Great question, that I think a lot of men have to come to terms with eventually. I'm at a similar crossroads and I'm thinking of going a more abstinent route. Leading a more spiritual life seems more in tune with my upbringing and just the nature of my character.
I like women a lot, and I've been dealing with a few women and just reflecting on the relationships and situations I've encountered over the past year and where I'm at in life. Prioritizing women just doesn't make sense. It's a hard thing to do, but I'm dead ass going to try hard this time and keep myself in check.
What other people do, is up to them. Some people are womanizers and it works for them and that's cool, but the shyt ain't working for me, honestly. For you, it might be a similar deal, you just gotta weigh the pros and cons.
I think it's a question that I wish most older men really went deep into it and told me about they do in their life. At the same time though, they probably knew I wasn't gonna listen anyways and it's just something you gotta experience.
