Debunking The Myth: "don't shyt where you eat"...

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YOU WON in that you that you missed the early wave of 'me too'. Simultaneous tristes and innuendo with multiple young females breeds a ripe and formidable HR jacket.
 

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Sir - say this Mormon ain't the chick you said was a factor in you thinking about relocating 1500 miles away for.

The one that's a little racist? (Your words - :hubie:)
I'm wrestling with this and its a reservation I have. But hold up, she isn't a driving factor in why I'd relocate to Denver. That's one, and I said that, in that thread.

Two, you'll also remember in that thread, I said she's never said anything bad about black people around me, not once. She's made a few comments about Mexicans and Asians, and neither were the usage of slurs, which I also said. But it was talking like, "you know how Asians are" and relating up steteotypes.

So part of my concern is that if she speaks that way about other groups, of course she must have similar conversations about black people when we aren't around, right? Also, her roommate is a white woman who does the same thing (talking about stereotypes of minorities); and her most recent ex, a Mexican, was racist towards black people.

So I have concern and we've had conversations surrounding race. She's from Salt Lake, bruh (specifically a town called Bountiful, Utah). She went to high school with like 4 black kids. She didn't have black neighbors growing up, other than one neighbor's black husband, and they didn't have kids. Plus she grew up Mormon which is a culture rife with racism, misogyny, homophobia, etc.

I call her "Mormon" on here but she's really an ex-Mormon, she hasn't practiced in years. She was never around black people in any great number intil she moved to Fort Worth, where her Mexican ex was from. Living in Denver the last couple years is damn near the most black exposure she's ever had (and it's relatively alot because she lives in the Washington Virginia Vale neighborhood of Southeast, which is 15% black; and she works in Northeast Denver, which, Northeast is the size of the entire city of Salt Lake, but NE Denver is 18% black, whereas Salt Lake in the same land area/population, is only 2% black)...so my point is, she lives among and interacts with more black people since leaving Utah for Texas, than she ever did in her first 24 years in the Salt Lake area.

This chick is a bisexual woman who loves men of color and has a history of being a party drug user (acid, Molly, coke). She's not really a Mormon, all those things are anti-Mormon 🤣 but 24 years growing up in Mormon culture, in a sea of whiteness, I try to think about how that impacted her, the same way how all of us were raised, impacted us.

So yes, I think she's a little racist, and I weigh this into any kind of consideration of a future with her. Other than that she's actually pretty brilliant.

And no, she ain't the reason I was thinking of moving to Denver. She'd be an attached benefit, but I stated my motivations for moving to Denver.
I want no smoke by the way @murksiderock
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I don't always agree with your opinions but you're a solid poster.
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No doubt, I aint got smoke for anyone here. As I stated, I make threads in fun, I'm not offended by people here, but it is humorous watching the moral police and virtue signaling that alot of these guys have. Its all good though, I'm not tripping!
 

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High risk especially nowadays as a man and leads to inevitable tension/akwardness and even conflict

fukk that bytch gotta be bad for all that
 

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I’ve smashed chicks at multiple jobs

Only on the coli is it forbidden, most of you dudes get no p*ssy outside marriage/relationships :yeshrug: in reality this happens all the time

I’m about to smash 2-3 different chicks at my job. At work it’s business I’m not in your face all the time or bringing drama in there. Chicks be down if you a chill dude who don’t cause drama which I don’t

Real talk they be on me I’m not a thirsty dude these chicks be choosing
 

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U da homie but this just seems more suited to be called 'The Sexcapades of A Nicca Named Murk' :hubie:
This is only women I've worked with though, so a real "Sexcapades Of Murk" thread would include the women I've knocked down who I didn't meet thru work 😂

This fits the thread though because all these hanging out with women I worked with, never Me Too'd, job never in jeopardy, no real drama in the workplace---though like I said a few in the past, when I was tagging multiple women in the same place, a few of them got at me, but it was never AT work.

