Delaware puts Child Support Cards in Effect

[wickedsm]

I don't think otherwise married people don't pay child support. Child support isn't needed until after the parents divorce if they were married.

He said "be careful who you marry brehs"

Most of the people on child support were never married is my point[/B[.

wrong.
the divorce rate is over 50% in this country
married then divorced parents are much more likely to be involved in the cs system because its a direct part of the divorce proceedings.

people do need to be careful not only who they impregnate
but who they marry also

 

[Giselle]

What are you talking about? What is so hard to understand? Child support IS for the kid and shyt for the kid isn't just toys and clothes and food.
It's like y'all don't understand Mazlows Hierarchy or some shyt.

Food, Water, Shelter are literally the most BASIC needs of any human being. Kids need alot more than basic needs to learn and grow.

If you think that the parent that has the kid LIVE with them isn't coming out of pocket more that the other you fooling yourself.

I get where you are going, but you keep talking about fairness in a situation in which the foundation is fundamentally unfair. Regardless of WHO has custody. The other parent isn't putting as much in the pot as the other one. Which is why hoes need to be on that pill and nikkas need to stay strapped up. Period.

The child lives in both the mom's and dad's house. Why should the dad pay for both houses? That's not fair at all.

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Child support is supposed to be used on anything that you wouldn't buy/pay for if you were child less excluding food. A person would still need to pay for their own house, car, light, gas, water, tv internet bills, so childsupport should not be used for that. If should be used for food, the child's clothes, the child's school, the child's activities. Whatever the child needs. Not what the mom needs. The mom should be able to pay for her own stuff.

The mother should be able to pay for her own shelter and her own water bills and other bills, just like the father is paying for his own. If she can't pay for her own house and stuff, then the father should get custody until she can make enough money to pay for her own stuff instead of using the child's money.

The one who has custody spends more time with the child obviously. The only time it is proven that they spend more money on the child is if they make more than the person who doesn't have custody, and women usually date up so...

 

[Giselle]

wrong.
the divorce rate is over 50% in this country
married then divorced parents are much more likely to be involved in the cs system because its a direct part of the divorce proceedings.

people do need to be careful not only who they impregnate
but who they marry also

Just because the divorce rate is 50% doesn't mean that all of them or even most of them had kids with their ex spouse. Especially if they got married older like most peple are doing these days. There are more kids born outside of wedlock than there are inside. Which means that most kids on child support parents were never married.

He tried to blame this on marriage and marriage is not the main issue here, it's getting randoms and people you aren't married to pregnant.

 

[Black Magisterialness]

The child lives in both the mom's and dad's house. Why should the dad pay for both houses? That's not fair at all.

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Child support is supposed to be used on anything that you wouldn't buy/pay for if you were child less excluding food. A person would still need to pay for their own house, car, light, gas, water, tv internet bills, so childsupport should not be used for that. If should be used for food, the child's clothes, the child's school, the child's activities. Whatever the child needs. Not what the mom needs. The mom should be able to pay for her own stuff.

The mother should be able to pay for her own shelter and her own water bills and other bills, just like the father is paying for his own. If she can't pay for her own house and stuff, then the father should get custody until she can make enough money to pay for her own stuff instead of using the child's money.

The one who has custody spends more time with the child obviously. The only time it is proven that they spend more money on the child is if they make more than the person who doesn't have custody, and women usually date up so...

As a guy who's parents did this shyt I can tell you for damn sure my moms was coming out of pocket wayyyy more than my dad. And sure I "lived" there for a couple weekends a month, but that shyt is no EVERYDAY. A additional mouth to feed EVERYDAY, to clothe and bathe and educate and transport EVERYDAY. It is NOT the same I can tell you that much. So the kid doesn't need to get to school? Or the kid doesn't need a more safe and positive environment?

This card is a good start for the most heinous of people but I see alot of grey area here. What if the mom is freelance or a contract employee or gets laid off. That support may be what holds her over for that kid until she gets a better situation. Cuz "go live with your daddy" is often not an option. Good if it is though.

 

[shynewhatts]

fukk thots with a big ass raw and get mad when your paying for 18 years on a shorty you dont see anyways bruhs fukk you think was going to happen

 

[TrillaThanMost]

$890/month 10k/yr...ten yrs left FML

 

[Youhadasparkwhenustarted]

I see no logical argument against something like this, it should be done nationwide.

 

[O.G.B]

Just because the divorce rate is 50% doesn't mean that all of them or even most of them had kids with their ex spouse. Especially if they got married older like most peple are doing these days. There are more kids born outside of wedlock than there are inside. Which means that most kids on child support parents were never married.

He tried to blame this on marriage and marriage is not the main issue here, it's getting randoms and people you aren't married to pregnant.

Wrong! Some of you need to start doing research first before making silly, erroneous statements.

You keep making the same stupid sweeping generalizations when in fact most men who pay child support were actually married first then separated or divorced.


"Characteristics of Custodial Mothers. About 31.2 percent of custodial mothers have never been married. The remaining ever-married mothers included (43.7 percent) who were divorced or separated and 25.1 percent who were currently married or widowed."

