Dealing with people that have "problems"

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My girl got this wild skin condition thing, cant eat wheat and fruit and dust makes her scratch like a crazy person

this shyt is pissing me off now brehs,

my bed ive had for years is NOW fuking her up, woke up and shes telling me her skin hurts all over, im like ay the sheets are clean what more do u want? :why: if u want me to get new bedding then suggest one, the bytch just left all angry n shyt cause i said i;ll take care of it soon, and the funny thing is she wanted to sstay at mine till the 5th, knowing that my bed is fukking up her skin

anyway she left all furiously and crying cause im not sorting it out right now, like cot damn i just paid rent, can i live?

any of u guys had to be wit someone that has problems you dont deal with on a daily basis ?
 

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tell her that you love her and that you will sort it out but until then you don't need her attitude. tell her that until it's sorted out, she can't sleep at your place and maybe she should stay at her parent's or something (whatever her circumstances are). or even tell her to sleep on the sofa until then. in the meantime fix the issue. if you give her that option and she's still bytching, seriously consider throwing her in the bushes and analyze her passed behavior to see if she has a history of being passive aggressive and you never realized it. her continuing bytching despite you laying down the plan to fix the issue means she either doesn't trust/respect you or she's a manipulator. is the stress she's bringing to your life worth the value she adds?
 

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tell her that you love her and that you will sort it out but until then you don't need her attitude. tell her that until it's sorted out, she can't sleep at your place and maybe she should stay at her parent's or something (whatever her circumstances are). or even tell her to sleep on the sofa until then. in the meantime fix the issue. if you give her that option and she's still bytching, seriously consider throwing her in the bushes and analyze her passed behavior to see if she has a history of being passive aggressive and you never realized it. her continuing bytching despite you laying down the plan to fix the issue means she either doesn't trust/respect you or she's a manipulator. is the stress she's bringing to your life worth the value she adds?

i suggested that she pick and find the sheets she wants cause i really dont care but im not going to just go out and get sheets just like that, like i been out already, paid rent now let me chill i'll order it from amazon but shes like "ok then dont see me for a month cause i know u wont do it" im like :why:
 

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Tell her to buy a new set of sheets and wash them in mild detergent or fragrance free. Don't use any fabric softner or dryer sheets either. You could also try cleaning the mattress but just wiping it down or steam cleaning it if you have one.
 

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i suggested that she pick and find the sheets she wants cause i really dont care but im not going to just go out and get sheets just like that, like i been out already, paid rent now let me chill i'll order it from amazon but shes like "ok then dont see me for a month cause i know u wont do it" im like :why:
my bad, i thought she was allergic to the fabric of the matress. tell her to go buy her gotdayum sheets herself and to quit bytchin then.
 

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my bad, i thought she was allergic to the fabric of the matress. tell her to go buy her gotdayum sheets herself and to quit bytchin then.

Tell her to buy a new set of sheets and wash them in mild detergent or fragrance free. Don't use any fabric softner or dryer sheets either. You could also try cleaning the mattress but just wiping it down or steam cleaning it if you have one.

just told her, waiting for what she says
 
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