project mentality.
Is the lone and only factors that ruined the family structure built via Keynesian theories in America.

Blaming men who sired children is a government deflection based ploy and cop out. After stripping Keynesian theories away from sectors of the American population for this very purpose to be where we are now.

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