Dealing with a clingy chick

[The Frozen One]

So I've been seeing a nice girl with her shyt in check and shes down to earth.. Got everything BUT she's clingy as fukk.. And it leads to arguments.

I mean I really like her but I'm just worried down the road. The biggest issue is that she thinks I ignore her on purpose. I'm guessing she's super insecure.

 

[At30wecashout]

She might not get much play from men and appreciates any attention. Now that she has yours, she holding on, breh. Tell her to cut that shyt out or you will have to pull out. Today its smothering you too much, tomorrow its her on your phone dialing your unsaved numbers and hanging up if it is a woman's voice.

 

[The Frozen One]

She might not get much play from men and appreciates any attention. Now that she has yours, she holding on, breh. Tell her to cut that shyt out or you will have to pull out. Today its smothering you too much, tomorrow its her on your phone dialing your unsaved numbers and hanging up if it is a woman's voice.

I've talked to her about it.. She says she understands then few days later is back to the bullshyt

And I don't know about lacking of attention from othee men.. She's one of the hottest women I've dated

 

[Papa LaBas]

is she one of those that wants to tag along when you go out to grab some wings and watch the game with the homies?

 

[At30wecashout]

I've talked to her about it.. She says she understands then few days later is back to the bullshyt

And I don't know about lacking of attention from othee men.. She's one of the hottest women I've dated

Thats the thing. I LIVED by this fukking logic for years. I was NEVER intimidated by hot women, but I would 99% of the time convince myself "Damn, she so fine, she can't be single." and would never push to find out. Self fulfilling prophecy. She could simply be starved of love or have some mental issues from childhood...daddy issues or some-such. Gotta tell her while you love her and having her around, it can't be all the time.

There is relationship @World War Z and "Man on my own" @World War Z . When she clings, she doesn't let you grow where you need to, and it implies she has nothing for herself. Tell her just like that that you can't be her everything, and if that is what she is looking for, she might have to get cut off.

 

[nalej]

If she's clingy now wait till you guys get more serious. Her past history is probably why she's like this and I don't think it'll be easy for her to change. Might be time to

 

[The Frozen One]

is she one of those that wants to tag along when you go out to grab some wings and watch the game with the homies?

Yup and shes one of those that wants me to devote all my free time towards her. But I'm not her husband so like the other day an argument broke out because I didn't text back and apparently that means that I'm only talking to her for my entertainment.

But at the same I really like her so don't wanna

I think the problem is that she's taking it a lot more serious than me.

 

[Vandelay]

Set your limits on contact and maintain them. She'll either like/love you even more because she can't all the way have you...or she'll self-destruct.

 

[StickStickly]

Yup and shes one of those that wants me to devote all my free time towards her. But I'm not her husband so like the other day an argument broke out because I didn't text back and apparently that means that I'm only talking to her for my entertainment.


I think the problem is that she's taking it a lot more serious than me.

That's not good. If this is the beginning this is probably the easiest drama you'll have to deal with. She'll save the other crazy for later.

 

[karim]

So I've been seeing a nice girl with her shyt in check and shes down to earth.. Got everything BUT she's clingy as fukk.. And it leads to arguments.

I mean I really like her but I'm just worried down the road. The biggest issue is that she thinks I ignore her on purpose. I'm guessing she's super insecure.

Trust me breh, shyt will only get worse.

Yup and shes one of those that wants me to devote all my free time towards her. But I'm not her husband so like the other day an argument broke out because I didn't text back and apparently that means that I'm only talking to her for my entertainment.

But at the same I really like her so don't wanna

I think the problem is that she's taking it a lot more serious than me.

 

[Arianne Martell]

encourage her to pursue some hobbies...

 

[ikbm]

*takes seat*

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Sounds like she is ugly and u saved her

 

[andre patton]

Yup and shes one of those that wants me to devote all my free time towards her. But I'm not her husband so like the other day an argument broke out because I didn't text back and apparently that means that I'm only talking to her for my entertainment.

But at the same I really like her so don't wanna

I think the problem is that she's taking it a lot more serious than me.

Whats wrong with that? Every relationship you have with other humans should be mutually beneficial. She makes it sound like you think shes a fukkin jester or some shyt.

 

[MikelArteta]

She's Indian ?

Stop giving women leeway just because she's hot