Delaware puts Child Support Cards in Effect
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Thats why direct deposit is still the option.
As long they are cutting the check and the kid is good all that extra (checking my transactions)is unnecessary.
With our without, I'm sure that kid isn't hurting too bad anyway.
And miss me with the outrageous numbers you see celebs pay. The average nikka ain't paying more than $200 - 300 a month unless they have a roster of kids.
Not true a lot of brehs are spending 800-1700 for kids shyt I'm paying 977 for my oldest.
A positive power move. If taking care of the kid is burdensome, maybe living with the Father would have been a better choice.Not that that is true in all cases, but hey, it is what it is.
How is it a good idea? Men don't put this much effort into visitations and being an active part in their child's life but whine and moan over money.
It prevalent where the emotions lie because its more men in jail for not paying child support than women in jail for denying visits.
In theory, that sounds cool...but I think alot of you don't think about what really goes into "child care"
Its not just diapers, clothes, food and formula. The kid needs books, toys, may live in a state where the mother has to pay for early education, lights and water (utilities), transportation to and from school.
I'm not for a woman buying Gucci bags with support money just like the next man. But to limit what can be bought i.e. (SNAP/WIC) then I see it making the situation much worse than it is.
I mean you really think they are going to allow car note payments with that card? Or a trip to Barnes & Noble or even Toys R Us?
Just saying its alot more complicated than what people think it is.
Its not just diapers, clothes, food and formula. The kid needs books, toys, may live in a state where the mother has to pay for early education, lights and water (utilities), transportation to and from school.
I'm not for a woman buying Gucci bags with support money just like the next man. But to limit what can be bought i.e. (SNAP/WIC) then I see it making the situation much worse than it is.
I mean you really think they are going to allow car note payments with that card? Or a trip to Barnes & Noble or even Toys R Us?
Just saying its alot more complicated than what people think it is.
Of the mother was smart, she would give up the child to the father.
When a woman loses custody of her kids, 95% of them either fail or refuse to pay child support and they don't suffer the same consequences as men for doing so.
Because she's bitter and defeated, she chooses to do nothing. Even when she's asked to pay the minimum of $25 a month because her bum ass refused to get a job and thought child support was her meal ticket.
Only broads mad about this are broads that aren't doing the right thing by their children with the money.
Because she's bitter and defeated, she chooses to do nothing. Even when she's asked to pay the minimum of $25 a month because her bum ass refused to get a job and thought child support was her meal ticket.
Only broads mad about this are broads that aren't doing the right thing by their children with the money.
They ain't speaking up about that. Many of them cease all contact with their kid. Hell, for this thread not to have at least 300 posts by now, is very telling of the "Grown" coli mindset.
If you can't take care of a kid with the money you make, maybe you should reconsider having custody. A man is less likely to take a woman to court for child support when he has custody.
Not all men are deadbeats. Some women just refuse to give up custody no matter how fukked up their living conditions are.
Not all men are deadbeats. Some women just refuse to give up custody no matter how fukked up their living conditions are.
that isn't what we are talking about.
Stuff like car payments and the electric bill she has to pay from her own pocket. She uses that stuff by default, so no CS money going to that.
that isn't what we are talking about
Because they don't want to talk about it.
It destroys the whole child support-deadbeat narrative that they are trying to ram down our throats
Ask these women. They all will tell you that they believe women are superior parents to men and because of that they always should have custody and the father should pay child support to help support their decision to be single mothers.
Child Support is used as a tool to punish a man for not doing what the mother wants. These arrangements of payment and childcare can be set-up without getting the courts involved. CS is used as a control mechanism.
It is a woman's way of exercising control over an ex and having some say in his life for years to come.