Dealing with kids with mental/physical disabilities

[NotaPAWG]

thats some 24/7 care for the rest of your life, if you dont have health insurance or coverage that money may come out of your pocket, may have to quit your job and stay home feeding changing diapers, scrubbing the piss and spit off the floor.

I'm against abortion at this time in my life so I'd have to keep the little kid howver.

You sure about that?

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Becauseeeeee it's not the fathers decision. I believe that a marriage (never been married before, too young) is ideally headed by the male, he makes all of the decisions, is the authority of the household, and the woman is somewhat submissive, because he's her protector, but there's that slight instance in a relationship where the roles are switched, the man has no option, all he can do is support her if he wants the relationship to continue, and child bearing is the instance that I speak of.

Why the fukk should the woman be the only one making decisions when it comes to childbearing? If I'm going to devote my resources/time to a kid you best believe I'm going to have a say in whether or not he/she is born. And how many chicks in 2013 with careers are willing to let the man be the "authority of the household"?

 

[skeetsinternal]

 

[MikelArteta]

You sure about that?

yes I'm sure about that.

 

[OfTheCross]

Yup.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Becauseeeeee it's not the fathers decision. I believe that a marriage (never been married before, too young) is ideally headed by the male, he makes all of the decisions, is the authority of the household, and the woman is somewhat submissive, because he's her protector, but there's that slight instance in a relationship where the roles are switched, the man has no option, all he can do is support her if he wants the relationship to continue, and child bearing is the instance that I speak of.

Why should it not be partly the fathers decision, when it took both man and woman to make the child? The child is just as much the mother as it is the fathers.

 

[twan83]

I respect that But it seems to me that kids with extreme birth defects or extreme physical/mental disabilties are suffering

that maybe so but my love for that child will help with that suffering seeing their father work hard taking care of em too their best of their abilities and tell em i love em everyday that no matter what people say or hard it might be ur daddy will be with you every step of the way

 

[the cac mamba]

My question is if you had a child on the way and the doctor said that he/she would be born with down syndrome, cerebal palsy or a major birth defects, would you consider aborting the child?

wouldnt even be a question, i cant stand retarded people

i know thats a stupid thing to say but

 

[Ronnie Lott]

wouldnt even be a question, i cant stand retarded people

i know thats a stupid thing to say but

Damn breh, you are #HardOnRetards

 

[NotaPAWG]

wouldnt even be a question, i cant stand retarded people

i know thats a stupid thing to say but

 

[Ronnie Lott]

yes I'm sure about that.

If your girfriend got raped by an old stinkin homeless man, would u want her to keep the child?

 

[the cac mamba]

Damn breh, you are #HardOnRetards

hardontards

 

[Canada Goose]

Yes, I would abort that baby with the quickness

And this is coming from someone whose autistic.

 

[MikelArteta]

If your girfriend got raped by an old stinkin homeless man, would u want her to keep the child?

she wouldn't be my girlfriend anymore

 

[beanz]

i never thought about this til once at a family bbq. i have a mentally and physically disabled cousin named juan carlos. this one summer we had a bbq at someone's house and there were a ton of kids there playing all sorts of games. juan carlos was strapped to a chair cause he was about 13 at the time and too big and strong to play with the other kids but he wanted to soooo bad that he just cried and cried til finally his mom took him home. it was heartbreaking to see.

i would suggest an abortion to my wife. im against abortion's in general but u gotta think about his quality of life.