Delaware puts Child Support Cards in Effect

[The_King_of_Everything]

who gets married before having a kid?

Smart men.

 

[O.G.B]

Most children are born out of wedlock now.

In 2013 it was 47.5% for all children and has increased since then a little over 50%

But for black children specifically, the percentage is in the 70s

Go Google it.

Wrong again!

Single Motherhood, in Decline Over All, Rises for Women 35 and Older
Claire Cain Miller @clairecm MAY 8, 2015

"Single parenthood was on a “mysterious and alarming rise,” becoming a “huge problem,” according to a 2013 article in the Atlantic. The lawyer defending same-sex marriage bans before the Supreme Court last month argued that out-of-wedlock births were growing rapidly.

In fact, however, the birthrate for unmarried mothers, which had been steadily increasing since the early 1980s, peaked in 2008 and has declined 14 percent since, more than the decline for all women. The recent declines were sharpest among teenagers; black and Hispanic women; and those without a college degree — all of whom have typically had the highest rates of single motherhood — according to data from the Census Bureau and the National Center for Health Statistics.

There was only one group of unmarried women for whom the birthrate increased in recent years: those 35 and older. In many cases, they are having babies outside of marriage by choice, with more resources and education than the typical single mother.

They are still a small minority. But if these trends continue, single motherhood could become less of a sign of family instability. It could increasingly become one of the new ways people are choosing to form families, in an era when both marriage and divorce are declining."

http://www.nytimes.com/2015/05/09/u...re-falling-except-among-older-women.html?_r=0

http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/databriefs/db162.pdf

Also what you fail to understand is that even though women/men may have more children out of wedlock, this has no bearing on the fact many mothers who have b*stard kids don't get or can't collect child support due to:

A. Women who have no idea who the actual father of the child is
B. Child support can't locate or find the father of the child to collect
C. The father completely refuses to pay child support
D. The father can't pay child support due to being imprisoned or deceased
E. Women using sperm donors to have children

Jennifer Williams, 43, at home in Pleasant Hill, Calif., with Maya, the daughter she conceived through sperm donation.
Credit Jason Henry for The New York Times

Therefore, your theories are completely incorrect as the factors based on out of wedlock children aren't completely indicative of the facts that more men or women who pay child support were actually married first then separated or divorced as opposed to single individuals in out of wedlock or casual sex situations.

I see you didn't add the 2000, 2001 dates attached to that article

Post info from 15 years ago to try to prove a point brehs.

You obviously clearly have a reading problem as the other census data source I previously submitted as well is actually from 2011.

http://www.census.gov/people/childsupport/data/files/chldsu11.pdf[/QUOTE]

 

[Elle]

Thats why direct deposit is still the option.

As long they are cutting the check and the kid is good all that extra (checking my transactions )is unnecessary.

With our without, I'm sure that kid isn't hurting too bad anyway.

And miss me with the outrageous numbers you see celebs pay. The average nikka ain't paying more than $200 - 300 a month unless they have a roster of kids.

And they be crying about that.

 

[General Mills]

From men like myself, the state will force you into child support if you divorce and then men usually fall. I'm make a decent amount so it doesn't affect me as much as it does other brehs. However, I'm in a situation, as I put on this site in a thread that I'm fighting for custody. I got everything from Facebook posts, to her driving record, candid audio and video recordings, both her and her loser boyfriend being discussed, health records, his domestic abuse charge. I had to pull some strings but I'm bringing the kitchen sink with me to court. shyt about how her mother is supporting her right now with other things. Oh yes, ether will rain in the court room. Paperwork getting mailed off Monday.

Keep us informed fam. You should make a thread on this with updates.



Edit: I am not sure how it works but don't do it if it can come back on you in the case if she knows you post here.

 

[iceberg_is_on_fire]

Keep us informed fam. You should make a thread on this with updates.



Edit: I am not sure how it works but don't do it if it can come back on you in the case if she knows you post here.

It doesn't matter breh, I'm ready. I'm chronicling for all of the down and out brehs, who feel like that this system will fukk you forever. That said and this is a huge caveat. I got a lot on her and I mean a lot, all of this will be explained as my situation progresses and I will post a thread. I'll show everyone the lengths I went though to get this done. Saving phone call conversations, getting text messages sent to my email, saving online conversations with kids, hawking Facebook posts and screen-capping, getting tickets owed and driving records, W-2's, candid recordings, audio and videos as well as health records of the kids. On top of that, creating a video with me narrating, in presentation form, showing every single piece of documentation that I have wasn't fraudulent with links to every thing online, before it inevitably gets scrubbed away. I have too much to walk out without custody.

 

[Adebisi_Said]