I am in mid-management in my career, I got it good, and I would never do nothing to fukk up my money. If I did it wouldn't be because of a woman, I can tell you that. It would be because I had a flashback and had to set a nikka straight, but I've been able to be good on that front, too. It's all good here.
 

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didn't read all of that
exactly

like the great kodak brehscott told ti..


didnt read ... long sentence

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High risk especially nowadays as a man and leads to inevitable tension/akwardness and even conflict

fukk that bytch gotta be bad for all that
You still work in education, right? Another industry that's notorious for coworkers sleeping together (and even worse, pedophiles are common in that industry).

I've known multiple couples who were educators and met thru work, and heard stories of educators and their trysts...

To your point though, I'd caution any brother on, if you feel uncomfortable, err on the side of caution and don't do it!
I’ve smashed chicks at multiple jobs

Only on the coli is it forbidden, most of you dudes get no p*ssy outside marriage/relationships :yeshrug: in reality this happens all the time

I’m about to smash 2-3 different chicks at my job. At work it’s business I’m not in your face all the time or bringing drama in there. Chicks be down if you a chill dude who don’t cause drama which I don’t

Real talk they be on me I’m not a thirsty dude these chicks be choosing
Bruh anybody who been in here for years, and is used to female attention and getting skins, can tell nikkas who aint used to action or female attention, and there are alot of those nikkas on here. In fukking abundance.

Yes you can fukk this up by being a messy nikka or having shytty discretion or fukking with messy women.

nikka upthread called me "thirsty" for sleeping woth women at work and said I aint got options 😂 its exactly what you said, women in general are drawn to certain types of brothers, and if you have the right profile, they throwing it at you.

I've slept with 16 women I met thru work but could've slept with quadruple that number at least, if I was a whorehound just chasing anything.

The man can set the standard from jump on the kinda brother he is and if the bar you set is you aren't a dramatic, messy, jackass, you can have these work affairs and end up in no situations. I ain't for the bullshyt and know how to swerve off mf's if they even appear the slightest bit messy!
 

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Like if you dont plan on being there for 20 years then yeah its a myth, but if its my career, hell fukk no too many women out here to risk that shyt
 

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It's bullshyt

I've never had a problem smashing female coworkers ever.

Just don't be a weirdo. Don't cut her off. Let her cut you off if she ever decides to. And at work treat her normal like any other coworker. It's that simple.
 

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It's bullshyt

I've never had a problem smashing female coworkers ever.

Just don't be a weirdo. Don't cut her off. Let her cut you off if she ever decides to. And at work treat her normal like any other coworker. It's that simple.
nikkas ain't player, bruh. They don't really know how to handle interactions with women.

Again if you feel uncomfortable about it, don't do it, but oftentimes just being a professional or an authentically smooth brother eliminates the risks. Just don't be a weirdo 🤣

Ain't never had no issues!
 

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nikkas ain't player, bruh. They don't really know how to handle interactions with women.

Again if you feel uncomfortable about it, don't do it, but oftentimes just being a professional or an authentically smooth brother eliminates the risks. Just don't be a weirdo 🤣

Ain't never had no issues!
Ain't shyt about you player. :mjlol:

You a lame who don't have any savvy intelligence and a p*ssy scavenger who fukks the lowest hanging fruit that will give you the p*ssy.


You definitely grew up in a weak household and you need attention by any means.

Most likely I assume you had no father in your home growing up and your mother was mean as fukk to you.

You have 3 daughters and barely see them while you live in the same state as them and you begging the coli to cosign you moving away so you spend even less time with them.

You definitely on the spectrum, you stay making threads about any random ass city like you some sort of an expert on it.:mjlol:

You at conflict with yourself and afraid to stay and have to think on all the bad choices you made so you always focused on any random ass place you can go to, to run from yourself. :wow:

You constantly make threads then make another thread that disagrees with the thread you made before.

The fact you got yo pic as an avi on here like you thirsty for male attention is zesty as fukk.

You a whole ass loser.
 
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