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[Rozay Oro]

What did he do before? Because if you spoke on him before, there could be a pattern of animosity.

He’s apologized before instantly when he’s stepped out of line. Taking out pent up stress on me. You gon threaten me and then exit room without coming back. Just kick me out or dismiss the situation.

I can forgive the nikka but I see regardless I’m need to make new friends. This nikka antics while we share a small tight social circle ain’t the wave.

I gotta branch out but I’m unfortunately not a social creature. I don’t want to seek tinder hoes for company.

 

[LauderdaleBoss]

My nikka you need to hit the weights and take up boxing. It feels like every thread you make is about how one of your hoe ass friends be talking cash shyt to you. Them nikkas think you the bytch of the crew so you gotta shoot the fade with someone or leave the circle. You gotta do something tho.

 

[Rozay Oro]

When your circle all of a sudden gets small it's usually because you're about go through a change that they can't or don't need to be around for. You sound sad when it more than likely a blessing.

Make friends with yourself nikka...

It’s hard when you feel like your own damn worst enemy at times.

 

[Negro Caesar]

Y not just hit him up and talk y’all shyt out. I’d rather be the bigger man and try to work some shyt out with my “best friend” than having to go through the hassle of hanging with new people u probably won’t like. If u know ur boy a hothead I don’t get why y’all so mad. What was said?

 

[Rozay Oro]

a lot shyt changed these past 2 years and this fukkery gon be going on at least another year. People quitting jobs left and right, moving outta state so you got more than enough bandwidth to switch your shyt up without overextending yourself.

so you might as well crack our your shell and feast. Females is choosing and you ain’t gotta commit to a damn thing. Your autonomy is the most valuable thing you got right now and even tho you had a lil falling out with your peoples, keep moving forward. None of this shyt matters in the grand scheme of things. That’s something these old heads never told us.

Yeah but the pandemic ain’t effecting us cause we not bums. We humble enough to do whatever to pay the bills as long as it ain’t no crazy shyt.

I’m not saying I need to settle down but at this point in my life at 26. I want a connection not just fukk hoes.

 

[Coolin']

Not tryna be in your business, and I've only read the first page, but I think some context would better explain the situation. What was he saying to you to make you defend yourself?

 

[Rozay Oro]

Y not just hit him up and talk y’all shyt out. I’d rather be the bigger man and try to work some shyt out with my “best friend” than having to go through the hassle of hanging with new people u probably won’t like. If u know ur boy a hothead I don’t get why y’all so mad. What was said?

The nikka been on some fukk shyt lately. I was beginning to distance myself but he hollad so I said fukk it that day. I can’t keep bein around negativity

 

[Rozay Oro]

Not tryna be in your business, and I've only read the first page, but I think some context would better help me understand. What was he saying to you to make you defend yourself?

The nikka threatened me and not in a joking matter. I had to ask that nikka wassup then

 

[tuckgod]

What do yall usually do when yall hang out?

Play hide the salami

 

[Rozay Oro]

Play hide the salami

Cmon nikka. Coli sweeter than kevin samuels

 

[Crayola Coyote]

He sounds like a lame and I would go do my own thing and cut him off. I think he is jealous of you over something. I had a friend like that. I always stood on what I believe in and he was a people pleaser. We are not friends anymore and I’m glad though.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

It don’t sound like he views the friendship the same way you view it. Sounds like he thinks he’s above you and doing you a favor. Don’t stand for down talk breh

THIS.

 

[Ed MOTHEREFFING G]

Lotta a$$hole replies in here so I'll give you advice as a 38 yr breh who's been thru shyt like this. Just bullet points

• You're 26. That's FAR from being too old to build friends and realistically you're holding on to a friend from when you were 16. If you've grown apart over the way you communicate or petty shyt then you are best to just cordially move on. It's not no beef shyt, just keep it moving and say what up how you been when you see them. This isn't highschool where you have to worry about seeing them in the hallway, and this isn't gangsta shyt where it's on sight. People drift apart.
• You are a different person from when you met so it could be best to make friends who are where you are socially. If you make connections at work, at other activities (if you are active, like the gym or I have friends thru a running club I used to go to) you have real life shyt in common. Most of my friends are from work, and are friends-of-a-friend who become my friend. That tightens the circle anyway.
• Most importantly; you don't have to manage how another man reacts to situations. If you don't like it, bring it up if you think it's worth it...if not keep it moving. The one person I knew from Michigan before I moved to Seattle (he moved here before me) and I fell out right when COVID hit because he did some semi a$$hole shyt and I realized...he is just low key a shytty friend. If we see each other it's no beef but we aren't talking much.

You're grown men now. You don't even need to make it complicated or over think it. You won't lose the other friends unless you weren't really friends to begin with. Btw, there is a difference between a friend and a drinking buddy. Think on that.

 

[tuckgod]

Cmon nikka. Coli sweeter than kevin samuels

Sorry

 

[Swing]

Maybe he feels some type of way with you not accepting his behavior?

Have you been the type of person to not speak out about shyt like this before? You gon get hit with the ”you’ve changed” speach.

If thats your friend, be the bigger person and dont leave the situation hanging. Speak with him, explain your side and give him the opportunity to set it right.

But like others are saying, sometimes we go thru changes in life; we’re not thinking, behaving, acting the same and some people wont be along for that journey you’re embarked on.