"Characteristics of Custodial Father. The majority of custodial fathers were divorced or separated (56.2 percent), while 24.5 percent were currently married or widowed and 20.3 percent had never been married."

http://www.census.gov/people/childsupport/data/files/chldsu11.pdf

Child Support Statistics and Trends - FindLaw

 

[Wild self]

Truth right here, the rare time that the father gets custody, women will be bigger deadbeats than the worst of men.


My mom had her first child really young, the father got custody.

I haven't seen my oldest brother in over 20 years and it's been longer for my mom

That happened to my cousin his his ex wife. They had a son first, which was biologically his, and then they had a daughter unexpectedly.

Turn out that the daughter wasn't his, and she cheated on some thug nikka. He filed for divorce and the judge, who was level headed, forced her to give up the b*stard daughter to the man that impregnated her. she was so unfit to be a mother, that she cut off all contact of all her kids, and that was nearly 14 years ago. The boy is 16 now and he don't even remember his own moms.

 

[Wild self]

One of the go to insults that women lean on is attacking men's sexuality.
They say something you don't like?
He comes off a little strange or too quiet?
Turned you down?
They're either gay or don't get p*ssy.
We can twist it to suit any debate for the sake of scoring a point for our respective squads in the gender war, but like it or not, the reality is a man's sexual prowess (or lack of) definitely factors into a woman's opinion of him.
And only online can we pretend women don't either think a guy is gay, socially awkward, or all of the above if he doesn't have sex or at least gives the appearance of being sexually desirable and adept.
I don't even disagree with your assessment that men clown other men -- because we do -- but get real.
19 year old college males are a lot more worried about the cute chick in their lit course believing they're inexperienced and a virgin than they're worried about their roommates joking about getting them laid every Friday.

Yep the first thing they attack dudes is the lack of ability to get ass from women.

 

[iceberg_is_on_fire]

From men like myself, the state will force you into child support if you divorce and then men usually fall. I'm make a decent amount so it doesn't affect me as much as it does other brehs. However, I'm in a situation, as I put on this site in a thread that I'm fighting for custody. I got everything from Facebook posts, to her driving record, candid audio and video recordings, both her and her loser boyfriend being discussed, health records, his domestic abuse charge. I had to pull some strings but I'm bringing the kitchen sink with me to court. shyt about how her mother is supporting her right now with other things. Oh yes, ether will rain in the court room. Paperwork getting mailed off Monday.

 

[Giselle]

Wrong! Some of you need to start doing research first before making silly, erroneous statements.

Most children are born out of wedlock now.

In 2013 it was 47.5% for all children and has increased since then a little over 50%

But for black children specifically, the percentage is in the 70s

Go Google it.

You keep making the same stupid sweeping generalizations when in fact most men who pay child support were actually married first then separated or divorced.


"Characteristics of Custodial Mothers. About 31.2 percent of custodial mothers have never been married. The remaining ever-married mothers included (43.7 percent) who were divorced or separated and 25.1 percent who were currently married or widowed."

"Characteristics of Custodial Father. The majority of custodial fathers were divorced or separated (56.2 percent), while 24.5 percent were currently married or widowed and 20.3 percent had never been married."

http://www.census.gov/people/childsupport/data/files/chldsu11.pdf

Child Support Statistics and Trends - FindLaw

I see you didn't add the 2000, 2001 dates attached to that article

Post info from 15 years ago to try to prove a point brehs.

That stuff is not accurate anymore. Out of wedlock children are the majority now and marriage rates have decreased dramatically since then.

 

[Giselle]

As a guy who's parents did this shyt I can tell you for damn sure my moms was coming out of pocket wayyyy more than my dad. And sure I "lived" there for a couple weekends a month, but that shyt is no EVERYDAY. A additional mouth to feed EVERYDAY, to clothe and bathe and educate and transport EVERYDAY. It is NOT the same I can tell you that much. So the kid doesn't need to get to school? Or the kid doesn't need a more safe and positive environment?

This card is a good start for the most heinous of people but I see alot of grey area here. What if the mom is freelance or a contract employee or gets laid off. That support may be what holds her over for that kid until she gets a better situation. Cuz "go live with your daddy" is often not an option. Good if it is though.

Yes. The child support should pay for food as I already said and for school and stuff. Go back and read.

The father shouldn't be paying for both houses. Both parents should be able to pay their own bills. If they had to pay for it without a child excluding food, then they shouldn't use the child support money to pay for it.

The child should go with the parent who can afford them if both want the child.

If the mom loses her job, the child should live with the other parent who can afford the child until she gets back on her feet.

What isn't fair is the child automatically going to the mother. I would love to see how they decided who the adopted child goes to in lesbian and gay couples. They should use that same judgement for hetero couples.

My parents did this too. They were divorced and he wasn't on proper childsupport. My mom always made more money than my dad until recently.

 

[buffruff]

at least all these younglins who didnt get shyt from their greeedy ass moms using their child support to finance their weaves and shyt can finally live a decent life.

 

[Pinyapplesuckas]

Please be careful on who you marry brehs

who gets married before having a kid?