Dear ‘Broke’ Men: Don’t Punish A Woman for Not Wanting to Date You (EBONY)

[Jhoon]

Articles like this is why there's a disconnection between men & women specifically in our communities because everything is about money. When I read these articles it tells me these women don't want love they want money, the big white picket fence, the expensive luxury cars etc etc just a bunch of fantasy living & probably are the type to brag about how a man needs to make over 100k in salary (when majority of them don't even make anything close to that) just to have a chance to blow their back out when they've already done constantly let flipping burger type dudes bust em down back in high school/post graduate.

I have a question for you. What made you believe they didn’t?

 

[Balla]

Who's broke ?

nikkas on the coli make 80k+ and have stem degrees, all of them.

When they're articles about black men not finding jobs or being broke, black men from the coli don't apply.

They’re broke.

Must be, people in here are mad that women won't entertain men who can barely take care of themselves.

 

[Tribal Outkast]

 

[KingJudah2]

i love these articles like black women are all successful multimillionaires or some shyt

Chicks working pointless cubicle jobs with homo white men. They only got the gig because they're agreeable, won't collectively bargain.

 

[I Really Mean It]

Waiting for an article with a title that reads, ‘Dear Black Men: We Are Not Obligated To Date You’


It’s coming.

 

[TheNig]

dude sit your lame ass down,this women only talk shyt because they are the gatekeepers, when their back is against the wall they got nothing to say then GTFOH.

So what's to stop you from being the gatekeeper my brotha? If you have your shyt together then a bytch can't tell you nothing.

Vice Versa....

Broke women, single moms, overweight bytches, etc.

Don't feel bad if a nikka doesn't want to "date", marry, etc., to you either.

Exactly...

If a nikka can shame a bytch for having 6 kids by 8 different nikkas, why cant a bytch shyt on a nikka for not being shyt?

I think there's just too much finger pointing in our community. Everybody blaming everybody but no one wants to take accountability.

 

[Canon]

If a nikka can shame a bytch for having 6 kids by 8 different nikkas, why cant a bytch shyt on a nikka for not being shyt?

these situations aint even close to comparable

 

[badtguy]

these article are hilarious, because the writers like many women esp. Black ones live in lalaland.

Most wealthy well to do men. Are going to date in the In their social class. Most these women will date fukk and get impregnated by broke men. This isn't anything new.

Before a chick marries a millionaire or broke guy she's going to get fukked and dumped by multiple ones, although she only needs one sucker to wife her.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

So what's to stop you from being the gatekeeper my brotha? If you have your shyt together then a bytch can't tell you nothing.



Exactly...

If a nikka can shame a bytch for having 6 kids by 8 different nikkas, why cant a bytch shyt on a nikka for not being shyt?

I think there's just too much finger pointing in our community. Everybody blaming everybody but no one wants to take accountability.

That was really my point

She can finger point but so can us men... not even just the broke ones.

The exact same shyt can be said PLUS more... so take accountability. This article didn’t even need to be written, because like the cliffs above, everything is literally “No shyt”

If broke nikkas are out here getting mad that bytches aren’t trying to fukk/date, then so are broke females, baby mommas, etc., getting mad that nikkas don’t want to “date” them either.

 

[EndDomination]

nikkas came in mad as hell in this thread

 

[Gold]

If someone doesn't want to date someone who doesn't have money, let them be.

I cannot fathom getting upset because a woman tells me i dont make enough to date her.
I make a decent amount of money so its whatever to me, i'm sure i'll find another

 

[BlackMajik]

The non-black women you date when you come up wouldn’t have looked your way when you were broke. It’s ok when a non-black woman doesn’t want to date a broke man, but it’s a problem when black women don’t?

Got em

 

[Gold]

So what's to stop you from being the gatekeeper my brotha? If you have your shyt together then a bytch can't tell you nothing.

This.
This and only this.


Brehs need to stop getting offended and get on their own shyt

 

[Jhoon]

The men who are mad about this are entitled as fukk. Women dont need to struggle with you because you're struggling. We should all aim to date ppl on our caliber or higher.

At what point do you realize that both black men and women are struggling?

 

[BlackMajik]

nikkas came in mad as hell in this thread

Exposing themselves lol