Dealing with a clingy chick

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Does she have any flaws doe?
usually good looking chicks don't have issues getting attention
 

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This sounds like my girl :ohhh:

Clingy as fukk :stopitslime:..
She wants me to move into hers :mjlol:
 

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surprised no one has asked for pics to help you make your decision to stay or leave
 

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Smh..when we like a guy, we don't want to feel like we're getting played..and we usually want to spend a lot of time with you..wahh sorry that a girl you like wants to hang out with you a lot ..why not text her back if she texts you? Are u really THAT busy? I automatically give anyone a sideeye, when they give me a "busy" excuse..not texting her back may show her that you're only as interested as you want to be..in this day and age, you can definitely text her back, especially if you say that you really like her..Our minds wonder sometimes, maybe it's insecurities or whatever...BUT no one wants a clingy girl, so good luck lol
 

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She aint clingy she's insecure and its only gonna get worse...
I don't think it's automatically insecurities though..this new guy I'm dating I would like to see a few times a week and hear from him everyday..why? Because I actually like him and not because I have any insecurities...just my opinion though
 

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Yup and shes one of those that wants me to devote all my free time towards her. But I'm not her husband so :mindblown: like the other day an argument broke out because I didn't text back and apparently that means that I'm only talking to her for my entertainment. :mjlol:

But at the same I really like her so don't wanna :camby:

I think the problem is that she's taking it a lot more serious than me.

This same thing is happening to me.

Pretty much just told my girl that I needed a break. I couldn't take it anymore. I'd get an extra offday and she'd want me to spend all 3 with her. Tell her I need my space, she says cool ... then next time I have a break ask for me to spend it all with her.

shyt literally hit the fan last night. Saw a friend (:lupe:), came home to a text from her like, "I think I'm losing you ..." and it went on from there. Sucks 'cause she's a down ass chick and whatnot, but that smothering just isn't what's up. Especially for a nikka in his 20s.
 
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now that i'm off work i can better reply to specific questions.

Sounds like she is ugly and u saved her

neh breh..she's a solid 7.5/10.

Whats wrong with that? Every relationship you have with other humans should be mutually beneficial. She makes it sound like you think shes a fukkin jester or some shyt.

she thinks i'm not serious enough . but we just started dating/seeing each other..talking consistently for over two months. this girl sometimes making it sound like she's doing me a favour for talking to me..

She's Indian :noah:?

Stop giving women leeway just because she's hot

middle eastern chick. and no leeway breh. i've been straight with her..few times she's giving me the "don't talk to me then " etc etc and i don't ignore it. i say ok fine.. then 4 hours later she messages me again or calls me :mjlol:

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how she look, breh

thick in the right places :datass:

She aint clingy she's insecure and its only gonna get worse...

ya she's insecure from the conversations we've had. but i got my own insecurities, namely trusting women when they say something

Smh..when we like a guy, we don't want to feel like we're getting played..and we usually want to spend a lot of time with you..wahh sorry that a girl you like wants to hang out with you a lot ..why not text her back if she texts you? Are u really THAT busy? I automatically give anyone a sideeye, when they give me a "busy" excuse..not texting her back may show her that you're only as interested as you want to be..in this day and age, you can definitely text her back, especially if you say that you really like her..Our minds wonder sometimes, maybe it's insecurities or whatever...BUT no one wants a clingy girl, so good luck lol

well we haven't had the "serious talk" convo, and i am seeing other girls (she doesn't know that). we haven't even hung out much. just randomly here and there. most of the conversation is through text and phone calls. and well when she doesn't get the attention then she turns into a snobby brat. at first i thought it was cute but it's getting worse. and the example i mentioned was when i was sleeping in on my off day. she knows i'm off.. yet messages me first thing in the morning.

I don't think it's automatically insecurities though..this new guy I'm dating I would like to see a few times a week and hear from him everyday..why? Because I actually like him and not because I have any insecurities...just my opinion though

see above post. i like her and would get serious with her but i'm not ready for commitment just yet.

are you a cheater?


art barr

never cheated.
 

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You are giving leeway , if you know she's crazy you don't like her clingyness but she's so hot while you continue in this mess = leeway

If she was 250lbs you would have cut her off already

Its ok we all been there before
 

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Just kidding.
But it does seem like she's thinking it's more serious than it is, and if you're not trying to get that serious with her right now, you need to tell her.
 
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