Sir - say this Mormon ain't the chick you said was a factor in you thinking about relocating 1500 miles away for.
The one that's a little racist? (Your words -

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I'm wrestling with this and its a reservation I have. But hold up, she isn't a driving factor in why I'd relocate to Denver. That's one, and I said that, in that thread.
Two, you'll also remember in that thread, I said she's never said anything bad about black people around me, not once. She's made a few comments about Mexicans and Asians, and neither were the usage of slurs, which I also said. But it was talking like, "you know how Asians are" and relating up steteotypes.
So part of my concern is that if she speaks that way about other groups, of course she must have similar conversations about black people when we aren't around, right? Also, her roommate is a white woman who does the same thing (talking about stereotypes of minorities); and her most recent ex, a Mexican, was racist towards black people.
So I have concern and we've had conversations surrounding race. She's from Salt Lake, bruh (specifically a town called Bountiful, Utah). She went to high school with like 4 black kids. She didn't have black neighbors growing up, other than one neighbor's black husband, and they didn't have kids. Plus she grew up Mormon which is a culture rife with racism, misogyny, homophobia, etc.
I call her "Mormon" on here but she's really an ex-Mormon, she hasn't practiced in years. She was never around black people in any great number intil she moved to Fort Worth, where her Mexican ex was from. Living in Denver the last couple years is damn near the most black exposure she's ever had (and it's relatively alot because she lives in the Washington Virginia Vale neighborhood of Southeast, which is 15% black; and she works in Northeast Denver, which, Northeast is the size of the entire city of Salt Lake, but NE Denver is 18% black, whereas Salt Lake in the same land area/population, is only 2% black)...so my point is, she lives among and interacts with more black people since leaving Utah for Texas, than she ever did in her first 24 years in the Salt Lake area.
This chick is a bisexual woman who loves men of color and has a history of being a party drug user (acid, Molly, coke). She's not really a Mormon, all those things are anti-Mormon

but 24 years growing up in Mormon culture, in a sea of whiteness, I try to think about how that impacted her, the same way how all of us were raised, impacted us.
So yes, I think she's a little racist, and I weigh this into any kind of consideration of a future with her. Other than that she's actually pretty brilliant.
And no, she ain't the reason I was thinking of moving to Denver. She'd be an attached benefit, but I stated my motivations for moving to Denver.
I want no smoke by the way
@murksiderock

I don't always agree with your opinions but you're a solid poster.
No doubt, I aint got smoke for anyone here. As I stated, I make threads in fun, I'm not offended by people here, but it is humorous watching the moral police and virtue signaling that alot of these guys have. Its all good though, I'm not tripping!